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    If you could, would you decide on a 3rd child?

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    • L Offline
      Luvkid
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      LKVM:
      Yes but initially will be tough to start all over again πŸ˜‰

      ya ya i know, i know :roll:
      janet_lee88:
      Accidents do happen...and it can be hard to accept. But move on and consider having the child. For some couples, it can be hard esp if there is a wide gap and starting over again...but consider CLOSING shop after giving birth to the 3rd one
      ya.... I learnt that i shouldn't have take things for granted... 😒
      Funz:
      DH and I were trying very hard to cause an accident the last 2 yrs. Now, we have more or less resigned ourselves to the fact that we will have only 2 kids. Well we are still driving recklessly, ignoring red lights and speed cameras, still no accident.
      This is really destiny/fate....Let nature take its course....

      But i do feel that ζ˜―δ½ ηš„ε°±ζ˜―δ½ ηš„οΌŒζ₯δΊ†δ½ ζ€ŽδΉˆζŒ‘οΌŒδΉŸζŒ‘δΈδ½γ€‚
      Like my case,before i found out i was already conceived, 3 weeks away from my last mense, i was shifting cartons of goods from here to there. Followed by 2 weeks later, when i realised my mense was \"late\", i even ate 2 slices of pineapple(old wives myth). But this little one still choose to remain in my womb for the next 9 months. :love:

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        Funz
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        desertwind, we did plan, ovulation kit, etc and eventually went to get ourselves checked. Found that there could be some physiological problems and considered surgery. But was told even surgery oso no guarantee. For a period we even thought of fertility treatment but in the end decided just let it be.


        Like what some of you said. If it is meant to be, it is meant to be. Afterall, we have 2 wonderful kids oredi. If another comes along, we will be triply blessed. If not, doubly blessed is also good enough for us.

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          DesertWind
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          Funz:
          Like what some of you said. If it is meant to be, it is meant to be. Afterall, we have 2 wonderful kids oredi. If another comes along, we will be triply blessed. If not, doubly blessed is also good enough for us.

          Hear, hear, Funz! That's the spirit indeed!
          πŸ˜‰

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            buds
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            blur-daddy:
            Even after consultation with doc and family support, we can't decide and need to go to Genting to chill out... so i suppose, for my case, I decided in casino - BIG OR SMALL??? hahaha...

            blur-daddy:
            3 is ODD... While we visualize our retirement in 10 yrs time i.e. both kids in NS and we can sit in starbucks to sip coffee... read comic, watch people rushing pass us... we itchy hand and reset our button... now need to wait for another 20 yrs!
            You are HILARIOUS, blur-daddy! :laugh:

            I like the \"itchy hand\" part. :rotflmao:

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              buds
              last edited by

              Funz:
              Well we are still driving recklessly, ignoring red lights and speed cameras, still no accident. πŸ˜›

              Wah-seh! :shock:

              :salute:

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                blur-daddy
                last edited by

                haha... Ya... 3rd kid don't play play hor.... Very siong de... πŸ™

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                  buds
                  last edited by

                  Alamak, so fast u lose your humour oredi arh, blur-daddy.. 😐


                  Now you're making me scared.. :scared:

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                    blur-daddy
                    last edited by

                    OMG! U seriously considering for 3rd one??? :!:

                    buds:
                    Alamak, so fast u lose your humour oredi arh, blur-daddy.. 😐

                    Now you're making me scared.. :scared:

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                      buds
                      last edited by

                      Whaddya mean considering, brader?


                      I didn't even get to consider! :faint:

                      Read the juice here... :lol:
                      Click the blue link to catch up on the budzz..

                      > http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1708&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=560

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                        blur-daddy
                        last edited by

                        Ohhhh... too late liao... hmmm... congratulaTION lor... :shock:

                        buds:
                        Whaddya mean considering, brader?

                        I didn't even get to consider! :faint:

                        Read the juice here... :lol:
                        Click the blue link to catch up on the budzz..

                        > http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1708&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=560

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