BEWARE! Middle-Aged Man Observing SJI and RI Schoolboys

[ChiefKiasu]

Dear parents,


If your child has been personally stalked by this Bishan Gay character, please report to the police asap, at the number that Singaporean has so kindly provided. We really need to come together to ensure that this fellow does not progress to doing something that may be much worse than just stalking kids.

[involvedparent]

My son had an encounter again. This BG came up the bus 156 at MacRitchie (he was not on the 156 bus when my boarded it at RTC), came beside my son (who tried to stand further away unsuccessfully) and started blowing into his hair again. My son was frozen with fear and could not even shout out loud. My son acted as if he was going to get off at the next stop, and noticed the BG taking out his own wallet as if he was going to follow suit. At the next stop, after another boy exited, my son waited for a moment, and jumped off at the last minute so that the BG could not follow. He was successful. He waited for the next 156 bus and boarded. But to his horror, after the bus had travelled a few stops, he saw the BG waiting to board this bus! He immediately got off the bus at the same stop. He was crying at the bus stop when the mum came to pick him.


Police report made and actions have been planned out.

[auntieM]

involvedparent,

Hope the police do something this time…
this guy is really sick :x

[Jennifer]

involvedparent:

My son had an encounter again.... He was crying at the bus stop when the mum came to pick him.


Police report made and actions have been planned out.

So sorry to hear this happened to your boy again. Hope he is feeling better now.

Did you notify the school? Can the sch arrange for a buddy for your boy to go to sch together?

[Singaporean]

involvedparent:

My son had an encounter again. This BG came up the bus 156 at MacRitchie (he was not on the 156 bus when my boarded it at RTC), came beside my son (who tried to stand further away unsuccessfully) and started blowing into his hair again. My son was frozen with fear and could not even shout out loud. My son acted as if he was going to get off at the next stop, and noticed the BG taking out his own wallet as if he was going to follow suit. At the next stop, after another boy exited, my son waited for a moment, and jumped off at the last minute so that the BG could not follow. He was successful. He waited for the next 156 bus and boarded. But to his horror, after the bus had travelled a few stops, he saw the BG waiting to board this bus! He immediately got off the bus at the same stop. He was crying at the bus stop when the mum came to pick him.


Police report made and actions have been planned out.

It must have been traumatic for your son, and I hope your son gets over this incident soon.

This man has intentionally harrassed your son, and I think you have rightly made a Police report. From what I've read from your previous posts, this is already the 2nd time that the man has purposely disturbed your son, and if nothing is done, this predator will probably stalk your son again. So yes, I think you've done the right thing to report this man.

I hope the Police will get this man. He must be stopped from displaying such predatory behaviour towards helpless children. Can you keep us posted here on this thread about what the Police is doing/ has done? Thanks.

Wishing you and your son well.

[tutormum]

Involvedparent, I suggest that you get the school to arrange a senior to accompany your son. The senior can also act as a witness to build up your case. Now, it's only your son's words against his so it's not a very strong case. This BG sure knows nothing much can be done against him at the moment and having been doing it for years confirms this. I also suspect that he's getting bolder and not to frighten you, he may move on to something else. So far from what I've read from the articles and comments, this BG thinks that as long as he is not caught with his pants down, he can get away scot free. :x :x The best is to get the senior tape his actions on the handphone. With evidence, this BG can be prosecuted. :nunchuk:

[Jennifer]

Maybe we should not discuss any how to get this guy prosecuted in the public forum? Do it via PM? Just in case, he stumbles into ksp forum? JMHO

[corneyAmber]

Quick thinking Jennifer! :celebrate:

[Singaporean]

tutormum:

Involvedparent, I suggest that you get the school to arrange a senior to accompany your son. The senior can also act as a witness to build up your case. Now, it's only your son's words against his so it's not a very strong case. This BG sure knows nothing much can be done against him at the moment and having been doing it for years confirms this. I also suspect that he's getting bolder and not to frighten you, he may move on to something else. So far from what I've read from the articles and comments, this BG thinks that as long as he is not caught with his pants down, he can get away scot free. :x :x The best is to get the senior tape his actions on the handphone. With evidence, this BG can be prosecuted. :nunchuk:

I agree with this suggestion. If the students can go in twos or in small groups, they can protect themselves by gathering evidence if one of the students gets harrassed. Strength in numbers!

If the man aka BG realises that students are now looking after one another, he may be frightened off and thus stop his predatory behaviour - and that's all the better. The idea is to deter him from harrassing the students.

[CoffeeCat]

If he is a psycho, perhaps he will welcome this idea. Any resistance put up byhis potential victims might appeal to him, just a thought. Anyway I suggest the schools or affected parents pool together to hire a pi to stalk the stalker and gather evidence of his harassment.