In-law problems?

[24hr-mum]

WHERE DILs and MILs cant see eye to eye, BLESSED ARE THOSE WHO DONT STAY WITH THEIR MILS UNDER ONE ROOF!


That’s why this verse: when a man marries a woman, they two leave their parents and become one…(that’s how i interpret)

[ChiefKiasu]

tutormum:

TOTALLY AGREE!!! Not only lock your main gate and door, next time lock your bedrooms also before you go away. If MIL asks, just tell her that it's for security reasons cos you are afraid there is a break-in and you have lots of valuables in the house. :lol:

Yes... and don't forgot to leave some water and biscuits for your MIL in case she grows hungry :evil:

[auntieM]

ChiefKiasu:

tutormum:

TOTALLY AGREE!!! Not only lock your main gate and door, next time lock your bedrooms also before you go away. If MIL asks, just tell her that it's for security reasons cos you are afraid there is a break-in and you have lots of valuables in the house. :lol:

Yes... and don't forgot to leave some water and biscuits for your MIL in case she grows hungry :evil:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
..better not be my MIL.. or she will have to eat those expired and crushed bicuits she bought for my DS...

[AuntieKiasi]

ChiefKiasu:

tutormum:

TOTALLY AGREE!!! Not only lock your main gate and door, next time lock your bedrooms also before you go away. If MIL asks, just tell her that it's for security reasons cos you are afraid there is a break-in and you have lots of valuables in the house. :lol:

Yes... and don't forgot to leave some water and biscuits for your MIL in case she grows hungry :evil:

Hey, MIL won't go hungry when I go abroad. I will load up the fridge & the food cabinet before I go. There would also be that dh's money around for her to use (when she needs it). Yeah maybe next time I should consider locking up that bedroom door before I leave. However, she would bother me with a lot of \"why, why...why\" before & after I come back. Then she would say that I have stuff that is *jian bu de guang* in the room. After that, she would go blah blah blah to my mother. Then she said, next time don't go overseas with my dh without bringing ds along. Why can't she understand that I need private time with dh too? :stupid: :stupid: :x :x

[AuntieKiasi]

auntieM:

ChiefKiasu:

[quote=\"tutormum\"]TOTALLY AGREE!!! Not only lock your main gate and door, next time lock your bedrooms also before you go away. If MIL asks, just tell her that it's for security reasons cos you are afraid there is a break-in and you have lots of valuables in the house. :lol:

Yes... and don't forgot to leave some water and biscuits for your MIL in case she grows hungry :evil:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
..better not be my MIL.. or she will have to eat those expired and crushed bicuits she bought for my DS... :P[/quote]It is my MIL that they are all talking about.

[auntieM]

Cheero AuntieKiasi :hugs: .. ..believe me...there are 'scarier' ones around.. :!:

[AuntieKiasi]

auntieM:

Cheero AuntieKiasi :hugs: .. ..believe me...there are 'scarier' ones around.. :!:

Yeah..quite true... :gloomy: :gloomy: sometimes how I wish she go to all those old folks home & see for herself how lucky she is.....

[24hr-mum]

sigh…that’s why when my mil stayed wif me after i had #2, n that’s when i became sahm, i lost 10kg over 2 yrs. when i go out wf friends for wkday dinner occasionally n i wld bring along my kids toom she gets really blackface cos she wld bre alone as my hub wks late. she also blackface when my gal prefers me to bathe her, not the granny. once i attending couple empowerment course in church, alrdy told her i m attendg a class, she still called me to ask can follow me or not. i face her 24/7, see her more often than my hubb, i wonder whom i married, hub or her?

i cant go anywhere wifout my mil if i brg my kids, unless i say i m gg out wf my mum or friends. and one day i told her i visitg my mum, she accuse my mum of askg me go back becos it was chu yi (first day of ch lunar mth) and say my mum want me drink talesman paper to cast a spell on me n hubby. she was mad cos my mum alrdy buddhist, not taoist n i alrdy convert to catholic.

[janet88]

24hr-mum:

once i attending couple empowerment course in church, alrdy told her i m attendg a class, she still called me to ask can follow me or not. i face her 24/7, see her more often than my hubb, i wonder whom i married, hub or her?

i cant go anywhere wifout my mil if i brg my kids, unless i say i m gg out wf my mum or friends. and one day i told her i visitg my mum, she accuse my mum of askg me go back becos it was chu yi (first day of ch lunar mth) and say my mum want me drink talesman paper to cast a spell on me n hubby. she was mad cos my mum alrdy buddhist, not taoist n i alrdy convert to catholic.

Wow :shock: your MIL so sticky. She scared of the dark or what, must follow you wherever you go ??? Mine also Taoist...so don't want to have head-on with her...best thing is to leave her alone.

[24hr-mum]

insecurity. her idea is her kids and grandkids must surround her everyday if possible. cant do things on her own. now she is better but when she was wf me, i had to bring her see dentist, buy shoes, etc if hubby not alone. she became my another ‘baby’