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    IVF baby mix-up - TMC

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    • A Offline
      autumnbronze
      last edited by

      verykiasu2010:


      latest report has it that the parents have decided to keep, with lots of tender loving care la.........
      Wonderful news :rahrah:

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      • phankaoP Offline
        phankao
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        duriz:
        caroline3sg:

        I think also not her egg because they are O & A blood group while the baby is B.


        You would/could be wrong.

        My friends are blood type A (mother) and type O (father).
        Their child is type B (alike the paternal grandmother)..

        Duriz, your description of A (mother) & O(father) cannot possibly produce a B baby.

        The genetic makeup of A is AA or AO. And the genetic makeup of O is simply OO. So no matter how you mix it together, there can be no combination that makes a Type B blood type. Something really would be \"fishy\" if that happens.

        This is covered in O-level Biology. Even my sec 4 daughter knows this.

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          verykiasu2010
          last edited by

          phankao:
          duriz:

          [quote=\"caroline3sg\"]I think also not her egg because they are O & A blood group while the baby is B.


          You would/could be wrong.

          My friends are blood type A (mother) and type O (father).
          Their child is type B (alike the paternal grandmother)..

          Duriz, your description of A (mother) & O(father) cannot possibly produce a B baby.

          The genetic makeup of A is AA or AO. And the genetic makeup of O is simply OO. So no matter how you mix it together, there can be no combination that makes a Type B blood type. Something really would be \"fishy\" if that happens.

          This is covered in O-level Biology. Even my sec 4 daughter knows this.[/quote]more twists to the plot

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          • K Offline
            kiddo
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            ksi:
            carebear:

            Easy for you to say.

            But difficult for the father to accept that the child is not his and he has to bring up somebody's child which he may not be willing.
            Mother definitely will feel for the child cos she carried the child for 9 months.
            If it were not the mother's DNA then it may not be so bad.......

            Please do not assume that it is easy for me to say.

            If they want a child so badly, they would have explored all possibilities, so the couple should have been prepared for almost all scenarios. Couples also receive counselling before they go through the process. Granted this has come as initial shock amidst their joy but believe me, it is still a blessing compared to many many many more I know who are not even blessed with anything, not even adoption. We are not talking about the mindset of people who are conceiving naturally, those I believe will be in for serious shocks like what duriz has put it, heads will roll.....

            I am with you ksi and appreciate the way you look at this, sometime there are some thing in life better not to know
            than to know - it's more a Child life here we are talking about , and she have a long way to go .
            I dont know how to put it - that very much depend
            on the couple involved especially the wife now?

            Another scenario - what if with the hubby, the IVF cannot be successful
            than what? - maybe that is another way of looking at the whole issue -
            many may not want to look at it this way - because it should not happen to me?

            Bless the Child for human fallacy. šŸ˜ž

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            • phankaoP Offline
              phankao
              last edited by

              kiddo:

              Another scenario - what if with the hubby, the IVF cannot be successful
              than what? - maybe that is another way of looking at the whole issue -
              many may not want to look at it this way - because it should not happen to me?

              Bless the Child for human fallacy. šŸ˜ž
              *sigh* not successful then don't have baby also not end of the world wat. Might be a blessing instead. But these parents who desire kids so very very much must really be super-generous. This is one situation that I really cannot identify with since it is actually so troublesome to take care of newborns and as they grow up.

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                corneyAmber
                last edited by

                verykiasu2010:
                latest report has it that the parents have decided to keep, with lots of tender loving care la.........TMC would have to make compensation and probably settle out of court, with non-disclosure agreement


                end of story.
                See? As expected this would be the resolution. They will definitely be compensated for the boo-boo but they will keep the baby and actually it is a win-win.

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                  verykiasu2010
                  last edited by

                  ksi:
                  verykiasu2010:

                  latest report has it that the parents have decided to keep, with lots of tender loving care la.........TMC would have to make compensation and probably settle out of court, with non-disclosure agreement


                  end of story.

                  See? As expected this would be the resolution. They will definitely be compensated for the boo-boo but they will keep the baby and actually it is a win-win.

                  sorry my engrish is bad.....nothing is mentioned about the compensation yet

                  only reported that the parents have decided to keep the child

                  i would expect a non-disclosure financial settlement, after all what has been done could not be undone....except for health / hospital benefits for the child

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                    corneyAmber
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                    verykiasu2010:
                    ksi:

                    [quote=\"verykiasu2010\"]latest report has it that the parents have decided to keep, with lots of tender loving care la.........TMC would have to make compensation and probably settle out of court, with non-disclosure agreement


                    end of story.

                    See? As expected this would be the resolution. They will definitely be compensated for the boo-boo but they will keep the baby and actually it is a win-win.

                    sorry my engrish is bad.....nothing is mentioned about the compensation yet

                    only reported that the parents have decided to keep the child

                    i would expect a non-disclosure financial settlement, after all what has been done could not be undone....except for health / hospital benefits for the child[/quote]You mean you added in the statement in bold yourself?? notti notti...you deserve this then. :heresmyfish: Not enough.. :spank: :lol:

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                      duriz
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                      phankao:
                      duriz:

                      [quote=\"caroline3sg\"]I think also not her egg because they are O & A blood group while the baby is B.


                      You would/could be wrong.

                      My friends are blood type A (mother) and type O (father).
                      Their child is type B (alike the paternal grandmother)..

                      Duriz, your description of A (mother) & O(father) cannot possibly produce a B baby.

                      The genetic makeup of A is AA or AO. And the genetic makeup of O is simply OO. So no matter how you mix it together, there can be no combination that makes a Type B blood type. Something really would be \"fishy\" if that happens.

                      This is covered in O-level Biology. Even my sec 4 daughter knows this.[/quote]If one parent has blood type 'A' , it is represented like this ' IAi or IAIA ' .
                      The parent with blood type 'O' would have ' II or Ii ' same thing.

                      However to have blood type B, you would need ' IBi or IBIB ' .

                      Neither combination of the type A or O would result in a type B blood when crossed using a punnet square.

                      When it comes to blood, representations are as follows:
                      A - IAIA or IAi

                      B - IBIB or IBi

                      AB - IAIB

                      O - IOIO or IOi
                      - The 'i' is considered an 'O' allele essentially making 'O' a universal donor if I'm correct.

                      One parent must have a B. However, one parent might have the rare Bombay phenotype in which case his or her blood type will test as type O (unless someone does more advanced tests) although it has either an A or a B. In other words, one parent could have a rare type B blood, but the tests showed it to be type O.

                      Yes, it is very possible. It has nothing to do with Rh factors or A, B or O phenotypes it has to do with the gene that attaches the sugars (A or B) to the cell surface. If they are deficient in this gene a person could be type A or B and they test as type O, as mentioned above.

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                        Blobbi
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                        phankao:
                        duriz:

                        [quote=\"caroline3sg\"]I think also not her egg because they are O & A blood group while the baby is B.


                        You would/could be wrong.

                        My friends are blood type A (mother) and type O (father).
                        Their child is type B (alike the paternal grandmother)..

                        Duriz, your description of A (mother) & O(father) cannot possibly produce a B baby.

                        The genetic makeup of A is AA or AO. And the genetic makeup of O is simply OO. So no matter how you mix it together, there can be no combination that makes a Type B blood type. Something really would be \"fishy\" if that happens.

                        This is covered in O-level Biology. Even my sec 4 daughter knows this.[/quote]Yah, no way A + O =B.

                        Wonder if they'll want to find out who the real parents are, altho this only adds to the confusion, sigh.

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