In-law problems?

[janet88]

auntieM:

I worse, tell DS don't bring gf home.. ...go XX81.

What I actually meant was don't cohabit 'unofficially' and expect us to 'take care of things' for you..

auntieM,
I dare not think of the cohabit issue...as parents, we have to teach them correct values from young, and reinforce as they grow. Have self respect for themselves as well as gf/bf. I will tell my son, 'Boy, pls work very hard to buy own flat. I don't want to wash up after you and your wife.'

[LOLMum]

guess that’s what some mils are doing now. they prefer to live on their own and not look after the grandchildren all the time. i can understiand because they have done their fair share of looking after chidren and it is time for them to enjoy life even if they are not doing anything.

[auntieM]

janet_lee88:

auntieM:

I worse, tell DS don't bring gf home.. ...go XX81.

What I actually meant was don't cohabit 'unofficially' and expect us to 'take care of things' for you..

auntieM,
I dare not think of the cohabit issue...as parents, we have to teach them correct values from young, and reinforce as they grow. Have self respect for themselves as well as gf/bf. I will tell my son, 'Boy, pls work very hard to buy own flat. I don't want to wash up after you and your wife.'

We do our part and try to teach them correct values.. ..hope they will learn to do things the right way..

[mummy of 2]

Had some unhappiness with MIL becos of a lie that SIL told. Very upset with SIL and MIL :pokeeye: :x


Don't want to go into details here in case SIL or someone who knows her read about this. But really can't understand why some people are so immature. Can't talk to DH direct, must go and complain to MIL, make her angry with us, and make everyone upset, and over something UNTRUE.

[tree nymph]

mummy of 2:

Had some unhappiness with MIL becos of a lie that SIL told. Very upset with SIL and MIL :pokeeye: :x


Don't want to go into details here in case SIL or someone who knows her read about this. But really can't understand why some people are so immature. Can't talk to DH direct, must go and complain to MIL, make her angry with us, and make everyone upset, and over something UNTRUE.

hmmm, my favourite subject.

truth will be out. don't get too upset about it. even if she had told the truth, she is still your MIL own flesh and blood. so, cool it and don't worry about it ok?

[auntieM]

Imagine me have to deal with 2 PRC SILs.. ...the amount of lies and untruth I have to deal with..

[mummy of 2]

auntieM:

Imagine me have to deal with 2 PRC SILs.. ...the amount of lies and untruth I have to deal with..

You have my deepest sympathies :hugs:

[auntieM]

mummy of 2:

auntieM:

Imagine me have to deal with 2 PRC SILs.. ...the amount of lies and untruth I have to deal with..

You have my deepest sympathies :hugs:

Thanks mummy of 2 .. ...

Everytime I hear about breaking up I know confirm getting married liao.. ...
preggy!

Heng don't have more BILs.

[shine_fs]

mummy of 2:

Had some unhappiness with MIL becos of a lie that SIL told. Very upset with SIL and MIL :pokeeye: :x


Don't want to go into details here in case SIL or someone who knows her read about this. But really can't understand why some people are so immature. Can't talk to DH direct, must go and complain to MIL, make her angry with us, and make everyone upset, and over something UNTRUE.

Don't be :x just treat it as someone \"放屁\"
As long as your hubby know the truth and is with you..

[mummy of 2]

shine_fs:

mummy of 2:

Had some unhappiness with MIL becos of a lie that SIL told. Very upset with SIL and MIL :pokeeye: :x


Don't want to go into details here in case SIL or someone who knows her read about this. But really can't understand why some people are so immature. Can't talk to DH direct, must go and complain to MIL, make her angry with us, and make everyone upset, and over something UNTRUE.

Don't be :x just treat it as someone \"放屁\"
As long as your hubby know the truth and is with you..

Actually I'm upset becos of the unfair way that MIL handled this. She refused to listen to DH's explanation, even when he had evidence that SIl told a lie. That made him very sad. And to think he had been asking me to tolerate the nonsense from SIl. Yet his own mother choose to unfairly side SIL. Even if both sides are at fault, she can't just blame us for everything right? SIL is getting away with all her nonsense while we keep trying to tolerate. I feel so 不值 for DH.