In-law problems?

[janet88]

hquek,

She has a 1 year old son…BIG house to clean and no maid. Most prob her son eats Heinz baby bottled food, otherwise how can she be so free.
When she visited MY house, she opened all my cupboards :x really 没 家教. Just wonder how come her mother not going to US again…maybe not welcomed. From what I understand the SIL has a green card now and can sponsor her parents.

[shine_fs]

janet_lee88:

Hubby's sister thinks she is Empress Dowager :x

She told my hubby to bring me and kids to see her mother every month...who the hell she thinks she is...my hubby didn't dare to tell me this. It was my son who told me quietly.

That SIL is married to ang moh and staying in the US. Couldn't be bothered with her when she returned earlier. Hubby's mother regards her angmoh son-in-law like a saint because he is a dentist.

Your MIL likes $$$, she tot all the ang moh rich mah.....

[hquek]

janet_lee88:

hquek,

She has a 1 year old son...BIG house to clean and no maid. Most prob her son eats Heinz baby bottled food, otherwise how can she be so free.
When she visited MY house, she opened all my cupboards :x really 没 家教. Just wonder how come her mother not going to US again...maybe not welcomed. From what I understand the SIL has a green card now and can sponsor her parents.

well, big house, no help, no wonder she is thinking about other pp's fridge. next time she come over, put some fake spider and cockroach (or whatever she is scared of) in some of your cupboards....give her a good scare.

[shine_fs]

janet_lee88:

When she visited MY house, she opened all my cupboards :x really 没 家教.

My MIL also opened all my kitchen cupboards. I was not happy and turned to my SIL and said \"your mum is doing spotcheck huh?\"

[auntieM]

tree nymph:

auntieM:

After my BIL passed on, my SIL brought her DS back to China (with all the $).. ..

I haven't seen her for awhile. The last time she sent her DS back to Spore for 2 months holiday but my MIL sent the boy back barely 2 weeks later..
When one 'power' meets another..

is the DS a Singaporean?

She just kinda dump the boy to your MIL huh?

Both SIL and DS now Singaporeans, but she chose to go back.
The boy was 'attached' to the maid at first, then get dumped both ways..
Now she might want to let him study in Spore, and stay in hostel.. ..
I don't understand and won't want to.. ...
after she came to my house with child to ask if her hubby(my late BIL) have a share in my house :faint:

[auntieM]

I don’t want to sound too anti-PRC ladies cause I’m sure there are nice ones out there too… …

Unfortunately the ones I have to deal with are not only ‘xiong’… …but ‘hiong’ as well.

No offence to anyone please…

[janet88]

shine_fs,

Unfortunately the angmoh she married is not rich, but you are so right about the part that SHE LOVES MONEY.

hquek,
sorry she is not welcomed to visit again.

[Jennifer]

auntieM:

after she came to my house with child to ask if her hubby(my late BIL) have a share in my house :faint:

:!: so hiong

Since we are on the topic of house ownership, do you gals consider married off daughters hv a share in their parents' house?

[hquek]

auntieM:

I don't want to sound too anti-PRC ladies cause I'm sure there are nice ones out there too.. ..

Unfortunately the ones I have to deal with are not only 'xiong'.. ...but 'hiong' as well.

No offence to anyone please..

I also think so....she really must scrape the bottom of the barrel huh.

[hquek]

janet_lee88:

hquek,
sorry she is not welcomed to visit again.

Understand where you coming from, but sorry to say she's family lah....heng heng suay suay sometimes you'll still have to entertain her a bit. Just probably got to lock up all your cupboards.