Me Time!

[MyPillow]

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900694\" time=\"1551506745\" user_id=\"17023:

Joyymum\" post_id=\"1900644\" time=\"1551496428\" user_id=\"134876:

The Wife should live better than them no need to commit suicide.

我的前半生is very meaningful. The hubby cannot take the daily nonsense from the wife so he find the 小三 very attractive because they both work in the same office and find comfort in her. Interesting part is after he married the 小三 the same nonsense happens. So conclusion is couple usually will quarrel over the normal 菜米油盐. It doesn’t mean that once he married the 小三 life will be like fairy tale happily ever after

Oh, so this is similar to what I have watched 20years ago, HK comedy film 家有喜事（周星驰、吴君如 、黄百鸣）

The real life pressure over 柴米油盐 is very real. So the moral of the story is? Men should not mix wives and outside flings. He must be very clear what he wants.

The wife may be 黄脸婆, but she takes care of the household/kids well. An outside fling is just lust. When 小三 really becomes your wife, you get sh!t

Just joking lah, I am more interested to know how the wife gets over the Husband she once loved dearly.

Yes I remember 家有喜事 - better coz comedy - wu jun ru acted well !
I watched this Shanghai drama few times here n there then find it lor soh , Lots of conversation thus I dropped though my clerk like it too.
The drama written by yi shu .
I prefer heart warming show

[Joyymum]

MP,


I like their conversation/dialogue !
I find my mandarin improved leh coz their Chinese is not like our local drama short cut kind not cheem enough

I learnt a great deal by watching China drama. Language and culture. You realised that Wah SG suddenly becomes smaller. Shanghai and Beijing is big and modern not to mention the rest of China and the rest of the world.

DH travels a lot to Shanghai and Beijing Temptations are everywhere. :nailbite:
Of course if one wants to have EMA don’t need to travel so far la can happen anywhere

[MyPillow]

Ya my dh travelled a lot to Beijing n Shanghai few yrs ago too. He does not enjoy n like china trips -at all . The real Shanghai is scary - liberal women. Thank God , he left traveling job - we dun like biz travel job , disruptive to family life if both spouses are working .

Anyway the real Chinese culture vs drama is v different - they dun talk that cultured too
So u enjoy yan Xi too ? The dialogue is good as well . I m ok with the show but also dun like their long windedness.

[Joyymum]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1900752\" time=\"1551524627\" user_id=\"70594:

Ya my dh travelled a lot to Beijing n Shanghai few yrs ago too. He does not enjoy n like china trips -at all . The real Shanghai is scary - liberal women. Thank God , he left traveling job - we dun like biz travel job , disruptive to family life if both spouses are working .
Anyway the real Chinese culture vs drama is v different - they dun talk that cultured too
So u enjoy yan Xi too ? The dialogue is good as well . I m ok with the show but also dun like their long windedness.

Yes! I like Yan Xi! Can watched till 2-3am on some days

Now waiting for the release of 三生三世枕上书 to see the beautiful couple again

[MyPillow]

My Sec kid went Shanghai for sch immersion trip last year - he a teen also commented they are loud , rude - his sch mates got loudly yelled by hotel staff - the kids were shocked -this is China culture - never change. … u go Chinese Disney theme park, can see the “true faces “ … 文化教养… 在哪啊？

[Estéema]

China is huge. Just 1% speak culturedly is alr so much more than entire Spore.


Even within Beijing, as in England, there is difference with 王府井内 & 王府井外 spoken Mandarin language. When I first had my regional job to China, I met many loyal Chinese who wld not be enticed to leave China for career change opportunity coz they value family & wish to contribute to China’s development (that’s in the 80s). Yet in my first week walking on the streets of Shanghai, I had my Spore passport lifted off. They were so skillful that I only felt a slight movement (not really specific just a hunch) & when I turned round, my bag was slightly unzipped, nobody was within 100m sight, but my ppt gone. I realized even if 1% of shoplifters, well be overwhelmed by the numbers. So, managing my offices with all HOD of Sporeans, somehow cannot aviod any of our HODs falling prey. I had to constantly occupy our HODs (exp those who do not hv their spouse in Spore) in various ways in hope to limit abberatuons of local temptations. Not easy for Shanghai but easier for 2nd tier cities.

[Joyymum]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1900757\" time=\"1551525419\" user_id=\"70594:

My Sec kid went Shanghai for sch immersion trip last year - he a teen also commented they are loud , rude - his sch mates got loudly yelled by hotel staff - the kids were shocked -this is China culture - never change. .. u go Chinese Disney theme park, can see the “true faces “ ... 文化教养... 在哪啊？

Lol my children and I are actually very scare of going to places with PRC and Indian because on few occasions we were stucked with them during our cruises and trips and from then on, we try to avoid. Loud, rude and they treat ppl as invisible , likes to cut Q ignoring advices etc....

I dare not go to HK Disneyland again after been there ages ago with the PRC everywhere

But I am still attracted to their drama ha ha :rotflmao:

Ps: not all PRC and Indian behave in a bad manner. All races have their fair share of good and bad

[Estéema]

Yes. Avoiding Asia cruise after latest negative experience. Again, it’s difference in culture & u’stand’g. Also, nationals of these hv to be given more time to come up to level with their behaviors towards more conscious of & consideration for other users in the same space.

[lee_yl]

Joyymum\" post_id=\"1900750\" time=\"1551524087\" user_id=\"134876:

MP,

I like their conversation/dialogue !
I find my mandarin improved leh coz their Chinese is not like our local drama short cut kind not cheem enough

I learnt a great deal by watching China drama. Language and culture. You realised that Wah SG suddenly becomes smaller. Shanghai and Beijing is big and modern not to mention the rest of China and the rest of the world.

DH travels a lot to Shanghai and Beijing Temptations are everywhere. :nailbite:
Of course if one wants to have EMA don’t need to travel so far la can happen anywhere

Me: Last time remember you told me XX大饭店 got prostitute pass you a name card at the hotel lift lobby right? Was it Beijing or Shanghai?

DH: Oh... But this is not EMA leh. Aiya, Beijing and Shanghai both have. They could be found around the hotel atrium or just outside the hotel.

Me: Ya hor, so this is called one night stand? Ehh... How come you told me about the Beijing one but not the Shanghai one huh?

DH: Wah, so late already ah, I need to go for my evening run liao. :siam: :siam:

Shanghai and Beijing are both really, really prosperous!

[MrsKiasu]

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900763\" time=\"1551529355\" user_id=\"17023:

Joyymum\" post_id=\"1900750\" time=\"1551524087\" user_id=\"134876:

MP,

I like their conversation/dialogue !
I find my mandarin improved leh coz their Chinese is not like our local drama short cut kind not cheem enough

I learnt a great deal by watching China drama. Language and culture. You realised that Wah SG suddenly becomes smaller. Shanghai and Beijing is big and modern not to mention the rest of China and the rest of the world.

DH travels a lot to Shanghai and Beijing Temptations are everywhere. :nailbite:
Of course if one wants to have EMA don’t need to travel so far la can happen anywhere

Me: Last time remember you told me XX大饭店 got prostitute pass you a name card at the hotel lift lobby right? Was it Beijing or Shanghai?

DH: Oh... But this is not EMA leh. Aiya, Beijing and Shanghai both have. They could be found around the hotel atrium or just outside the hotel.

Me: Ya hor, so this is called one night stand? Ehh... How come you told me about the Beijing one but not the Shanghai one huh?

DH: Wah, so late already ah, I need to go for my evening run liao. :siam: :siam:

Shanghai and Beijing are both really, really prosperous!

:rotflmao: I used to ask dh occassionally (not so often now) and usually his reply will be not so free arh..a