Blissfulmum of 3

[Blissfulmum]

HyperKiasu:

no no no, u r not a failed mother....

i think he is smart by nature. very inquisitive, observant, exploring life....can understand why u love him most becoz u have to devote more time to him....

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hmmm... no, in fact, I am extremely guilty. I don't think I have put in enough time for my boys, since DD3 is a super glue when she is at home with me.

I felt sorry and guilty to DS1 cos it's barely 18mos different between DS1 and DS2. I \"leave\" DS1 very much to DH since DS2 was born.. and now I regretted it. Not that DH is a terrible father, but I \"lost\" the closness with DS1.. in someways.. he is satisfied with watching TV, playing comp games or PSP the whole day and he is OK if we leave him alone doing that the whole day!!

DS's character is entirely different!! he needs varieties and changes! he can't stand doing one thing the whole day or most of the time. In fact, he did once told me that he is lonely... even though he has a brother who is similiar age to him, he has a room full of games, computers, PSP.. he wants more than 1 person playing monopoly with him!!

But as u know, I am already very exhausted after work and remaining energy goes all to my DD3...

I am truly guilty.. and that's why i don't call myself super mom.. cos i am really not.....

[KoalaMummy]

Blissfulmum:

that's why i don't call myself super mom.. cos i am really not.....

well, i gues none of us can qualify \"super mom\"... we just have to love our children and care for them....

[Blissfulmum]

KoalaMummy:

wow blissmum, you echoed my life too... my P4 ds (eldest) is like that too... really challenging to handle him...sometimes i wonder why he's so different from his didi and mei mei, who are more obedient than him...but...he's different, as you mentioned. God created him this way, and we just have to love and accept him as he is, however tough it is, right?

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yes, KoalaMummy, it's tough... but it's somewhat...a pleasant experience ... Shd be thankful that they are bright? dont' we?

[KoalaMummy]

Blissfulmum:

yes, KoalaMummy, it's tough... but it's somewhat...a pleasant experience ... Shd be thankful that they are bright? dont' we?

agree :celebrate:

[HyperKiasu]

on anther note, blissfulmum, i dun think ur kid is misbehaving. he just displays some non-confirmity behavior, but not \"mis\"....


perhaps u can share with geppers' mum on parenting gifted kids via the other threads

http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?t=30

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[Blissfulmum]

HyperKiasu:

on anther note, blissfulmum, i dun think ur kid is misbehaving. he just displays some non-confirmity behavior, but not \"mis\"....


perhaps u can share with geppers' mum on parenting gifted kids via the other threads

http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?t=30

Thank you, HyperKS!! :hugs:

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