Me Time!
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Nebbermind:
Me time has turned into me chore?
When hubby gets his ME time, he only does one thing -100% attention on the ME time activity which could be watching F1, reading fiction novels or watching YouTube videos.
Whereas I will be multi-tasking- ironing clothes/ folding clothes/ etc n watching KD drama at the same time.
Life is not fair.
I decided to make it less unfair- he will iron his clothes on Sunday from last week on. -
the kind of weather I like. got things done earlier today. put all soup ingredients into slow cooker..and waiting for one portion of meat to defrost in pan with all garlic and ginger ready in pan. just need to stir and cook later. bought meetaimak and slim horfun fm mkt this morning when went there to get some flowers. i m ready to pia now
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Jennifer:
It's a man-woman thing? In general, my observation is that women just naturally and, out of necessity, multitask better than men. As long as my husband does his share of tasks (which in our partnership, are different from mine), I don't care whether he multitasks or does them sequentially, as long as they get done in the end.Nebbermind:
Me time has turned into me chore?
When hubby gets his ME time, he only does one thing -100% attention on the ME time activity which could be watching F1, reading fiction novels or watching YouTube videos.
Whereas I will be multi-tasking- ironing clothes/ folding clothes/ etc n watching KD drama at the same time.
Life is not fair.
I decided to make it less unfair- he will iron his clothes on Sunday from last week on. -
MrsKiasu:
the kind of weather I like. got things done earlier today. put all soup ingredients into slow cooker..and waiting for one portion of meat to defrost in pan with all garlic and ginger ready in pan. just need to stir and cook later. bought meetaimak and slim horfun fm mkt this morning when went there to get some flowers. i m ready to pia now
what is pia?
StarL , u on leave ?
Jen , i think all or most men can be totally immersed in their Me Time , even my ds & dh are like that, mums/wife need to multi task, our job like never ending
just read slmkhoo post : men cant multi task well- i think my ds is like that , i need to give him more time n b patient with the young man ! i am not upset as long as dh done his house chores or he does things/chores really fast n efficient ( my standard not v high lar, if want his help in chores :evil: -
MP
Working afternoon shift and therefore free in the morning
I agree women tend to multi tasking but not men -
MyPillow:
just read slmkhoo post : men cant multi task well- i think my ds is like that , i need to give him more time n b patient with the young man ! i am not upset as long as dh done his house chores or he does things/chores really fast n efficient ( my standard not v high lar, if want his help in chores :evil:
But not all women multitask well either - my older daughter can't! Asking her to do more than 1 thing at a time just stresses her and in the end nothing gets done properly. But I think it's generally true. -
slmkhoo:
It's a man-woman thing? In general, my observation is that women just naturally and, out of necessity, multitask better than men. As long as my husband does his share of tasks (which in our partnership, are different from mine), I don't care whether he multitasks or does them sequentially, as long as they get done in the end.[/quote]I do not see it as multi-tasking weakness, more like \"I want to enjoy my ME time without disturbance/ disruption\". Who does not like this type of ME time? I also want to RR peacefully.Jennifer:
[quote=\"Nebbermind\"]Me time has turned into me chore?
When hubby gets his ME time, he only does one thing -100% attention on the ME time activity which could be watching F1, reading fiction novels or watching YouTube videos.
Whereas I will be multi-tasking- ironing clothes/ folding clothes/ etc n watching KD drama at the same time.
Life is not fair.
I decided to make it less unfair- he will iron his clothes on Sunday from last week on. -
DH can multitask.
Do and scold kiddos, complain non-stop as he goes about the chore. -
Nebbermind:
Me time has turned into me chore?
after chores come ME TIME. -
Funz:
funz dh sounds like me in aunti operations mode once a blue moonDH can multitask.
Do and scold kiddos, complain non-stop as he goes about the chore.
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