Me Time!
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zac's mum\" post_id=\"2072170\" time=\"1656422073\" user_id=\"53606:[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2072170 time=1656422073 user_id=53606]
So nice u're a reader! In rare supply.
Regarding the part in light blue…when you are reading your book alone, does your extrovert child not come and want to talk to you? I have tried so many times to explain that I need my introvert time. Yet DS “needs” to come and talk to me about whatever he’s reading/watching. Then when I plead for some peace and quiet, he will point out that human interactions are his way of recharging so would I please let him tell me about it :frustrated:
The only time I can truly read in peace is while he’s in school (so glad June hols are over!) And from Sec 1 onwards, that will be longer hours so yay.[/quote]
Agree w @slmkoo. Mom needs to put herself first with sufficient rest.
Here is a site on how to raise extroverts as an introvert:
https://www.verywellfamily.com/how-to-raise-an-extroverted-child-5199466
Ways I get my extroverted teen to leave me alone during school hols:
1. Give her lots of chances to play outside with friends who live nearby.
2. Have her play sport in a CCA that meets up during hols.
3. Increase her screen time by 1 hour (this always works, but maybe not for PSLE year!)
4. Close my room door, w a homemade sign: \"Mommy's Time.\"
Hope this helps! Hols are over, anyway, and I tend to read after the toddler sleeps! -
Thank u to all the mummies for their input! All good stuff - I can have a deep think about it now when everyone is out of the house :boogie:
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Toomuchlaundry\" post_id=\"2072199\" time=\"1656466733\" user_id=\"197996:
With babies and toddlers, that's they only way! But that phase only lasts a few years, thankfully. I remember several times telling my kids when they were young: \"Go to bed! Mummy is tired!\" whereupon the whole family laughed at me.
... I tend to read after the toddler sleeps!
I have been known to catch moments when the kids are otherwise occupied with toys or TV to read a page or 2. At one stage, I was taking a course (luckily it was mostly study at home, own time own target type), and I recall writing essays with a preschooler playing in the another part of the room, and a toddler playing at my feet. I can't imagine how scrappy those essays must have sounded, written 2 sentences at a time! -
Oh yes! We wrote ours when dd was a bb then. This time round…much easier. I just chauffeur and take care their meals and I will be left alone.
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Think of it they are quite independent in a way…coz I can do my own things almost all the time and they are left alone do their own stuffs…it is mostly the breaking up of my schedule that makes me feel quite miserable.
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Am thoroughly enjoying this ebook that I’ve just borrowed. Have not read fiction (instead of parenting books) in a long time:
The Latecomer by Jean Hanff Korelitz. -
zac's mum\" post_id=\"2072241\" time=\"1656476885\" user_id=\"53606:[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2072241 time=1656476885 user_id=53606]
I try not to go for novel on family affairs and the relationship between family members as it may cause me to recall lot of nightmares in the past. :siam:
Am thoroughly enjoying this ebook that I’ve just borrowed. Have not read fiction (instead of parenting books) in a long time:
The Latecomer by Jean Hanff Korelitz.[/quote] -
zac's mum\" post_id=\"2072241\" time=\"1656476885\" user_id=\"53606:[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2072241 time=1656476885 user_id=53606]
Enjoy your me time! I love American family epics. Reading a history of Paris, Seven Ages.
Am thoroughly enjoying this ebook that I’ve just borrowed. Have not read fiction (instead of parenting books) in a long time:
The Latecomer by Jean Hanff Korelitz.[/quote] -
MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2072161\" time=\"1656417662\" user_id=\"43981:
when they were much younger (up till secondary school), I would want them to be home.
I like kids to be at home..everything much easier.
advise them what are the dos and the don'ts, especially to my girl.
till now, I still remind my girl to hold on to the values and to remember self respect.
daughter's psychiatrist recommended me this book...it's called 'the self driven child'.
occasionally I do read those pages which I put some bookmarks to remind myself when she drives me nuts.
tomorrow is son's ORD. i don't have to wash army uniforms until he has reservist. -
janet88\" post_id=\"2072271\" time=\"1656485198\" user_id=\"12950:
Janet, it is really good to see you have come this far..and both are good now.
when they were much younger (up till secondary school), I would want them to be home.
advise them what are the dos and the don'ts, especially to my girl.
till now, I still remind my girl to hold on to the values and to remember self respect.
daughter's psychiatrist recommended me this book...it's called 'the self driven child'.
occasionally I do read those pages which I put some bookmarks to remind myself when she drives me nuts.
tomorrow is son's ORD. i don't have to wash army uniforms until he has reservist.
Yup with girls we need to nag abit more. Coz I feel once in love difficult to get them listen.
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