Me Time!

[hercules]

Need enough money to live happily.


Anything above that can buy probably ‘superficial happiness’.

True happiness comes from within and never from exterior.

[starlight1968sg]

Hercules

This woman is incredible and deserves all respect.

[doodbug]

Joyymum\" post_id=\"1900590\" time=\"1551452412\" user_id=\"134876:

doodbug,

I find Mr Right not bad actually although the front part can be annoying due to the lead actress character but I like the part where the drama also focus on the father and son sour relationship due to lack of communications (very realistic in this society) which eventually turns into mutual understanding and care for one another. Overall is watchable and I really like their sense of fashion

I did not like Jin Dong's styling and character in Mr Right lol Too wimpy for me.

I prefer him as a doctor (in Surgeons) than dentist (Mr Right). HAhahaahha!

[Estéema]

ngl2010\" post_id=\"1900636\" time=\"1551495243\" user_id=\"40978:

Money can be earned back but it is hard to find soul mate.

Anyway, to each his own.

Yes. Soulmates are not easy to find in an urban jungle, everyone trying to up the game and plasticity. Young ppl (esp females) measure potentials with worldly yardsticks & overlook what is deep inside the heart.

Life is about faith, care, love, motivation & a lot of hard work to maintain. Without love, one can hv tons of money but no meaning to life and where there’s no love & someone to come home to & respond to your day’s experiences. There’ll not be much motivation towards a fruitful life - we work hard to maintain our family, ensure the kids are fed, hv clothes & education. Everything else is extra. Enuf is good. Sufficiency is good.

Money can buy love? I’ll always be living in doubt if my money is gone, then love gone?

Money & material haves gives the illusion of well-being. What is impt is what lives within. To own a big house requires more maintenance. So, it’s either we busy ourselves maintaining our properties or nurture & maintain the people who live in any property with us. It’s either we hold on well & juggle the marbles of relationships or juggle the headaches of owning cars, properties or branded bags (corporate ladder for some).

Soulmates journey with us thro thick & thin. Anything purchased with money just give me doubts.

I wld like to share a very touching video, but will take time to figure out how to. Hope I get to, owise only a handful of u whom I hv contact can hv & hope someone tech savvy can share here after receiving. Akang Dayang wait arh ...

[janet88]

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900643\" time=\"1551496317\" user_id=\"17023:

We are talking about “soul mate” having EMA outside. And what could be the next step. Otherwise, everyone wishes to be 白头偕老

some women have EMA because they are lonely or perhaps hubby isn't sensitive or cares about her after years of marriage. what the women actually need is a listening ear. so if it happens that a guy who understands her comes along and gives her the attention lacking in a marriage, that's how EMA happens.

[Estéema]

Hercules,


I’m humbled by X and all that she represents. She shows great strength of character. Sufficiency.

[lee_yl]

Estéema\" post_id=\"1900671\" time=\"1551501743\" user_id=\"66413:

Money can buy love? I’ll always be living in doubt if my money is gone, then love gone?

Maybe you have not seen couples quarrel (or divorced) over money.

[Estéema]

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900688\" time=\"1551505321\" user_id=\"17023:

Estéema\" post_id=\"1900671\" time=\"1551501743\" user_id=\"66413:

Money can buy love? I’ll always be living in doubt if my money is gone, then love gone?

Maybe you have not seen couples quarrel (or divorced) over money.

Usually, it’s not simple quarrel over money. There lied deeper issues of discipline with use of money, sharing costs (if both are working), not sharing costs (not see eye-to-Eye over spending on golf or Prada over paying for kid’s tuition or helper, etc). It’s deeper in fact bcoz either they align their values or insist in living their usual pattern brot over fr singlehood.

I hv lawyer frds who find a calling to handle divorce cases. It’s both stressful & satisfaction level can be high when succeeding to counsel couples towards reconciliation. He says, many times it involves pride and inability to communicate in a new context as they set up family.

My concern goes further bcoz young ppl are so addicted to hand-held devices. Lost touch with art of communication. Maybe that’s how couples end up feeling neglected?

[lee_yl]

janet88\" post_id=\"1900676\" time=\"1551502427\" user_id=\"12950:

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900643\" time=\"1551496317\" user_id=\"17023:

We are talking about “soul mate” having EMA outside. And what could be the next step. Otherwise, everyone wishes to be 白头偕老

some women have EMA because they are lonely or perhaps hubby isn't sensitive or cares about her after years of marriage. what the women actually need is a listening ear. so if it happens that a guy who understands her comes along and gives her the attention lacking in a marriage, that's how EMA happens.

I agree! For women, it’s not just about lust. More like what you described above.

Hubby ever told me he is worried if I enter corporate world, I will start to compare and will find him lacking (he knows he is not those affectionate type and he has no time for me). Plus I like to 自作多情, best cut me off from outside world. I am ok with it, in fact I find him very smart, knows how to do “preventive measures.” lol

[Estéema]

Hee, Hee… just Hv a funny thot huh but not referring to your case.


Old times, men make female tie feet till tiny & cant walk very far feel pain. Men worried women walk far fr home & see flowery world of handsome, attractive, powerful men will run away to them?

Now no more bonded legs, but subtly, men still holds certain mindset.