Me Time!
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Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=\"2068785\" time=\"1653562432\" user_id=\"195250:[quote=\"Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=2068785 time=1653562432 user_id=195250]
LNW,
MrsKiasu,
Thank you for consoling me everytime when I was down and this is why I decide to stay in this forum even my DH ask me to leave. 无言感激。[/quote]
Take heart that u’re such a positive member here & helping parents here with your candid advices.
Initially, when I first joined, DH was silent. I got quite involved at one time till he started teasing me for my input. I became mindful of my time spent with my family & esp with DH, so he tease less. Maybe he wants more attention fr you?
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Toomuchlaundry\" post_id=\"2068787\" time=\"1653562966\" user_id=\"197996:
No...no....you are giving too much compliment on me, it is so kind of you, I am just a emotional old woman 👵. I don't think any parents here need me lah.
:udawoman:
:whut: why are you sad, LNW? I would miss your sensible voice if you left this forum. You are the sanest person in this community. Parents of Singapore need you here.
I am bad at consoling people but will try my best.
This morning, when we are talking on the joy and the difficulties in raising a boy and the parental love, etc...I suddenly felt sad because I didn't have a chance to experience all these, as a step mother, I am always an outsider between the father and son. I am sorry it was my bad as I shouldn't put my feelings here. I apologise for it. I enjoy talking to you because I believe you are a happy parent with a smart girl and a naughty boy. -
MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2068793\" time=\"1653567382\" user_id=\"43981:
:rotflmao: thank you MrsKaisu, my DH knows I will surely go out and dinning with my 酒肉朋友.
LNW, you can tell your dh ..having friends in this forum no need go out to eat and it is safe from covid..joking joking lol -
starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"2068795\" time=\"1653569290\" user_id=\"14025:
Maybe affected by the hormones during menopause :frustrated: In Buddhism teaching, I cannot control my mind. So now I am trying my best to put my mind back on the correct track.
LNW
What happened to you?
This forum and this thread helped me to destress.
放好自己的心态. Thank you Star. -
Estéema\" post_id=\"2068796\" time=\"1653571361\" user_id=\"66413:
Thank you Estéema, no....no....I am not always a positive person and can't help much here lah.
LNW,
Take heart that u’re such a positive member here & helping parents here with your candid advices.
Initially, when I first joined, DH was silent. I got quite involved at one time till he started teasing me for my input. I became mindful of my time spent with my family & esp with DH, so he tease less. Maybe he wants more attention fr you?
My DH knows why I come here and what happened here every day, his idea is : we are not rich and not highly educated and sometimes others might not giving me any stepping stone and make me \" lose face\" so why has to stay in a place where I might be unfairly treated. -
LNW
I am unable to understand the emotions being a step mum but I think it isn’t good to keep remembering it, after all with so many years of raising the boy. The only difference is the absence of 9 mths in your tummy. -
starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"2068814\" time=\"1653601603\" user_id=\"14025:
Thank you Star, you are correct, I should forget it from today.
LNW
I am unable to understand the emotions being a step mum but I think it isn't good to keep remembering it, after all with so many years of raising the boy. The only difference is the absence of 9 mths in your tummy.
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Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=\"2068808\" time=\"1653584333\" user_id=\"195250:[quote=\"Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=2068808 time=1653584333 user_id=195250]
How do you first know that the menopause is starting? When you start not to have period every month? Or before that hormones already creating havoc?
Maybe affected by the hormones during menopause :frustrated: In Buddhism teaching, I cannot control my mind. So now I am trying my best to put my mind back on the correct track.
放好自己的心态. Thank you Star.[/quote] -
LNW, we will all be old women at some point... in fact I am looking forward to being an old woman sooner because it means I dont have to spend 1h cleaning and washing poop from toddler smelly butts. Fair to say my dh is already an old woman, grumbling and pottering about the house.
This is a public forum and you will see all kinds of views and backgrounds. If people are rude to you, just shake it off! Its anonymous so the bar for polite behaviour is just lower. You should see some comments on my Facebook. I am an Auntie already and proud of it! When people are rude to me I just tsk tsk and push them aside like I am on the HK MTR!
Anyway Bentley drivers are everywhere and being rich or highly educated doesn't mean you have class! I would say you have class and most people would rather spend an hour with you than all the Bentley drivers in SG.Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=\"2068809\" time=\"1653585036\" user_id=\"195250:[quote=\"Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=2068809 time=1653585036 user_id=195250]Thank you Estéema, no....no....I am not always a positive person and can't help much here lah.
My DH knows why I come here and what happened here every day, his idea is : we are not rich and not highly educated and sometimes others might not giving me any stepping stone and make me \" lose face\" so why has to stay in a place where I might be unfairly treated.[/quote] -
Toomuchlaundry\" post_id=\"2068822\" time=\"1653611951\" user_id=\"197996:
Thank you \"Toomuchlaundry\", hope you can cope with your laundry and your boy can go toilet by himself soon. This is my first time joining a public forum and therefore still learning how to interact with people here. I am fine today as last night joined my friends for werewolf games and have won three games in total (I was a wolf during the second games). Have to go for a mookata buffet and a concert at Vivo City by SCO tomorrow. Have a good weekend to all.
LNW, we will all be old women at some point... in fact I am looking forward to being an old woman sooner because it means I dont have to spend 1h cleaning and washing poop from toddler smelly butts. Fair to say my dh is already an old woman, grumbling and pottering about the house.
This is a public forum and you will see all kinds of views and backgrounds. If people are rude to you, just shake it off! Its anonymous so the bar for polite behaviour is just lower. You should see some comments on my Facebook. I am an Auntie already and proud of it! When people are rude to me I just tsk tsk and push them aside like I am on the HK MTR!
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