Club FTWM

[chatelaine]

:salute: Greetings to all great FTWM


Finally finished reading this thread... Mummies' worries and hardwork.

I just stumbled upon this thread, didn't know newbies got to report here. I have been busy browsing and posting for many months :oops:

I'm a FTWM staying in BP with DD 2yrs and DS 1yr and no maid. Prefers to manage my household personally.

Of course, if $$$ allows, I would rather stay home and be SAHM... Spends quality time with my kids and cooking for them is a bliss. Have to work at least another 15yrs to pay off our housing loan, contribute to household and DD/DS expenses. Good thing about working in my current job is having colleagues to share their ideas on growing up kids and flexibility in taking leaves in case of child emergency.

I'm one of the mummies wishing ToTo would knock on my door and tell me *Mummy, you can finally be SAHM* :rahrah:

:lovesite:

[duriz]

LKVM:

chatelaine:

:salute: Greetings to all great FTWM

Welcome to this group chatelaine, I guess somewhere inside all the woman there is a drean to SAHM but yes due to circumstances we cannot do it... hopefully one day we can :celebrate:

:hi5:

[Funz]

LKVM:

duriz:

[quote=\"LKVM\"]
Welcome to this group chatelaine, I guess somewhere inside all the woman there is a drean to SAHM but yes due to circumstances we cannot do it... hopefully one day we can :celebrate:

:hi5:

:hi5: [/quote]

:dowan:

Not this FTWM. Think I will turn into a monster if I were to be a SAHM.

[MMM]

Funz:

Think I will turn into a monster if I were to be a SAHM.

:celebrate: I fully agree with this :lol: I will either drive myself or the kids crazy if I ever become a SAHM. I need to be a FTWM to gain sanity.

[duriz]

MMM:

Funz:

Think I will turn into a monster if I were to be a SAHM.

:celebrate: I fully agree with this :lol: I will either drive myself or the kids crazy if I ever become a SAHM. I need to be a FTWM to gain sanity.

oh dear. heh.

[MMM]

LKVM:

MMM:

[quote=\"Funz\"] Think I will turn into a monster if I were to be a SAHM.

:celebrate: I fully agree with this :lol: I will either drive myself or the kids crazy if I ever become a SAHM. I need to be a FTWM to gain sanity.

Isit :shock: :shock:[/quote]haha yah.... Do your homework now, practise your piano, stop watching tv, stop dreaming, pay attention, don't idle, study, study and study...... I think I will ended up as a SAHP (Stay at home policewoman). I think the kids will hate me for that.

So yes... I am admitting that I a poor candidate for SAHM.

[Funz]

LKVM:

MMM:

haha yah.... Do your homework now, practise your piano, stop watching tv, stop dreaming, pay attention, don't idle, study, study and study...... I think I will ended up as a SAHP (Stay at home policewoman). I think the kids will hate me for that.


So yes... I am admitting that I a poor candidate for SAHM.

Yeah lor if u do like that one then surely kids will hate u lah now I know why some ladies dont wanna be SAHM even though they have a choice

Yah, so now you know. One man's meat is another man's poison.

Among my circle of friends, 9 out of 10 will consider themselves poor candidates for SAHM.

Well most of us would have considered the possibility of being a SAHM at 1 pt or another but we very quickly realise we dun have the patience or temperament to be able to take on that role.

So for the safety and sanity of everyone, we shall remain FTWMs.

[chatelaine]

Thanks LKVM, duriz, Funz & MMM.


Hope to learn more from you gals and may all of us have more luck with $$$

[Luanee]

Count me in too!! Think I will go crazy if I become a SAHM lol…

[ImMeeMee]

hello I am a FTWM . but cannot decide whether I love it or hate it, cos its a lot of mixed feelings, myself vs my kids and dh. so dont know how to vote.