Club FTWM

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lovekidsverymuch:

My elder son started talking when he is 30 months till that time his word bank had just 6 words :!:

:thankyou: for the words of consolation. did you feel panicky? did you (contemplate) to send your DS to see a specialist?

[pixiepixel]

lovekidsverymuch:

Yes panicked to the core wanted to show doctors but then MIL stopeed said wait boy slow mah then someone said ppl who start talking late become intelligent :love: so we stopped worrying then later he learnt though one thing bout him was watever he spoke was correct pronounciation he never spoke in baby language...

*looks up to the sky* so when will my day come? :? haiz

[b2b3m4]

Hi,

I’m a FTWM and i hated it.
I feel i could have done more for my children if i could have stayed at home. Now my kids’ weekends are packed with classes bcos i cannot sent them for classes on weekdays.

My kids are 6, 4 and 1.5 yr.

[on_plus_kiasu]

Hi,


Just came across this club.. Hehehehe.. have been posting for some time now.

I am A FTWM with DD1 2.5yrs and DD2 1.4 yrs. I used to love working but nowadays I really hate working. Wanna quit and be SAHM but Hubby cannot afford

Glad there are people like me here where i can gather support... :celebrate:

[vlim]

heee...I also would like to report myself here as FTWM.


I am working in my brother's company so that's why u can see me kpo here so often...

[fussyMummy]

on_plus_kiasu:

....but nowadays I really hate working...

Alamak, I dont have any motivation to work recently ..

see this, I more think to quit.... :stupid:

But, can do this only when $$$ drop from sky...

dream dream dream ....

[Luvkid]

Come on, everybody, be happy & face it!! :celebrate: I am one who cannot be SAHM for long long time, hence i choose to be FTWM. At the same time, i am not the one who bochap to my 2 DS, and DH I do want time to be with them...... :love: I am not earning high pay; take home pay is like sufficient to cover the kids child care & student care,the lower premium insurance,my daily expenses for lunch & transport.......there is no much left. All i earn is CPF which use to deduct monthly instalment, barely hitting the amount to be deducted monthly If i choose not to work, then how? Everyday trouble for money not enough and screaming on top of my voice for my 2 DS?? .........unless i can be tai tai which is not possible cos DH not earning high pay too..... So stop dreaming and face it!! :celebrate:

[fussyMummy]

Hi Luvkid,


Must dream abit sometimes, for myself... sound :siao: right?

If not I think I wll :nunchuk: those unhelpful colleagues and :stupid: myself...

[b2b3m4]

Not to mention the reason why we work bcos we are kiasu mummies who need to send our kids for extra lessons. Sourcing for properties near good schools and indulge in their favourite japanese food.

Sometimes i do take a step back and wonder if my kids wld have prefer me to stay at home and spend more time with them and give up all their little luxuries. Wld they be better off if i’m the one who guide and teach them at home than to send them to all these classes.
But i come to realise that is not at all possible bcos i have no patience and i will most probably scream my whole block down everyday.
Sigh… okie… back to work.

[fussyMummy]

b2b3m4:

.... scream my whole block down everyday.

Sound familier...