2016 O levels (Kids born in 2000)

[Essential]

Hi Janet, Sorry to hear that .

Please encourage your DS . Perhaps MI is better for him .
All the best to you and your DS , hope DAE is a successful one.

[jtoh]

Hi Janet,


Do encourage your son. Maybe with the extra year he’ll manage alright with CL and GP.

[iFirefly]

jtoh:

Hi Janet,


Do encourage your son. Maybe with the extra year he'll manage alright with CL and GP.

Janet..

Has your boy been attending Orientation / lessons in MI since last Friday ? How does he find MI (teachers, peers, school environment & culture) ? If you wanna spare your boy from endless waiting / uncertainties / disappointments, you may wish to consider (again) if MI is a better option for him.

Good Luck & All The Best to your boy !!

[zbear]

Charnic:

Hi, Janet,


Sorry to hear that. Pls encourage your son to accept what HE has planned for him. In my working life, I have witnessed enough cases of success which does not commensurate with qualifications. If you asked me, what I think constitute to the SUCCESS of a person is really the attitude. This is the ONE that can make or break a person. Qualification is just a piece of paper and I believe there are more than one path to achieve this. Please dun take it too hard and stay positive. Take care !

I agree. Attitude is more important than academic qualifications.

Everything happens for a reason n when 1 door is closed, another will open.

This experience will make your DS a stronger n better person.

Hope that he will succeed in his DAE.

:xedfingers:

[janet88]

iFirefly:

Janet..

Has your boy been attending Orientation / lessons in MI since last Friday ? How does he find MI (teachers, peers, school environment & culture) ? If you wanna spare your boy from endless waiting / uncertainties / disappointments, you may wish to consider (again) if MI is a better option for him.

Good Luck & All The Best to your boy !!

yes. he has been attending orientation since last friday.
based on the talks and some introductions on the subjects, he foresees having difficulty in GP, and i personally feel the same because his english is not that good. that would be his killer subject.

it has been an agonizing wait but as long as there is a chance to appeal, he still wants to try.

[janet88]

zbear:

Hope that he will succeed in his DAE.

thanks zbear.
it was a mistake made to put MI as the first choice...but no point harping on what has happened but to move on, appeal and hope for the best. i hope this process will make him understand how important education is and study harder for his future.

[sharonkhoo]

janet88:

iFirefly:

Janet..

Has your boy been attending Orientation / lessons in MI since last Friday ? How does he find MI (teachers, peers, school environment & culture) ? If you wanna spare your boy from endless waiting / uncertainties / disappointments, you may wish to consider (again) if MI is a better option for him.

Good Luck & All The Best to your boy !!

yes. he has been attending orientation since last friday.
based on the talks and some introductions on the subjects, he foresees having difficulty in GP, and i personally feel the same because his english is not that good. that would be his killer subject.

it has been an agonizing wait but as long as there is a chance to appeal, he still wants to try.

Actually, English is not the most important thing for doing well in GP. An average ability to form sentences is all that is needed, and what is more important is the ability to think about issues and form arguments for and against. So encourage him to give it a good try - he may surprise himself.

Another idea is that he could apply to poly again next year, though that will mean another year of study.

[Nebbermind]

slmkhoo:

Actually, English is not the most important thing for doing well in GP. An average ability to form sentences is all that is needed, and what is more important is the ability to think about issues and form arguments for and against. So encourage him to give it a good try - he may surprise himself.

Another idea is that he could apply to poly again next year, though that will mean another year of study.

So should come in to ksp to practise?? :siam:

[sharonkhoo]

Nebbermind:

slmkhoo:

Actually, English is not the most important thing for doing well in GP. An average ability to form sentences is all that is needed, and what is more important is the ability to think about issues and form arguments for and against. So encourage him to give it a good try - he may surprise himself.

Another idea is that he could apply to poly again next year, though that will mean another year of study.

So should come in to ksp to practise?? :siam:

If they can do it without getting personal and emotional, I guess!

[MrsKiasu]

Janet, ‘adversity’ could make someone grow faster. It could be a good experience to go through now. Think of it positively and best of luck to your ds in whatever he takes. Keep encouraging him.