Choosing and Evaluating Primary Schools
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To share my woes, my parents are against going to good school because they think every school is the same ultimately depends on your kid if they will excel. My hubby initially listen in to trying the good schools, but now his opinion is just go through via the MOE Kindergarten phase and stay put. I feel like moving but if doing so i will be very strong willed to do everything and searching hse etc, and even if i moved, i will move away from my parents so i will not have grandparents help after my move. What a dilemma because i feel like i didn’t have much choice.
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mummyvolk\" post_id=\"2025772\" time=\"1622461629\" user_id=\"192657:
It’s difficult if you face some opposition from family.
To share my woes, my parents are against going to good school because they think every school is the same ultimately depends on your kid if they will excel. My hubby initially listen in to trying the good schools, but now his opinion is just go through via the MOE Kindergarten phase and stay put. I feel like moving but if doing so i will be very strong willed to do everything and searching hse etc, and even if i moved, i will move away from my parents so i will not have grandparents help after my move. What a dilemma because i feel like i didn’t have much choice.
There is some sense in sticking with the MK co-located primary school, at least the child is familiar with the surroundings, and there is supposedly some communication between the kindergarten & P1 teachers to flag out any extra help they may need. The current kindergarten classmates are also more likely to end up in the same P1 class as your child, so having familiar faces could help further in the settling in to primary school life.
Unless there are some red flags about the co-located primary school, or there is some super good school that you are targeting (think about why? Will the school guarantee good grades or whatever you’re wishing for?) I don’t see any need to swim upstream against the current, so to speak. -
zac's mum\" post_id=\"2025790\" time=\"1622467266\" user_id=\"53606:[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2025790 time=1622467266 user_id=53606]
Curious; do all primary schools get information/feedbacks from the kindergartens that their new p1s were in? Thanks!
... there is supposedly some communication between the kindergarten & P1 teachers to flag out any extra help they may need.
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Zeal mummy\" post_id=\"2025793\" time=\"1622468018\" user_id=\"58173:[quote=\"Zeal mummy\" post_id=2025793 time=1622468018 user_id=58173]
No, only for MOE Kindergartens.zac's mum\" post_id=\"2025790\" time=\"1622467266\" user_id=\"53606:[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2025790 time=1622467266 user_id=53606]
Curious; do all primary schools get information/feedbacks from the kindergartens that their new p1s were in? Thanks![/quote]
... there is supposedly some communication between the kindergarten & P1 teachers to flag out any extra help they may need.
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7 new MOE kindergartens to open in primary schools in 2024 and 2025
https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/parenting-education/7-new-moe-kindergartens-to-open-in-primary-schools-in-2024-and-2025 -
zac's mum\" post_id=\"2025795\" time=\"1622468331\" user_id=\"53606:[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2025795 time=1622468331 user_id=53606]
No, only for MOE Kindergartens.Zeal mummy\" post_id=\"2025793\" time=\"1622468018\" user_id=\"58173:[quote=\"Zeal mummy\" post_id=2025793 time=1622468018 user_id=58173][quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2025790 time=1622467266 user_id=53606]
Curious; do all primary schools get information/feedbacks from the kindergartens that their new p1s were in? Thanks![/quote]
... there is supposedly some communication between the kindergarten & P1 teachers to flag out any extra help they may need.
[/quote]
7 new MOE kindergartens to open in primary schools in 2024 and 2025
https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/parenting-education/7-new-moe-kindergartens-to-open-in-primary-schools-in-2024-and-2025[/quote]Thanks! -
mummyvolk\" post_id=\"2025772\" time=\"1622461629\" user_id=\"192657:
That is hard. The whole thing is a bit of a gamble (just choosing a primary school, let alone moving for one), so it's really hard if your family isn't supportive. I think sometimes doing what's right for the family isn't the same thing as maximizing opportunities for one kid.
To share my woes, my parents are against going to good school because they think every school is the same ultimately depends on your kid if they will excel. My hubby initially listen in to trying the good schools, but now his opinion is just go through via the MOE Kindergarten phase and stay put. I feel like moving but if doing so i will be very strong willed to do everything and searching hse etc, and even if i moved, i will move away from my parents so i will not have grandparents help after my move. What a dilemma because i feel like i didn’t have much choice.
In my family I'm the one who's not super sure about good schools (I'm also the one most inconvenienced by the move!). On one hand, I don't think my particular kid will push herself to excel (or do any work at all) unless she's in an environment that challenges her; as it is, she tends to drift off in class now. On the other, she's in an MOE Kindy now, and she's thriving - she likes school, she's the teacher's little helper, she bosses her friends around on group projects - so maybe she'd be fine in any school. (It's the nearest MK but it isn't that near us, so we weren't going to put her there anyway.) -
Thx for sharing, glitterpen! From what you have described, your girl is near the top of the kindergarten class in terms of development. Only such kids are picked to be teacher’s little helper. Bossing around means she knows exactly what to do & can see that other kids aren’t doing it lol. For such children, I agree putting them into a more academically-competitive school would do them good. They’d benefit from being stretched instead of always having to sit around waiting for others to catch up.
My boy was the other end of the scale in K2: behind the class in reading & writing (though still within age developmental timeline when considering his year-end birth). Very playful and active, not keen on sit-down classroom lessons just listening to the teacher one-way. All warning signs that he’d not adapt well to P1. We decided he would do better in an all-boys school with affiliation safety net, in case his academic ability didn’t catch up in time for PSLE. -
mummyvolk\" post_id=\"2025772\" time=\"1622461629\" user_id=\"192657:
I have a friend who PV and moved house, hoping to send her 3 kids into a branded pri school (GEP centre).
To share my woes, my parents are against going to good school because they think every school is the same ultimately depends on your kid if they will excel. My hubby initially listen in to trying the good schools, but now his opinion is just go through via the MOE Kindergarten phase and stay put. I feel like moving but if doing so i will be very strong willed to do everything and searching hse etc, and even if i moved, i will move away from my parents so i will not have grandparents help after my move. What a dilemma because i feel like i didn’t have much choice.
When she realized her eldest kid was doing badly in school, it was too late. Finally, she realized that by registering her kids in a branded school and leaving everything to the school and teachers, it does NOT automatically translate into good results.
So when it comes to her 2nd and 3rd child, she did what a tiger mum should do, personally guide them through the school work and pump in lots of money into quality tuition. So her 2 younger ones did much better. Perhaps it’s a combination of both but I guess the ultimate factor is having a tiger mum! -
How long has MOE kindergarten been established? The 1st batch will be going into sec school soon?
Not sure if kiasu parents can have the statistics, that is, how many students who enter RI RGS NYGH HCI come from MOE kindergartens.
Last time there was a study conducted on preschool education. Does it mean that expensive preschools (e.g. Mindchamps) do wonders? The author concluded that such preschools seem more successful because of parents who are willing to pump in the money, time and energy into their children education, to give their kids a headstart in life. Parents are still the key to their kids’ success. -
lee_yl\" post_id=\"2025839\" time=\"1622520423\" user_id=\"17023:
The first MOE kindergartens were https://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/moe-to-set-up-15-pilot-kindergartens-over-next-three-years-8340072. 1st batch should be P6 this year.
How long has MOE kindergarten been established? The 1st batch will be going into sec school soon?
Not sure if kiasu parents can have the statistics, that is, how many students who enter RI RGS NYGH HCI come from MOE kindergartens.
Last time there was a study conducted on preschool education. Does it mean that expensive preschools (e.g. Mindchamps) do wonders? The author concluded that such preschools seem more successful because of parents who are willing to pump in the money, time and energy into their children education, to give their kids a headstart in life. Parents are still the key to their kids’ success.
I doubt the preschool (or the price you pay for preschool) is the determinant to how well students do in their primary schools. Children with parents who are willing to invest their time and work with them throughout the education journey are likely to do well. Thus, I agree that parents are the key to their kids' success.
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