Cold Wars (with your spouse)
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Jennifer:
Jennifer, :hugs: .......vinegar:
Anyway,we always so busy until no time to quarrel coz no time to talk
My cold war with hubby has ended. I started the pillow talk before he falls asleep. It is the only time I get his full attention. A few nights of pillow talk cleared up many issues.
Vinegar, we are like you, busy until no time to quarrel,
, but somehow we got lots of \"fire\" whenever one of the dd fallen ill, stressed maybe... 
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The common things start are financial, kids and parents in law
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3Boys:
Agree!
You MUST make some alone time. Your kids won't suffer for a little less attention once in a while, they WILL suffer if your marriage falls apart.
One of the best gifts we can give to our children is a loving relationship with our spouse. -
sunlight7:
When all else fails, give each other a hug, you will be surprise how the physical contact can dissipate the tension bottled up inside.Best to settle everything before going to bed.
I am in fear of cold war, its so awkward and chilly, its no fun for everyone - the parents and the kid(s). :hugs:
Cold war that last too long will become contempt and that is hard to reverse and very bad for the relationship. -
Agree with Osim - Cold war that last too long will become contempt and that is hard to reverse and very bad for the relationship.
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Agree with Osim about the hugging point. Hugs can instantly boost oxytocin levels, which heal feelings of loneliness, isolation, and anger. Holding a hug for an extended time lifts one’s serotonin levels, elevating mood and creating happiness.
Hug your spouse today if you’re in the midst of a cold war! -
During a cold war, I barely want to look my husband in the eye; how to hug him?!
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aiyo. My husband likes to start cold wars with me.
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BloomSchoolSG:
During a cold war, I barely want to look my husband in the eye; how to hug him?!
in a cold war now. i don't even want to see his face. hug him? no way.
as long as he doesn't know the cause of the cold war, no way will i forgive him. he can be so bloody dense.
the part which made me totally pissed is when he said i have a big mouth for saying he has been retrenched and asked around. 好心给雷劈. -
janet88:
You don't explain then how he knows
in a cold war now. i don't even want to see his face. hug him? no way.
as long as he doesn't know the cause of the cold war, no way will i forgive him. he can be so bloody dense.
Men typically not too sensitive to mood or cause of trigger :siam:
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