Teachers' Violence
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Daddy
Ya..very true..FT have a lot of drive and tt makes a lot of difference..our kids need to have tt drive but more than that, be creative and think out of the box for solutions. I think our kids are too passive, they wait for instructions and solutions to be handed out to them. That is why when you put them on a level playing field with FT, they find it hard to compete...
Reminds me of the Sunday article... abt our Gen Y kids... pretty sad... and we complain abt FTs taking our rice bowls... but our local kids are not up to the challenges...jasmineong:
I look at him and think he is actually really smart but he cannot tahan probs or stress and because his parents always take his side without trying to teach him resilience, he ends up bumming his life away.. :shock:
But is it our education system tt makes them like tt (too much spoonfeeding)..but on the other hand, I also do not like too much of the 'free and easy' style of western education. Here, at least our average can write and do maths much better..sigh guess it is up to us parents to make up for the lack of any system.. -
I agree that it is good to let the kids take some light knocks/setbacks along the way, so that they can be ready and prepared for challenges later on in life. If they are forever hoping that things will change for them when things are not going well, rather then they themselves changing their ways, it would almost spell trouble in future.
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jasmineong:
Agree with you. I also wonder if my kid will become target practice. It'll be very scary if a kid feels he's invincible becos of the mountain behind him - becos once out of the school system, it's likely that mountain may turn into a molehill (unless your surname very powerful).
I think explaining and counseling the child is much more effective than
complaining. When we complain, sometimes the child can be targeted more..also I don't want my child to think that he is invincible- nobody dare touch him..if not mummy tigress will come out..I see some parents like that and see the way the kids are..I shudder.
In any case, despite these stories about teachers using inappropriate methods, I kinda feel that as long as my kid toe the line (not being rude etc), I should not be personally worried about whether I should send him for training to dodge pencil cases/dusters. -
hquek:
I like that so funny..ya after leaving school, our 'power' also leaves..
Agree with you. I also wonder if my kid will become target practice. It'll be very scary if a kid feels he's invincible becos of the mountain behind him - becos once out of the school system, it's likely that mountain may turn into a molehill (unless your surname very powerful).
In any case, despite these stories about teachers using inappropriate methods, I kinda feel that as long as my kid toe the line (not being rude etc), I should not be personally worried about whether I should send him for training to dodge pencil cases/dusters.
Training to dodge pencil cases? That is hilarious!! By the way, your child is in primary school? -
hquek:
and then post details on KSP if you find any such training available, please!... (not being rude etc), I should not be personally worried about whether I should send him for training to dodge pencil cases/dusters.
especially if it includes training in dodging pencil cases/dusters even while asleep. :rotflmao: -
was telling my better half about this teacher throwing pencil case to a sleeping student....and my DS told me yesterday one of his classmate put his head on the table and slept. and before that, he told the boy next seat that he was super tired, and please inform the teacher if she asked...and true enough, the english teacher came and tried to wake him up .....no, no throwing pencil case lah....just some loving words to encourage him, next week is PSLE already....and those boys really know how to make themselves loveable to the teachers ..... :rotflmao:
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LKVM:
ya, they all looking forward to next week, and have been doing extras on their own...verykiasu2010:
next week is PSLE already....and those boys really know how to make themselves loveable to the teachers ..... :rotflmao:
hahahaha very cute but then the kid might be really tired... -
dunnoleh:
kinda reminds me of those Chow Sing Chi movies. :lol:
and then post details on KSP if you find any such training available, please!hquek:
... (not being rude etc), I should not be personally worried about whether I should send him for training to dodge pencil cases/dusters.
especially if it includes training in dodging pencil cases/dusters even while asleep. :rotflmao: -
jasmineong:
Not yet, P1 next year. Contemplating to be active contributor to PSG...if only to find out what's going on in school.
Training to dodge pencil cases? That is hilarious!! By the way, your child is in primary school? -
LKVM:
yupz I wish ur DS all the very best :celebrate:[/quote]thanking you on his behalf !! :celebrate:
ya, they all looking forward to next week, and have been doing extras on their own...verykiasu2010:
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hahahaha very cute but then the kid might be really tired...
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