Me Time!

[lee_yl]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1904158\" time=\"1553785226\" user_id=\"43981:

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1904156\" time=\"1553784145\" user_id=\"70594:

[quote=MrsKiasu post_id=1904154 time=1553782930 user_id=43981]slmkhoo, you have planned well..could manage all the transitions smoothly.

leeyl, agree with you lor it is the companionship no much of xiaoxianrou or wat la..

:rotflmao: Xiao xian Rou is just a joke la , dun think a snr woman look for such r/ ship

Frankly , do u think u will find a companion - let’s say already in 60s after spouse pass?
For myself - been thinking casually abt it after leeyl post - I do not know at the moment , but another thought is can’t forget the spouse lei , after living n loving for so many decades...
Next is if our parent finds a companion , can we as kids accept ? Is the r/ship out of money or real care / love ... hmmm ... ?

jk jk here too

on companion..I never thought of it for myself but gave it a thought after talking abt this..for dh ..last time I feel no la, I will still feel jealous even gone but now I would think dont want dh to live miserably too..just hope that it only comes with blessing from the children..maybe let my kids be truly independent before need sharing the love of their dad? touc wood touch wood, just hope we could live happy, long life and healthy la
for our parents, when I was young I wont like..but now I changed my mind..why not as we do not have time for them.. yup of course worry their money got cheated, I think very normal worries..[/quote]Wow MKS, must give you a “like” leh.
Perhaps all of us do feel jealous but since we “can’t see” anymore, we do wish our surviving spouses happiness. Love is not about being possessive.

My hubby said right now, all of us can’t imagine how scary/painful/lonely one can be ... He thinks it’s selfish if the surviving spouse had to live alone for the next 30-40 years because he/she remembered the other half said “no har, no har, you cannot remarry!!”

Actually in my earlier post, I mean “pass on suddenly” as of right NOW (touch wood), not when we are in our 60s lah. Losing a spouse can also lead to “empty nest syndrome”.

At 60s (20 to 25 years down the road), I haven’t really thought that far yet. Perhaps at 60s, won’t purposely look for one but if someone comes into my life, I will seriously think about it. As for my H, he says he will respect the kids’ wishes when making such choices.

@MP, as for 骗钱 right, I think unless the mummy is a millionaire, but if the man side is rich, then nothing to worry bah.

[MyPillow]

leeyl… i think your dh thought is right "go along & respect the kids wishes to make choices "

[MrsKiasu]

pray we all can live longer with good health arh..lai lai take vitamins/supplements this past 1 week I took bazhen soup, evening primrose and fish oil..like dont feel angry so often lei..is it because of those or more in control with dd leh :?

[MyPillow]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1904227\" time=\"1553846174\" user_id=\"43981:

pray we all can live longer with good health arh..lai lai take vitamins/supplements this past 1 week I took bazhen soup, evening primrose and fish oil..like dont feel angry so often lei..is it because of those or more in control with dd leh :?

I heard that evening primrose can regulate mood n hormones - let me know if it really work .... hee... higher eq, less irritable etc

[janet88]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1904239\" time=\"1553853542\" user_id=\"70594:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1904227\" time=\"1553846174\" user_id=\"43981:

pray we all can live longer with good health arh..lai lai take vitamins/supplements this past 1 week I took bazhen soup, evening primrose and fish oil..like dont feel angry so often lei..is it because of those or more in control with dd leh :?

I heard that evening primrose can regulate mood n hormones - let me know if it really work .... hee... higher eq, less irritable etc

EPO supposed to help with PMS and skin.
I bought a bottle too...but I take calcium and glucosamine every night since thyroxine cannot be taken with calcium.
sometimes a bit lazy to take EPO. I also have nordic omega.

[MrsKiasu]

my EPO and fish oil bought quite some time already..as usual just keep.


mp, ok I will measure my temper arh and keep you updated..best if can get me through psle period

[janet88]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1904246\" time=\"1553857217\" user_id=\"43981:

my EPO and fish oil bought quite some time already..as usual just keep.

mp, ok I will measure my temper arh and keep you updated..best if can get me through psle period

EPO cannot help to get through PSLE...it can help you with PMS
for me, EPO helps a little for the cramps and bloated tummy....usually I take EPO when menses are coming.

it's FRIDAY and end of March. time really flies.

[MrsKiasu]

janet88\" post_id=\"1904256\" time=\"1553866577\" user_id=\"12950:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1904246\" time=\"1553857217\" user_id=\"43981:

my EPO and fish oil bought quite some time already..as usual just keep.

mp, ok I will measure my temper arh and keep you updated..best if can get me through psle period

EPO cannot help to get through PSLE...it can help you with PMS
for me, EPO helps a little for the cramps and bloated tummy....usually I take EPO when menses are coming.

it's FRIDAY and end of March. time really flies.

naughty Janet, you burst my hope I do feel more sleepy..so probably more hours of sleep now.

[MyPillow]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1904246\" time=\"1553857217\" user_id=\"43981:

my EPO and fish oil bought quite some time already..as usual just keep.

mp, ok I will measure my temper arh and keep you updated..best if can get me through psle period

Then must start to eat diligently now, give it 2 to 3 moths to see effects
Janet, taking so many supp as well,,I taking normal omega , multi vit ,not deligent too , feeding vit to kids more deligent

[MrsKiasu]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1904268\" time=\"1553871903\" user_id=\"70594:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1904246\" time=\"1553857217\" user_id=\"43981:

my EPO and fish oil bought quite some time already..as usual just keep.

mp, ok I will measure my temper arh and keep you updated..best if can get me through psle period

Then must start to eat diligently now, give it 2 to 3 moths to see effects
Janet, taking so many supp as well,,I taking normal omega , multi vit ,not deligent too , feeding vit to kids more deligent

yeah mp, telling myself to remember pop epo+fish oil..see if brain can function better or not..dd told me she finds her MA topic getting more difficult liao..I m happy to be able to exercise my brain, yesterday did 2 qns