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    • A Offline
      Augmum
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      hquek:

      My maid dun have offdays. I used to buy toiletries for her - if it's my money, she dun get to choose. Upfront I told her already, you want to choose, you pay for it.

      And after going through toothpaste etc at super fast rate, she now has to buy her own toiletries. Basically my mum will bring her along on trips to ntuc/market and she can go there and buy. Sometimes they accumulate purchase in the same receipt, but my mum will mark out those my maid bought and i deduct from her salary.
      In all cases, I retain receipt as proof. Usually I get her to sign that she is the one who incur these purchases also (cover my ass strategy).
      i did the same for my ex-maid......
      when we go shopping together, she would buy her own personal stuff
      and she liked to pamper herself like using whitening cream, pimple cream, moisturiser (diff brands for face and body)
      off course i deducted fr her salary for all these purchases
      and she was rather generous in all these purchases šŸ˜‰ šŸ˜„

      but she would \"sting\" on stuff such as hygience pads
      which resulted in staining here and there...... :x
      so i would have to spare her my personal stuff

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        jtoh
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        Augmum:
        hquek:


        My maid dun have offdays. I used to buy toiletries for her - if it's my money, she dun get to choose. Upfront I told her already, you want to choose, you pay for it.

        And after going through toothpaste etc at super fast rate, she now has to buy her own toiletries. Basically my mum will bring her along on trips to ntuc/market and she can go there and buy. Sometimes they accumulate purchase in the same receipt, but my mum will mark out those my maid bought and i deduct from her salary.
        In all cases, I retain receipt as proof. Usually I get her to sign that she is the one who incur these purchases also (cover my ass strategy).

        i did the same for my ex-maid......
        when we go shopping together, she would buy her own personal stuff
        and she liked to pamper herself like using whitening cream, pimple cream, moisturiser (diff brands for face and body)
        off course i deducted fr her salary for all these purchases
        and she was rather generous in all these purchases šŸ˜‰ šŸ˜„

        but she would \"sting\" on stuff such as hygience pads
        which resulted in staining here and there...... :x
        so i would have to spare her my personal stuff

        I had a maid who was very vain too. All kinds of cream for everything. šŸ˜›

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          Augmum
          last edited by

          jtoh:

          I had a maid who was very vain too. All kinds of cream for everything. šŸ˜›
          haha hifi šŸ˜‰

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            gumiho
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            shine_fs:
            hquek:

            one thing I cannot understand is that maids come with small small bags. And I think the expectation has been built in that employers will buy clothes etc for them. Really spoil market. šŸ˜›


            My previous maid came with one huge baggage + one big bag. The moment you see it, like WOW.....coming for holiday.... :lol:

            Mine too.... :celebrate:

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              Augmum
              last edited by

              Tell u all something abt my fren's maid who returned to her hometown after completion of her contract.


              i heard he said that his maid got a few baggages to carry along
              so she left 1 baggage behind and told him to courier that baggage to her.

              out of curiosity, he opened the baggage to see what it contained šŸ˜‰
              Guess what ??????

              his wife's long lost blouses and undergarments
              his kids's long lost clothes
              some chinese herbs
              some cutie children bowls and spoons
              and some more what....i couldn't remember......
              so he asked me, \"do u think i shd send the baggage back to her ?\" hahaha

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                gumiho
                last edited by

                Augmum:
                hquek:


                My maid dun have offdays. I used to buy toiletries for her - if it's my money, she dun get to choose. Upfront I told her already, you want to choose, you pay for it.

                And after going through toothpaste etc at super fast rate, she now has to buy her own toiletries. Basically my mum will bring her along on trips to ntuc/market and she can go there and buy. Sometimes they accumulate purchase in the same receipt, but my mum will mark out those my maid bought and i deduct from her salary.
                In all cases, I retain receipt as proof. Usually I get her to sign that she is the one who incur these purchases also (cover my ass strategy).

                i did the same for my ex-maid......
                when we go shopping together, she would buy her own personal stuff
                and she liked to pamper herself like using whitening cream, pimple cream, moisturiser (diff brands for face and body)
                off course i deducted fr her salary for all these purchases
                and she was rather generous in all these purchases šŸ˜‰ šŸ˜„

                but she would \"sting\" on stuff such as hygience pads
                which resulted in staining here and there...... :x
                so i would have to spare her my personal stuff

                Basically some maids are merely here for holiday despite them keep claiming that they are here to work hard for their family.

                My previous maid will always go shopping whenever we ask her to run errand for us. She came to work for us in a small briefcase and left our home with 2 HUGE luggage bags. :shock:

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                  Augmum
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                  fionong:

                  My previous maid will always go shopping whenever we ask her to run errand for us. She came to work for us in a small briefcase and left our home with 2 HUGE luggage bags. :shock:
                  with 2 HUGE luggage bags ??
                  would it be something like what i have posted above regarding my fren's maid šŸ˜‰ :roll:

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                    hquek
                    last edited by

                    Augmum:
                    Tell u all something abt my fren's maid who returned to her hometown after completion of her contract.


                    i heard he said that his maid got a few baggages to carry along
                    so she left 1 baggage behind and told him to courier that baggage to her.

                    out of curiosity, he opened the baggage to see what it contained šŸ˜‰
                    Guess what ??????

                    his wife's long lost blouses and undergarments
                    his kids's long lost clothes
                    some chinese herbs
                    some cutie children bowls and spoons
                    and some more what....i couldn't remember......
                    so he asked me, \"do u think i shd send the baggage back to her ?\" hahaha
                    huh? no one checked her luggage when she left? perhaps the good stuff she hauled back herself leaving those she didn't mind to bring/not for 'sir' to courier.

                    Anyway, my ex-maid went home with 2 bulging bags plus 1 carry on. She's thrifty and hardly bought anything. MIL was the one to load her with unused clothings, bags and what nots etc...

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                      Augmum
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                      hquek:
                      Augmum:

                      Tell u all something abt my fren's maid who returned to her hometown after completion of her contract.


                      i heard he said that his maid got a few baggages to carry along
                      so she left 1 baggage behind and told him to courier that baggage to her.

                      out of curiosity, he opened the baggage to see what it contained šŸ˜‰
                      Guess what ??????

                      his wife's long lost blouses and undergarments
                      his kids's long lost clothes
                      some chinese herbs
                      some cutie children bowls and spoons
                      and some more what....i couldn't remember......
                      so he asked me, \"do u think i shd send the baggage back to her ?\" hahaha

                      huh? no one checked her luggage when she left? perhaps the good stuff she hauled back herself leaving those she didn't mind to bring/not for 'sir' to courier.

                      Anyway, my ex-maid went home with 2 bulging bags plus 1 carry on. She's thrifty and hardly bought anything. MIL was the one to load her with unused clothings, bags and what nots etc...

                      i asked my fren that question too...
                      he said that he din check her baggages
                      i also think so...the goody stuff shd already been hauled bk herself šŸ˜‰

                      i also din check my maid's luggage when she left.....
                      but at least i am not so blurred as compared to my fren,
                      i would have known long ago for any missing blouses, undergarments or kids' clothes etc šŸ˜‰

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                        hrbyh
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                        hi pals,


                        I’m new to this forum. Is there anybody willing to share your satisfied maid agency to me? or introduce me good maid?

                        Many thanks!

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