In-law problems?

[tracytmks]

Don't know how I can do it nw volcano eruptn explore oredi hahaha especially long weekends made me laggi frust n fedup :!:

[janet88]

tracytmks:

Don't know how I can do it nw volcano eruptn explore oredi hahaha especially long weekends made me laggi frust n fedup :!:

Is the flat yours or in-laws ? Have you thought of moving out ? Does hubby understand your situation ?

[Monster Mummy]

Hi,


I think that whoever living with the other partner’s parents will not be comfortable.

As the living habit and bring up is different. Definitely, it will depend if your partner support you.

The best is to ge your own house and meet once in a while. There will be less conflict unless there is no choice.

[janet88]

Monster Mummy:

I think that whoever living with the other partner's parents will not be comfortable.


As the living habit and bring up is different. Definitely, it will depend if your partner support you.

The best is to ge your own house and meet once in a while. There will be less conflict unless there is no choice.

It's a very difficult thing to do - staying with other partner's parents. On top of having to adjust to other half, there are old folks to handle and the siblings who can be a PAIN in the neck.

[kiddo]

After reading thru part of this thread my eyes goes :shock: :shock:

think I will be the first to walk out if I need to live with ILs.......
no way ........

Admired all you Ladies for your bravery for striding on... :love: :celebrate:

I know I will never take first place when DH mumy is in town staying with us........
she is very nice to me because I manage the whole household from finance to DS
to the last screws until lately DH started to take over
some of the stuff........

Cos MIL told DH wife you can find everywhere mother you only have one :roll:
Nevermind lah I told DH your wifey is too independent to mind if
you chose your mummy over me after all she live with you for
a longer time than me and will please you in more ways
than me. So I in no way should be in First place ...
This is human nature we gravitate towards
someone that can take all our idiocyncracies......

DH is a super patience person to the hilt and I am the speedy gonzali Venus vs Mars
Anyway we found a middle ground in many things over
the years living together.

Hang on there sista.... :please: :celebrate:

[tracytmks]

is my flat combine name with hubby. he will always side her one the reason gave is not logic he oso accept. :stupid:

[tracytmks]

i don't know m i unreasonable or not? u c my son is sleeping with her so my hubby don't know y go shift the bed position made the rm look more clamp. so i told him to keep the stands for hanging clothes is those with 4 wheels and long one. her clothes hang there for months oso never wear don't why still put there (mayb for show only) one of them is my gal sch uniform (is new never wear before).


u know what she blow up n scolded me saying don't throw the metal away ur brother one want. c so many mths n years never say he wants we kept it she then say he wants (isn't she lying firstly) nvr mind she oso says is because i open the window big that y got mosquitoes not because she hang clothes there. i m staying at level 6 don't think will have mosquitoes, windows needs to be open to let the room ventilate right? She even pass sacastic remarks saying she nvr takes a single cent from me, you think what i like to stay here, i like to put my things like that oso must care, etc. throughout the night i just keep my mouth shut. so told hubby nvr mind put back n he just pass a remark saying not clamp faint man side her. He put her clothes back to the hanger.then she very naught i at living room she go kitchen, i go kitchen keep my cloths she go rooms u c this kind of ppl oso have anyway this is not the first time. even we in the living room i sit beside her she will tilt her head away from me, when eating she will either head down or look the other(tested n proof before).

The next day i came back from work she hang my gal uniform back, u c really made me frust right. now hv to ask hubby to seek her permission can i keep the uniform in the wardrobe. til nw he haven't asked her.

[janet88]

If have to visit them, it’s best to keep it short and sweet.

Of course, buy something for them to eat…will look good on me too.
Then if have to chat, talk about the weather and the kids. PERIOD.
After a short while, GOOD BYE.

[kiddo]

tracytmks,


You very good \"tong\" for so long, anyway you already trained
yourself to manage the system in the household so just one
eye open one eye close will be easier to deal with people that
feel a little awkward with new members addition in the house like
yourself even though you have been there for so long,

I feel it is probably the culture of your Hubby family nothing to do
with you..... just their own style of dealing with people staying in the
house......some household are very \"clickish\" - like only like to
\"champ-po\" only with own people ...strange but do exist
in this 21st century ???

be good sista jia yu jia yu :celebrate: :love:

[tracytmks]

thank you kiddo for your support n all the KSP.... :lol: :lol: :celebrate: