In-law problems?

[Joy]

Kawan


You are here...

Happy for you and I guess for all the endurance that you had gone through and that is why u are so blessed with very smart and lovely children.

cheers
Joy

mathsparks:

buds, so happy to share my joy here. Oh, the current place has always been OURS! OURS! and OURS! not HERS! NOPE! NOPE! *stomp my feet*

*phew* better now. How many years? dd already 17 le. that many years, leh. See how tolerant I am.

[cascada]

[quote]mathsparks wrote:

I hope that those stuck in the same situation as me find a way out like I eventually did...after so many long years.[/quote]Wow, mathsparks, really admire your tolerance level and congrats to your new found freedom. :lol:
[quote]tree nymph wrote:
that's the reason why i'm a bit siao siao right?[/quote]I even suspect if I had post natal blues and never did recover from it! So I now become siao

I've a good news to share too. I don't have to think so hard whether to inform ils about DS's hospitalization. Mil called DH yesterday to inform that she is going Msia for short holiday and the dates coincides with my DS's hospital admission. DH said no need to inform il and if asked/found out later, just say don't want to spoil their holiday mood.
Sometimes, things solved by itself so procrastination isn't that bad after all.

:thankyou: all KSP friends for your kind advice.

[hquek]

cascada:

I've a good news to share too. I don't have to think so hard whether to inform ils about DS's hospitalization. Mil called DH yesterday to inform that she is going Msia for short holiday and the dates coincides with my DS's hospital admission. DH said no need to inform il and if asked/found out later, just say don't want to spoil their holiday mood.
Sometimes, things solved by itself so procrastination isn't that bad after all.

:thankyou: all KSP friends for your kind advice.

Gong xi gong xi....I love it when problems resolve themselves...hee hee hee :celebrate:

Now to your son's recovery!!!

[janet88]

cascada,

Your headache is solved…hehehe.
Whew ! You didn’t have to put up with those unpleasant comments after all. My son will have an op in the near future for his cleft. I hope the paternal grandparents have to go overseas too.
The other way is to work shift with hubby - he does the night shift at the hospital, so I will be at home sleeping during the night and he can entertain his parents. He will be boiling mad again if his parents expect him to ferry them to/fro.

[shine_fs]

hquek:

cascada:

I've a good news to share too. I don't have to think so hard whether to inform ils about DS's hospitalization. Mil called DH yesterday to inform that she is going Msia for short holiday and the dates coincides with my DS's hospital admission. DH said no need to inform il and if asked/found out later, just say don't want to spoil their holiday mood.
Sometimes, things solved by itself so procrastination isn't that bad after all.

:thankyou: all KSP friends for your kind advice.

Gong xi gong xi....I love it when problems resolve themselves...hee hee hee :celebrate:

Now to your son's recovery!!!

Sometime really like make you in a difficult position then the problem solve by itself...amazing hor..... :celebrate:

[cascada]

janet_lee88:

My son will have an op in the near future for his cleft. I hope the paternal grandparents have to go overseas too.

Cleft ops is very common and our docs are very good at this, so don't worry about it. I'm confident your DS will recover fast and well.

As for your il, how about planting some seeds and stir up their some interest in them so that they go overseas during the ops period. I know this suggestion is very lame.

[janet88]

cascada,

This op he is going for (prob in the next 1-2 years) will be to insert a bone from his pelvic…he’s bigger now and may be a little more crankly as compared to the time when his operations were done at 2/8 months old.

As for going overseas, it looks like they are not welcomed to go US again. I guess their nonsense is intolerable during their 3 months stay. Aiyah…to think that the old lady said that she will be staying in the US for a long time and even planning to sell off her flat. That angmoh son-in-law must have been pissed off with her.

[mathsparks]

Joy:

Kawan


You are here...

Happy for you and I guess for all the endurance that you had gone through and that is why u are so blessed with very smart and lovely children.

cheers
Joy

ya, buddy, I sometimes lurk here but don really share coz dh occasionally reads n not so nice hor if he sees what I've written. Thanks for your wishes, and yr kids are smart n lovely too. Anyway, all parents think so of their kids, right?

[mathsparks]

cascada:

[quote]mathsparks wrote:

I hope that those stuck in the same situation as me find a way out like I eventually did...after so many long years.

Wow, mathsparks, really admire your tolerance level and congrats to your new found freedom. :lol: [/quote]Thanks, cascada. I'm so looking forward to the big move. :celebrate:

cascada:

I even suspect if I had post natal blues and never did recover from it! So I now become siao

I've a good news to share too. I don't have to think so hard whether to inform ils about DS's hospitalization. Mil called DH yesterday to inform that she is going Msia for short holiday and the dates coincides with my DS's hospital admission. DH said no need to inform il and if asked/found out later, just say don't want to spoil their holiday mood.
Sometimes, things solved by itself so procrastination isn't that bad after all.

:thankyou: all KSP friends for your kind advice.

Ya, cascada, sometimes if we procrastinate, things will resolve by itself. And speedy recovery to yr ds. Do take care.

[mathsparks]

:thankyou: treenymph for your kind wishes.

buds:

PM me.. PM me!

no la dear, don really like to gossip too much.

buds:

What a coincidence. :shock: Me too! With DD1.. but i was undetered and
with my own mumsie and well-meaning friends spurring me on i persevered
and succeeded eventually.

If only those nincompoop MILs will just zip up and not say anything (other than sincere get well soon) to new mums who'd just given birth, are hormonally disturbed, emotionally stressed and drained and so terribly inexperienced (sure la, compare to mils with so many children). Despite all that and having to deal with all those stitches, they plough on and earnestly try to nurse their newborns. If they have nothing kind to say, do spare us the where got milk, give bottle easier, and baby too weak to suckle ...kinda nonsense.

Good that you perservered. Yr dds are very fortunate.

buds:

Mathsparks, i thought my tunnel was long enough but yours sure heck beats
us all hands down. :salute:

Let me be an inspiration to you mummies, k?