Where to find SuperNanny in Singaore?

[Donkey Kong]

Think angmos, esp. Americans, are generally very encouraging.


Old man like me was searching for courses to upgrade. Some local staff told me, you may difficulties coping, or this course is targeting those under 35.

American lady in another course told me: 40 is just the beginning of life! :celebrate: Made my day! Angmos are generally positive!

[toddles]

Try to read Jo Frost’s supernanny book? And apply the techniques?


Why your wife cut off ties? So serious ah?

Or write to supernanny and see if she has any associates in Singapore? You never know.

[Eagle Chan]

....then try to find out more about this subject lor.....


I am someone who is very interested in human behaviour and I learnt that we can do a lot to help motivate/ influence others. When we are able to control or influence a person, all behaviours can be controlled. It is a matter of how much power and determination we have, against how much resistance we are facing.
This is true especially for those we have direct 'control' over....(our own children) --- For those whom we don't have direct control, we first need them to allow us to control or influence.

[Donkey Kong]

Woman's heart is like needle in the ocean.... :lol:


Quarreled with Father-in-law over childcare issues, then cut ties lah... :?

Husband sandwiched in between, support who? :?
One side- my dear father
One side - my dear wife

support any side also kenna scolded jialuk jialuk.....

Very hard to be human being.....

[LOLMum]

Donkey Kong:

Woman's heart is like needle in the ocean.... :lol:


Quarreled with Father-in-law over childcare issues, then cut ties lah... :?

Husband sandwiched in between, support who? :?
One side- my dear father
One side - my dear wife

support any side also kenna scolded jialuk jialuk.....

Very hard to be human being.....

what about her parents? can they help?

hate to tell you this but supernanny is not real. it was exposed on papers (i think last year) that some of the kids were coached into behaving well once camera went rolling. parents involved in the show have said that the methods were not working.

i dont know how long you have been a sahp but if it was a recent decision, now is a good time to bond with kid and get to the root of the problem.

if you are still working, find some time to bond. maybe you should take a look into the way he was being brought up all these years.

as i said in my other posts, i made some wrong decisions and it took some quarrels, some cryings, some soul searching before it was corrected. not easy especially if main caretakers are parents.

your kid is still young, there is still time but dont take your own sweet time.

[pinkapple]

LOLMum:

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hate to tell you this but supernanny is not real. it was exposed on papers (i think last year) that some of the kids were coached into behaving well once camera went rolling. parents involved in the show have said that the methods were not working.
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really ah... chey.

LOLMum:

... maybe you should take a look into the way he was being brought up all these years.

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your kid is still young, there is still time but dont take your own sweet time.

yup. look into the way he was being brought up.

I never agree with the \"kid is still young\" idea though. everything starts from young. if young can't control, older worse.

[Donkey Kong]

I think MOE and MOH should look into this issue seriously. May be they just despatched their first few batch of scholars to specialise in this area recently. :shock:


The quickest way is to employ Foreign Talents experts in this area. So many spoilt kids on the streets. Saw a mother slapped by her kid in the shopping centre last week.

Wow, I am not alone.

When they grow up, office equipment would fly for no reason..... just becoz they are pissed off. My colleague likes to bang table, #$%& bad words, throw mouse on the floor, whenever he is unhappy.
He is related to big boss, so manager also :oops:

:?

[pinkapple]

Donkey Kong:

I think MOE and MOH should look into this issue seriously. May be they just despatched their first few batch of scholars to specialise in this area recently. :shock:

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are you joking?

Donkey Kong:

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The quickest way is to employ Foreign Talents experts in this area. So many spoilt kids on the streets. Saw a mother slapped by her kid in the shopping centre last week.
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no need foreign talents. my hubby can be supernanny.

I asked him to consider this as his 2nd career, he said will have no biz cos the parents won't be able to bear him caning their children.

[edunloaded]

Donkey Kong:

Kid has been misbehaving like those in the series \"Super Nanny\" screened on OkTO Channel. Getting violent these days. scratch and hit mummy


I tried the \"Time Out\" method, cannot work lah...

Can anyone advise me where to find Super Nanny in Singapore. Called up Child Guidance Clinic run by MCYS, they said no such things in Singapore.

Any experts here in Child Discipline? :?

Saw a few episodes on Youtube. U can try watching it there!

[tamarind]

We do use the time-out method with our younger boy, it worked for him. Once we kept him crying in the naughty corner for more than 2 hours. Parents just need to be firm. Now that he is 6 years old, we rarely have to use the time-out method.


My older girl "time-out" herself, when we scolded her, she automatically hid in a corner and cried quietly.

We also used removal of privileges which is very effective with our kids.

My hubby is much better than me at disciplining the kids. He never canes the kids. But my boy, is very well-behaved when he is with Daddy. My boy’s PD, who is famous, said that "Kids grow into our expectations". My hubby expects no nonsense from our boy, that is why he does not dare to mis-behave. I am an indulgent mommy, so my boy likes to take advantage of me.