Mummy Luvkid: Sorry for my LATE report. It's Luvkid here!
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:rahrah: :congrats: :rahrah: dear luvkid :celebrate:
Wondering where have you been?
No wonder so long never post any links to the song thread. Been busy making your own music eh :evil: :evil:
How far along are you now? Do drop by when you can. Miss ya :love: -
Luvkid:
Hi there,
Me going to be mummy of 3 in March 2011, if everything goes well.
Tell u guys more about it when i am \"allowed\" to do so.... :idea:
Now is time \"allowed\" me to tell u guys out there.
Thanks to all the well wishes from u sweet gals-buds,duri,LKVM,qms,Blurbee,autumnbronze....
U guys get your ears ready to listen to my long \"grandmother\" story.....
Thing goes this way..... :idea:
Throughout these 10 over years from dating,cohabiting and marrying to DH, we do not have precaution (we based on my SAFE days :!: )on our family planning.
After we got customed married and allow to ๅไบบ, we can plan when to \"do\" it.
And we just \"do\" it according to our plan.
We have DS1,followed by DS2.... :love:
Though we decide to stop at 2,we take things for granted.
Continue my SAFE days method for the past few years.....
ๅ๏ผไบบ็ฎไธๅฆๅคฉ็ฎใใใใ
In mid July, i missed my menses.... :stupid:
First thot, won't strike so easily lah...
we only \"do\" it 1 time in June, and is within the 10 days from the first day of my last menses....
I even suspected it was bcos of the stress given by the new boss (he just took over the company in May).
There was a BIG reform going on in my company in June....
I thot i was over stressed with everything that made my menses late...
Things dun go as i thot.....
After 1 week from my missed date, i did a pregnancy test....
I was not happy to see the result, hoping something wrong with the kit...
Did another test on the following morning, the result showed positive....
I was at a loss for the next whole week.... :?:
Life still has to go on.....
When i finally and yet not decided whether to get rid of the little one inside my womb,
I made an appointment (consultation) to proceed with.....ABORTION....
But i chicken out when DH drove me to the clinic.....
The journey to the clinic was \"tense\",my blank was in a mess....
DH suddenly said ็ๅฆ๏ผ็ๅฆ๏ผDespite of our budgetting discussion the nite before....
And just then, my heart was ease, I know what i want liao...
So i would say this child is innocent, it is fated to be our child.
It would be heartless to just get rid of it, that's our thinking...
Since then, I decided to keep it, as long as it is healthy.
Same to my previous 2 pregnancies, no morning sickness, eat more than usual,
but feel much more tired. ่liao, bo bian.....
I start to take extra supplement since i dun want to consult gynae so soon.
I start to take extra care of myself.....
Family and colleague and even my new boss are all happy for me....
Said i am silly to have the initial thot.....
Seen my gynae last month,baby is doing fine,heart beat detected-this is my main concern.....
I am turning to the start of 2nd trimester soon-tmr :celebrate:
As i am over 35 now :oops: i will opt for amnio test, by then i leave it to fate again.... :love:autumnbronze:
No leh, u read the above, we only \"did\" once leh, No shiok......Been busy making your own music eh
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autumnbronze:
:rotflmao: Trust you to come up with that, autumnbronze! :rotflmao:No wonder so long never post any links to the song thread. Been busy making your own music eh :evil: :evil:
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Luvkid:
Rilek sista. Now you can do it ALL THE TIME! :evil:autumnbronze:
Been busy making your own music eh
No leh, u read the above, we only \"did\" once leh, No shiok......
No planning required... be spontaneous... take it all in.
No need to count safe days some more... everyday is a safe day.
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buds:
There is no sex drive for me at all. :oops:Rilek sista. Now you can do it ALL THE TIME! :evil:
No planning required... be spontaneous... take it all in.
No need to count safe days some more... everyday is a safe day.
I mentioned i get \"wet\" easily in sEx thread, not now leh.... :shock:
Even after long foreplay.....
DH can \"stand\" well, but i am not ready..... :roll:
Think DH got to DIY again.....
Like he did during my last 2 pregnancies....
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Wei.. Durex Play got so many variety of lubs.
Even cold wet ones you gotta freeze before
use. Serious arh? Got men like your hubs
who dun mind DIY...
For you, i think it
is the stress taking over and drying up
your brain already.. think abt $... abt
wah seh for real anot #3... then work
then SA2 for DS1... then u above 35yrs,
more risk... how amnio... haiyah... all these
are killing the spirit of lovin' really.. u must
take care, ok? :hugs:
U see me... just happy happy nia... even when
i got IL issues non-stop... hubs issues different,
children's caregiving and education go on and
i tell ya piling housework waits for no man... or
ehek hemm... woman rather...
And also remember, look good to feel good..
Hubs saw me in a dress when he came
back today... hugging the u noe wats... :lol:
So... suffice to say, i got my boost and him?
He got his sleep lor... what else? :roll:
Like i'm sleeping pill.
I'm now like wide-eyed-owlette high on caffeine.
I dun even drink coffee to begin with.. -
buds:
As u might aware DH really tahan for 2 x 9 months during the last 2 pregnacies.Wei.. Durex Play got so many variety of lubs.
Even cold wet ones you gotta freeze before
use. Serious arh? Got men like your hubs
who dun mind DIY... For you, i think it
is the stress taking over and drying up
your brain already.. think abt $... abt
wah seh for real anot #3... then work
then SA2 for DS1... then u above 35yrs,
more risk... how amnio... haiyah... all these
are killing the spirit of lovin' really.. u must
take care, ok? :hugs:
Maybe u can say he is rare species.....
Ya maybe u r rite, i am stressed with all those stuffs,esp $$.
Cos we dun earn much, hardly making end meets....
Soon another mouth to feed......
Caregiver for the newborn and existing 2 DS....
Dun think i can be SAHM, will go siao for sure....
To get a maid,dun know can be trusted to look after my little ones...
To get nanny, i still ought to handle all the household chores....
Soon i am starting over again n again with another baby BOY again....
Talking about the gender, i am disappointed when my gynae told me during my check up this morning....
Think this is another stress factor....
Surprisingly, i am not really stressed with DS1 SA2.....
For the last 3 months, i slack myself from teaching him....
Very tired, work in the day, evening rush to get both DS, shower, dinner,
i will have to \"black out\"(sleep)......
Only until recently, my energy start to regain, hope it gets better....
As for lubricants assistant, i dun think i will want to need it,
cos DH thinking also kiasi, scared that harm baby.....
Is only that i feel i totally dun have the drive at all as compared with
the previous pregnancies....
Tks, i am generally optimistic, happy be easy with anything.....Will sure take care of myself and baby.... U too, coming to your 3rd trimester, ought to take care too!! And remember excess sexual intercourse will induce labour....buds:
So u r still the usual self, get more energetic after a :!: session??Hubs saw me in a dress when he came
back today... hugging the u noe wats...
So... suffice to say, i got my boost and him?
He got his sleep lor... what else?
Like i'm sleeping pill.
I'm now like wide-eyed-owlette high on caffeine.
I dun even drink coffee to begin with.. -
Luvkid:
Tks, i am generally optimistic, happy be easy with anything.....Will sure take care of myself and baby....
Take care, Luvkid.
Dun stress urself too much. Everything will be fine. -
:congrats: Luvkid
Nice to be mummy again! -
BlurBee:
Ya, \"the bridge will get straighten when u reach the bridge \"head\"\"-translate to chinese.Take care, Luvkid.
Dun stress urself too much. Everything will be fine.LKVM:
not only playground leh.....2 boys already turning the whole house upside down.....hmm BOY so will be 3 boys.. wow ur house will be one big playground soo.. take care of urself
3 boys.......****shake my head***** :roll: chatelaine:
Tks, chatelaine..... :love:Nice to be mummy again!
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