Homosexuality

[WeiHan]

ks2me:

So who are you related with? :?

You all kiasu parents are really quite ganchiong and cute sometimes... :lol:

[corneyAmber]

WeiHan:

You all kiasu parents are really quite ganchiong and cute sometimes... :lol:

Yeah..ks, gc and kawaii all in our blood... So?? :?

[WeiHan]

ks2me:

Yeah..ks, gc and kawaii all in our blood... So?? :?

so??

cute loh.

[corneyAmber]

WeiHan:

cute loh.

Aiyo...who are you related to? :please:

[WeiHan]

ks2me:

WeiHan:

cute loh.

Aiyo...who are you related to? :please:

Don't be so ganchiong lah....I need to sleep...tell you next time.

[corneyAmber]

WeiHan:

Don't be so ganchiong lah....I need to sleep...tell you next time.

*thud* :faint:

[cluelessmom]

Mrsbongz:

I believe the thread starter just thought to seek forummers' opinions, nothing more.. we can still share while respecting each other's opinions rite..

It seems some of the post are bordering on personal attacks rather than sharing of views and opinions........

One of my close girlfrd shared wif me this recently, she told me tat since her ds was 4 yrs old, whether it's her maternal instinct or something more, she had a very strange feeling tat her ds may grow up to be a \"special & delicate\" boy...well to me her ds looks perfectly active and normal like any other 7 yr old kid. Anyways, she told me she has been trying to fight off this nagging feelin until recently she had her fortunes read. The fortune teller was spookily spot on her life in the past (father and bro passed away, current marriage etc) her present and then the fortune teller spoke abt her ds and wat he said was wat she had been fearing. Strangely, she was able to come to terms with it though she is still trying hard to guide the boy in the right direction, keeping her fingers crossed. She daren't tell her dh abt tis as her dh is a very traditional male and wld probably freak out. Wat she said was whether the boy grows up to be normal or not by social standards, her ds will remains her lovable boy and she just wants him to be happy.......Certainly, we wan our children to grow up with the \"right\" sexual orientation...but if they don't wat are we to do? Disowned and cast stones at them? Berate them and try to change them or simply be a little more understanding and accept them as who they chose to be........

[corneyAmber]

Cluelessmum, most parents are just making their stand on how they want to guide their children. If truly one day it is found that the child has a certain tendency, I am sure all these matured and well-read parents would know how to manage that as well. And this is termed as EXCEPTION handling.


In the NORM way, most people would like to see the normal course is being charted out...and what is so wrong with that to go the natural course? As parents we do not go around assuming our child has a certain condition until proven to be so. However, in the liberalisation ideology, people are advocating that this is something to be endorsed as natural, if it is not, how to? Like what hquek said, call a spade a spade.

So if your friend's kid has such tendencies, of course she has to be mentally prepared for it but life will not go the normal way. Can she call it normal if she will not have a female DIL to argue with and grandchildren to hold in her arms? :? But of course life goes on.....

[cluelessmom]

Wat is normal and natural is a matter of perception… wat is normal, natural and accepted in one culture and society may not be so in another…

Frankly, I felt uncomfortable too when I see those male Indian workers holding hands on the streets bt I learnt to respect their culture…

[daisyt]

During a discussion, dd was asking, \"Do parents rather solve their kids BGR or lesbian relationship?\"


I told her \"BGR is a matter of the appropriate timing, there is nothing wrong with BGR. Lesbian, regardless when, its always not correct.\"