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    IVF baby mix-up - TMC

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    • phankaoP Offline
      phankao
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      verykiasu2010:
      sorry to be blunt about it .......


      it is like the wife was being raped to produce the child, and for the father, it will take a long while to cross the emo barrier that the child is not his

      can sue for how many million $$ ??

      okay, fine, it is just a mix up in the lab ? easier said than done

      in actual fact, it is not easy to mix up if they have set up a proper protocol in the lab
      It's almost like adopting a baby. Because for the Chinese & caucasian couple to have a baby with skin complexion that is \"markedly different\" from them ... the baby must have dark skin? *sigh* Really alot of adjusting to accept I'd feel.

      The technician must've been replying SMS or checking email on his handphone while doing the job, man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      :spank: :spank: :spank:

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        duriz
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        I can only think of one innocent victim: the poor little baby šŸ˜ž

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          verykiasu2010
          last edited by

          to consciously adopt someone with marked different skin tone is no problem in accepting it - it is a conscious decision made


          but to discover it during labour … that is really shocking, and imagine the emo trauma …

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            duriz:
            I can only think of one innocent victim: the poor little baby šŸ˜ž

            he/she is least to be worried about

            if given up for adoption, the queue would be formed overnite

            latest report has it that the parents have decided to keep, with lots of tender loving care la.........TMC would have to make compensation and probably settle out of court, with non-disclosure agreement

            end of story.

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              duriz
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              caroline3sg:
              I think also not her egg because they are O & A blood group while the baby is B.

              You would/could be wrong.

              My friends are blood type A (mother) and type O (father).
              Their child is type B (alike the paternal grandmother).

              My Mummy's neighbors: Chinese couple, had a (very) dark-skinned baby, all natural conception. It just so happens that the maternal great great grandmother is Indian.

              No one did anything wrong, like cheating with another partner.

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              • phankaoP Offline
                phankao
                last edited by

                verykiasu2010:
                to consciously adopt someone with marked different skin tone is no problem in accepting it - it is a conscious decision made


                but to discover it during labour .... that is really shocking, and imagine the emo trauma .......
                Exactly. I can imagine if it happen to me, altho' it wouldn't lah. Already, I don't have \"instant love\" for my kids ... imagine if it was IVF and this happen?!

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                  duriz
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                  verykiasu2010:
                  duriz:

                  I can only think of one innocent victim: the poor little baby šŸ˜ž


                  he/she is least to be worried about

                  if given up for adoption, the queue would be formed overnite

                  latest report has it that the parents have decided to keep, with lots of tender loving care la.........TMC would have to make compensation and probably settle out of court, with non-disclosure agreement

                  end of story.

                  Not as easy as you put it.

                  It's a great emotional hurdle for the parents. For the father, not his child. For the mother, having carried and nurtured (someone else's + her) child for nine months. Being pregnant is a very emotional journey.

                  Anything éø”ęÆ›č’œēš®å°äŗ‹ between the couple would be an opportunity to hinge on this.

                  The child may \"suffer\" unnecessarily.

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                    autumnbronze
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                    verykiasu2010:


                    latest report has it that the parents have decided to keep, with lots of tender loving care la.........
                    Wonderful news :rahrah:

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                    • phankaoP Offline
                      phankao
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                      duriz:
                      caroline3sg:

                      I think also not her egg because they are O & A blood group while the baby is B.


                      You would/could be wrong.

                      My friends are blood type A (mother) and type O (father).
                      Their child is type B (alike the paternal grandmother)..

                      Duriz, your description of A (mother) & O(father) cannot possibly produce a B baby.

                      The genetic makeup of A is AA or AO. And the genetic makeup of O is simply OO. So no matter how you mix it together, there can be no combination that makes a Type B blood type. Something really would be \"fishy\" if that happens.

                      This is covered in O-level Biology. Even my sec 4 daughter knows this.

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                        verykiasu2010
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                        phankao:
                        duriz:

                        [quote=\"caroline3sg\"]I think also not her egg because they are O & A blood group while the baby is B.


                        You would/could be wrong.

                        My friends are blood type A (mother) and type O (father).
                        Their child is type B (alike the paternal grandmother)..

                        Duriz, your description of A (mother) & O(father) cannot possibly produce a B baby.

                        The genetic makeup of A is AA or AO. And the genetic makeup of O is simply OO. So no matter how you mix it together, there can be no combination that makes a Type B blood type. Something really would be \"fishy\" if that happens.

                        This is covered in O-level Biology. Even my sec 4 daughter knows this.[/quote]more twists to the plot

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