School counselling

[stayhome]

Donkey kong,


"School counsellor is no use. Even Child Guidance Clinic no use."
May I know what had you worked with them. I planning to send my son for the school counseling.

I has tried canning my son for past a year but I find it don’t work well. It just stopped him for a short time and the behaviour came back. I use back my own method. It take longer time but the result are forever. canning on my son and dd2 no use. But it work well on my dd1 just one cane she would not do it anymore.

[Donkey Kong]

School counsellor will ask parents and kids to meet him/her at school. Then, talk talk talk. Then, she said kid is ok in school, must be something wrong with your parenting. Suggest you go FSC to settle. Indirectly telling us: Nothing concern school.


CGC staff are not very well trained. I guess the well trained ones have left to set up their private clinics. But, very expensive. 1 session $200. Can we HDB folks afford?

S$200 per session is for RMS/D. Rich men sons and daughters. :? Long term paying $200/se is killing. :stupid:

[millan]

Donkey Kong:

School counsellor will ask parents and kids to meet him/her at school. Then, talk talk talk. Then, she said kid is ok in school, must be something wrong with your parenting. Suggest you go FSC to settle. Indirectly telling us: Nothing concern school.


CGC staff are not very well trained. I guess the well trained ones have left to set up their private clinics. But, very expensive. 1 session $200. Can we HDB folks afford?

S$200 per session is for RMS/D. Rich men sons and daughters. :? Long term paying $200/se is killing. :stupid:

Hi my son in Sec 1 , in waiting list for the school counsel. Beside school, any idea what other avenue we can go? and not so ex one?

thks

[Donkey Kong]

millan:

Hi my son in Sec 1 , in waiting list for the school counsel. Beside school, any idea what other avenue we can go? and not so ex one?


thks

Go Poly Clinic and get referral letter to Child Guidance Clinic. If you are Singaorean/PR, get some subsidies. :lol:

Go private like Mt E kind of clinics, $200 per visit. :stupid:

[ahmei]

anyone has seen a school counsellor, can you share if it is a must for the teacher to ‘refer’ the student to the counsellor?

[jedamum]

ahmei:

anyone has seen a school counsellor, can you share if it is a must for the teacher to 'refer' the student to the counsellor?

My son said his teacher told him to look for counselor if he needed someone to talk to - when he was in p1-2. Not sure if any referral, but he treated the counselor as someone he could speak to when he didn't know what to do or handle certain situation.

[ahmei]

Thanks for reply. Doubt my child will want to go on her own accord.

[Kiasu Auntie]

Donkey Kong:

School counsellor will ask parents and kids to meet him/her at school. Then, talk talk talk. Then, she said kid is ok in school, must be something wrong with your parenting. Suggest you go FSC to settle. Indirectly telling us: Nothing concern school.


CGC staff are not very well trained. I guess the well trained ones have left to set up their private clinics. But, very expensive. 1 session $200. Can we HDB folks afford?

S$200 per session is for RMS/D. Rich men sons and daughters. :? Long term paying $200/se is killing. :stupid:

Yes agreed that approaching a School Counsellor is totally no use, keep saying that the kid is ok & normal, just that the kid is too lazy & giving excuses. So refuse to refer the kid to MOH for test of ADHD & Dyslexia.

[Rae4kids]

My DD had anxiety and stress in P1. Probs because of the sudden change in environment as we had just moved and she got into a new school without any friends. The counseller was very helpful, and according to my DD, she said she felt calmer after each session. By mid-year, my DD was completely stressfree. Now, she is having her PSLE this year and she says she feels slightly stressed. If the situation gets worser, will definitely have a few more counselling sessions.