Myanmar maids
-
Hi,
I need some advice. I have a burmese maid finishing contract in July this year. She is super forgetful, communication still a problem after 2 years and I have to monitor her closely although I am a FTWM. She had made a lot of mistakes repeatedly but we still give her a chance to learn. She does not seems to improve much till now. However, she wish to continue contract with us and request for higher pay. She even want advance 2 months of salary if we allow her to go for home leave. I am now thinking whether to renew her contract with us. Headache… -
You have no recourse if she does not return. My maid cannot write home (though we cannot connect to the phones of her family) because she does not even know her full address.
My previous maid who is serious about renewing contract after her break allowed me to hold on to part of her monies in Singapore.
Your maid will consider herself as “experienced” regardless of work performance and will feel entitled to a higher pay. This will be between yourself and the maid.
My maid is very forgetful and slow too. As my kids are older, I close both my eyes, she only needs to do housekeeping. Even cooking is done by my mum. If need be, am prepared to cater food. We are already eating out during the weekends to work around her weaknesses. -
Of course, there are some who are naturally slow.
As for forgetfulness, you can always get your maid to make a check list and list down the things that she needs to do. Some are simply giving excuses and doing it slowly. However, if any rectification needs to be done, it has to be done early -
Mine is with me for close to 2 months now, 1st month very good in house chores but 2nd mth started cutting corners. I kept quiet and monitored so she assumed that I did not find out. Seriously I did not purposely do any spot check but unfortunately for her out of coincidence I found out about the chores she did not do well which are really obvious. Eg. Grim built up on both stainless less stove and induction cooker, toys seem under the couch (meant she did not sweep or mop underneath), spoilt my clothings but still iron and kept quiet, schedule of chores not followed. :frustrated:
I spoke to her the other day and asked her to repeat the instructions I have got her to write down in her notebook and she is \"smart\" to skip a few of them. She tried to find ridiculous excuses for the shortfall but I told her off in a nice way for her to buck up. As expected she showed her black face the next day, not setting table, not helping wif the kids and \"worked very hard\" to finish all her undone chores.
I am prepared that she will chut more patterns after her loan is up and after she go for her off days. By the way her English is still atrocious despite repeated encouragement to speak more thus learn more and I start to suspect she is pretending since we have caught her singing songs to cartoons & toys. -
If the maid is starting to cut corners, just ask her to repeat her specific chore until she get it right. Once you allow her to get away with it, it will happen again and again and forever again. Just need to make sure she understands your quality chores.
-
We are trying to get her to rectify the sloppy chores as much as we can though it can be quite impossible to check on her duties all the time. It’s really now or never, so I rather put up with her expected black face but still get her to do it properly. I even demonstrated myself fo show her how to do it. I can’t imagine closing one eye now, by 6mths later, it will be horrible.
-
piyobaby:
We are trying to get her to rectify the sloppy chores as much as we can though it can be quite impossible to check on her duties all the time. It's really now or never, so I rather put up with her expected black face but still get her to do it properly. I even demonstrated myself fo show her how to do it. I can't imagine closing one eye now, by 6mths later, it will be horrible.
Just need to spot check, do not need to keep all your attention to her. Normally, the maid will know how to do. Demonstration is just making it easier for her to manipulate you. Even if you do demonstration it should be a small part or area. As much as possible just give verbal instructions. -
fcmaid:
Certain things can be tricky to spot check e.g changing and washing of water pitcher for the kids, daily cleaning of couch etc since these are performed in the morning when everyone is still in bed. But definitely randomly check had to be done. The next is to get IP camera installed so we can checked back on wat she does in the morning and occasions when she is left alone with the baby.piyobaby:
We are trying to get her to rectify the sloppy chores as much as we can though it can be quite impossible to check on her duties all the time. It's really now or never, so I rather put up with her expected black face but still get her to do it properly. I even demonstrated myself fo show her how to do it. I can't imagine closing one eye now, by 6mths later, it will be horrible.
Just need to spot check, do not need to keep all your attention to her. Normally, the maid will know how to do. Demonstration is just making it easier for her to manipulate you. Even if you do demonstration it should be a small part or area. As much as possible just give verbal instructions.
I demonstrate with verbal instruction so that she have no excuse that she do not understand my instruction and no I don't perform the whole chore but show her wat is to be done. Verbal instructions can be tough to verify if she does get the right picture since her communication skills are less than basic. -
Hi, my helper wants to go back to see her mother who is very sick. She’ll be away for 3 weeks. Are there any paperwork that she would need to complete like the philippine FWDs? Thank you.
= ) -
bellearena:
I only know the SG side. Just buy airticket for her. If she intends to come back, she will need her work permit with her when she comes back to SG. You can get a refund on the foreign worker levy. just go to MOM website online and apply to get a refund on the period she is away.Hi, my helper wants to go back to see her mother who is very sick. She'll be away for 3 weeks. Are there any paperwork that she would need to complete like the philippine FWDs? Thank you.
= )
On the Myanmar side, I am unsure; best to call up the agency and enquire. -
Thanks hquek
-
Hi, my indo maid ask for transfer as she is always giddy if travel far. I am Malaysian and needs to always travel to Malaysia, so now looking for new maid.
My agent highly recommend Myammar maid because ;
1. free replacement, if take indo, needs pay another $600++
2. Can work without off day, indo maid now majority want at least a day off
My 2 kids are all in secondary school and my mum staying with me. My mum is fit and will do the cooking. Maid will just need to handle housekeeping.
All the while take indo maid as my mum can speak Malay. But since my previous maid left after with us 5 years, the last 2 maids both with attitude problem.
first maid ask for transfer because wanted to work at private house, i m living in HDB.
second maid which current maid, complaint travelling make her giddy and always talk back to my mum and ignore my mum even see her climbing high to take items.
Agent said Myammar maid only language problem but with good attitude, so i m keen but now my worries are the Myammar maid and my mum, will chicken and duck talk, then during the normal days, only the 2 at home, how to communicate ?
I have spent close to 1k for last replacement, if get indo maid again, another 1k and no guarantee will get good one, so is it a good idea to try out Myammar since is free replacement ?
Need advise, thanks… -
(1) Ask for Myanmar maid with experience in Malaysia. But may not be easy to find.
(2) Be aware that unlike Indonesian maids, you have to get a Malaysia visa (good for 1 year) if you want to bring the Myanmar maid to Malaysia. Can be quite troublesome because apparently it has to be done through a fixed list of travel agents. Some maid agencies can help, but others cannot be bothered.
(3) And there is potentially the usual attitude problems etc., which is not something limited to any particular nationalities. (Some Singaporean workers also have attitude problem :razz: . Who say only FDWs can have attitude problem?) -
miu0075:
If you get Myanmar maid, you will need to apply Visa for her to enter Malaysia.Hi, my indo maid ask for transfer as she is always giddy if travel far. I am Malaysian and needs to always travel to Malaysia, so now looking for new maid.
My agent highly recommend Myammar maid because ;
1. free replacement, if take indo, needs pay another $600++
2. Can work without off day, indo maid now majority want at least a day off
My 2 kids are all in secondary school and my mum staying with me. My mum is fit and will do the cooking. Maid will just need to handle housekeeping.
All the while take indo maid as my mum can speak Malay. But since my previous maid left after with us 5 years, the last 2 maids both with attitude problem.
first maid ask for transfer because wanted to work at private house, i m living in HDB.
second maid which current maid, complaint travelling make her giddy and always talk back to my mum and ignore my mum even see her climbing high to take items.
Agent said Myammar maid only language problem but with good attitude, so i m keen but now my worries are the Myammar maid and my mum, will chicken and duck talk, then during the normal days, only the 2 at home, how to communicate ?
I have spent close to 1k for last replacement, if get indo maid again, another 1k and no guarantee will get good one, so is it a good idea to try out Myammar since is free replacement ?
Need advise, thanks..
Wellif you get Myanmar maid, just need to make sure if she has a english to myanmar dictionary. At least writing, for you, will be the initial form of communication.
Free is not usually that free, though no admin fee but it usually involves certain costs like insurance, SIP and application and issuance fee.
(I am from a maid agency which specialize in Myanmar maids)
http://www.FCmaid.com.sg/ -
Does anyone have a English-Burmese instructions for new maids from Myanmar to share? Worried about the incoming new maid English level - I had looked around the internet/forums and all are for English-Indonesian.
Thanks in advance. -
Found this..... some words may be relevant.
http://famdliflc.lingnet.org/products/burmese/by_bc_lsk/default.html -
Thanks POA teacher
-
huaywenandkenneth:
You can prepare a set of instructions. Let the maid agency help you convey to them, as they usually have ways to communicate with them.Does anyone have a English-Burmese instructions for new maids from Myanmar to share? Worried about the incoming new maid English level - I had looked around the internet/forums and all are for English-Indonesian.
Thanks in advance.
________________________________
We are a maid agency.
http://www.FCmaids.com -
I still have problem communicating with my myanmar maid coming to 2 years. Her English is still so bad. Simple instructions she cannot understand and most of the time forget. Make me boiling. But she can ask to increase her pay from 380 to 500. Thinking whether to renew contract with her.
-
doryfish:
I still have problem communicating with my myanmar maid coming to 2 years. Her English is still so bad. Simple instructions she cannot understand and most of the time forget. Make me boiling. But she can ask to increase her pay from 380 to 500. Thinking whether to renew contract with her.
$500 is same as indon and Pinoy maids. Same boils but indon can learn english fast and Pinoy usu knows english. At $380, at least got price advantage, at $500, don see the competitive advantage for Mymr. Only can save on agency fee.