Me Time!

[MrsKiasu]

Think also depend on whether it is 1st son … first one should be ganjiong and subsequent ones parents may be telling them …go check with gor gor.

[MyPillow]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2132012\" time=\"1712199428\" user_id=\"43981:

Think also depend on whether it is 1st son .. first one should be ganjiong and subsequent ones parents may be telling them ..go check with gor gor.

For us, Hubby & me were quite positive and assuring to him , even my mum was positive.
But on the send off day , his gf cried alot, and this affected him a while. Then when sending him to aussie for flight training, she also cried alot in airport! I was a bit unhappy ..... but they are still strong n together even now tat he ord :rotflmao:

[MrsKiasu]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"2132013\" time=\"1712199830\" user_id=\"70594:

For us, Hubby & me were quite positive and assuring to him , even my mum was positive.
But on the send off day , his gf cried alot, and this affected him a while. Then when sending him to aussie for flight training, she also cried alot in airport! I was a bit unhappy ..... but they are still strong n together even now tat he ord :rotflmao:

The gf must be very much in love with your ds. You unhappy coz you pantang as she was crying arh?

[MyPillow]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2132014\" time=\"1712200030\" user_id=\"43981:

The gf must be very much in love with your ds. You unhappy coz you pantang as she was crying arh?

not pantang.. But we feel she would make ds upset, 舍不得 . \"guilty\" etc Ah ya , short while only, whats there to cry
so my ds has not think of going for overseas to study too ,although we \"jokingly\" offer him

dd very cute, she saw all these in her own eyes and commented next time she is not like that, so sticky ... I told her
she better be more independent , got daddy n mummy aorund wat

[MrsKiasu]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"2132015\" time=\"1712200699\" user_id=\"70594:

not pantang.. But we feel she would make ds upset, 舍不得 . \"guilty\" etc Ah ya , short while only, whats there to cry
so my ds has not think of going for overseas to study too ,although we \"jokingly\" offer him

dd very cute, she saw all these in her own eyes and commented next time she is not like that, so sticky ... I told her
she better be more independent , got daddy n mummy aorund wat

Oic..understand. kind of tying him down when you parents feel that ds can do anything /go wherever he wants at this age right. 这么办。kids big already have own thinking le.

[Estéema]

doodbug\" post_id=\"2132011\" time=\"1712199213\" user_id=\"13281:

In teenage (and my) parlance - Bubble Tea nicer and the same lah! :rotflmao:

Not all go for bubble tea. Mine just won’t go for anything sugary or unhealthy or ‘unscientific’. I get questioned OK. Lol

[Estéema]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"2132013\" time=\"1712199830\" user_id=\"70594:

For us, Hubby & me were quite positive and assuring to him , even my mum was positive.
But on the send off day , his gf cried alot, and this affected him a while. Then when sending him to aussie for flight training, she also cried alot in airport! I was a bit unhappy ..... but they are still strong n together even now tat he ord :rotflmao:

Hahaha… attachment strategy.

DS’s gfrd didn’t cry tho. She seems quite level headed. She’s independent type alright. Hope when DS decide overseas is an option, she’ll not dissuade him. Pssst… I alr sent signals to her

[Liew Nga Wing]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"2132008\" time=\"1712198267\" user_id=\"70594:

thanks for the reminder. but now he think he is old enough, a lot of things also dun want to eat, own thinking, dun wan us to concern too much. eat gummy vitamins lor

You can cook the \"liang cha\" and put it in the refrigerator. Don't say you have made the \"liang cha\" specially for him. Since the weather is very hot, he may want to take the \"liang cha\" instead of ice water too cool his body down.

[sharonkhoo]

Estéema\" post_id=\"2132018\" time=\"1712203350\" user_id=\"66413:

DS’s gfrd didn’t cry tho. She seems quite level headed. She’s independent type alright. Hope when DS decide overseas is an option, she’ll not dissuade him. Pssst… I alr sent signals to her

And now they have so many ways to keep in touch in real time! When my husband and I were in different countries when I did my MA, we wrote to each other twice a week - and it took about 5 days for each letter to reach. So the letters would always cross. We spoke on the phone once a week, but it was quite expensive and on my end, the phone was in the pantry and above the washing machine! Not the most conducive place to have private chats. No mobile phones in those days (1989).

[Funz]

My DS no GF to cry over him.


DS enlistment is not as big as those at tekong. Think his whole company only 115 fellas. Only 2 persons per recruit were invited for their enlistment. Most parents are rather cool. DH was one of those parents who were so excited over the display of the gears and equipment that the boys will be using.

No liang cha for DS either. He believes in good ole water and at most manuka honey. He does not drink bubble tea but will go for a glass of coke sometimes.