Married but can be bridemaid?

[smurf]

hmm, then what about jie mei? are jie mei same as bridemaid?? :?


me not hot lah...just we were quite close when Uni time...but hardly meet up now as I've 2 boys to look after...

Hi Insider,

wah, how to find such match with ba zi must tally even for bridemaid and bridegroom? :lol:

[tankee]

IMO jie mei is the same as bridemaid

[tree nymph]

married can’t be jiemei too? I’ve been one for my friend before, and i was married already. Nowadays, we have so few siblings and cousins that we have to ask our good friends to be our jiemei too. if you are last one to get married among your close friends then you will not be able to have your trusted and close friends to be with you on the most important day of your life… maybe a little 遗憾. so from practicality point of view, its ok lah.

[tree nymph]

... to add on my post...


if pantang, then better not.

[smurf]

Thanks mummies (and daddy) for sharing.

[smurf]

er, they are not I think...she is not...but she invited me to be her jie-mei leh...which means she probably dun mind?? :?

[Andaiz]

smurf:

er, they are not I think...she is not...but she invited me to be her jie-mei leh...which means she probably dun mind?? :?

Smurf, the lead jie mei in the most recent wedding among my friends, is a married woman. It matters only if it matters to the bride, groom and their families.

I was already married when my good friend asked me to be the maid (matron rather) of honour - similar to bridesmaid lah, just married nia :roll: so again, terminology loh!

I agree with insider et al., if the family or you pantang, then best not to agree. Just my 2 cts worth!

[smurf]

hmm, I dun mind to be jie mei…but dun want to be involved if next time they have any argument pertaining to this lor…hahah…to play safe lah…

[skunk]

just don’t try to snatch the bouquet can already LOL

[toddles]

haha.


definitely can. my friend had 4 bridesmaids, three married with one kid each, and the fourth was pregnant second trimester! and all four walked down the aisle before her.

think it’s mainly the brides’ personal preference, if her family don’t step in and make noise.

For jiemei, even less rules i think.