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    • starlight1968sgS Offline
      starlight1968sg
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      Esteema

      Does this mean your helper have no off days per month and you compensated her?

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        Estéema
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        starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"1971826\" time=\"1587298587\" user_id=\"14025:

        Esteema
        Does this mean your helper have no off days per month and you compensated her?
        DH and I wants to drive her behaviour to co-operate, so we explained the situation to her & for her to decide if she stays home on Sundays as early as February. She didn’t stay home the 1st Sunday after we spoke to her but on her return that Sunday, she said she doesn’t want to go out bcoz it’s not safe bcoz MRTs very crowded. We hv always done compensation at the end of event (same for our very 1st helper many many years ago) for those helpers that did well & behaved well without their prior expectations.

        This current helper had been more than I can ask for, so we’ll surprise her.

        On Sundays, we do not expect her to wash or clean the house. We’re thankful she was willing to but told her not necessary. Think they’ll go crazy working 24/7 for months on end! Only thankful she cook that 2 extra meals each Sundays, which we do not expect to. So, it’s just our decision to set aside sth for her when she goes on home leave. We’ve not told her abt it though.

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          ALevelsHistory
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          Yea I think the law should be modified to be more equal and fair to both parties

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          • V Offline
            vividlaurel
            last edited by

            Hi,


            I have a question. My current helper, who has been with me for about seven years now has now secured a new employer. We really don’t need a helper now, but I was just waiting for her contract to end to either transfer her to send her back. We will be ending her contract on very good terms and will continue to be in touch with her if she remains in future. Her new employer is an elderly lady and what she told me about her salary baffled me.

            According to my helper, since her new employer is a single elderly woman, the government will be paying half her salary. I was surprised on hearing this since I have never heard of something like this. So what it means is that if her salary is $500, the employer pays $250 and the govt will pay either my helper or the employer $250. I do know the employer is entitled to the subsidised levy of $60 (I think). Is this what the employer is meaning and which my helper is thinking is about her salary?

            My helper is a nice person and has been a good worker, so I don’t want her to be short-changed if this is not true. Hence, reaching out to you all, who know so much more than me to check if this is really true?

            Thanks, everyone!

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            • T Offline
              ting99
              last edited by

              Hi all, im looking for a helper who can take care of infant … anyone has good maid to transfer? Prefer filipino 😃

              thanks for your recommendation.

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                JSCYY
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                Hi everyone, I just joined the forum and would like to ask for your opinion.


                Will you allow your helper to use your home address for online shopping and delivery of her purchases? My helper just asked me about this and she wants to buy some accessories for herself and her friend.

                I have some concerns about safety and privacy so I rejected her.

                What are your thoughts?

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                  starlight1968sg
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                  JSCYY\" post_id=\"1979842\" time=\"1591504264\" user_id=\"186026:

                  Hi everyone, I just joined the forum and would like to ask for your opinion.

                  Will you allow your helper to use your home address for online shopping and delivery of her purchases? My helper just asked me about this and she wants to buy some accessories for herself and her friend.

                  I have some concerns about safety and privacy so I rejected her.

                  What are your thoughts?
                  The helper's home add is your add. We can't stop her letters, parcels etc from coming

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                    JSCYY
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                    starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"1979843\" time=\"1591504734\" user_id=\"14025:

                    JSCYY\" post_id=\"1979842\" time=\"1591504264\" user_id=\"186026:

                    Hi everyone, I just joined the forum and would like to ask for your opinion.

                    Will you allow your helper to use your home address for online shopping and delivery of her purchases? My helper just asked me about this and she wants to buy some accessories for herself and her friend.

                    I have some concerns about safety and privacy so I rejected her.

                    What are your thoughts?

                    The helper's home add is your add. We can't stop her letters, parcels etc from coming

                    Ok thanks!

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                      fireheli
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                      Hello, I just joined the forum and wanted to get some opinions.


                      Is anyone here who has a maid and still bought a baby monitor? I’m wondering if a baby monitor would be useful if there is someone already around to attend to baby most of the time. What made you purchase a baby monitor and what is the support that a baby monitor can provide that a maid cannot?

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                        Frollipops
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                        fireheli\" post_id=\"1981184\" time=\"1592395286\" user_id=\"185838:

                        Hello, I just joined the forum and wanted to get some opinions.

                        Is anyone here who has a maid and still bought a baby monitor? I'm wondering if a baby monitor would be useful if there is someone already around to attend to baby most of the time. What made you purchase a baby monitor and what is the support that a baby monitor can provide that a maid cannot?
                        I put a camera in the room. More for accountability and safety.

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