Club 3 or more Kids

[FNg]

I have 3 kids, 2 girls and 1 boy. I cannot imagine having 4! Having 3 is


already testing the limit of my patience. :frustrated:

[24hr-mum]

ya, seems like will never graduate from the cycle of motherhood. every time i gv away baby stuff, i find myself pregnant soon. haha

[pinkixora]

Hi! I have 3 kids, 8, 11 & 15.

A SAHM for the last hmm… 9 yrs…
My life only revolves ard them…until this yr when i find tht i can sort of "breathe" and relax a little.
No tuition for them in primary sch, only enrichment like piano, holiday prog.
Budget - single income, so gotta learn to manage lor.
Sleep time - only the eldest get to sleep later, the other two will hv to be in bed by 9.30 or 10pm.

Have been trying to manage without a maid since 2004, for me, the initial years are really tough…

[kidsplay]

FNg:

I have 3 kids, 2 girls and 1 boy. I cannot imagine having 4! Having 3 is


already testing the limit of my patience. :frustrated:

Can I adopt one? :lol: :lol:

[tigger88]

24hr-mum:

i always salute parents with three boys. i hv only 1 but he's giving me much headache n i cant help comparing with my easier-to-manage girls.

I have 2 boys and 1 girl. My girl is the most difficult to handle. My boys are much easy going and mild temper while my girl is the one who will throw tantrums, scream, shout and the most rebellious. Maybe because she is the middle child? I dunno but we give her loads of attention.

She will beat her brothers and not willing to share toys with them. Her brothers are direct opposite.

Though my girl behaves like that, I still hope my #4 will be a girl so that my DD2 will have a mei mei to dote on.

[24hr-mum]

ur #2 is exactly like my boy who is also #2. maybe indeed is the middle child thing. but he is already like that before he became the middle child, ie before #3 was born.


how old is ur girl?

[tigger88]

She is 3YO.

[24hr-mum]

my boy is 5. still like that. its their age range.

[tigger88]

Maybe my DD2’s terrible two phase is not over yet.


My DS1 is also 5YO. He is more sensible and understanding.

[24hr-mum]

my #5 has progressed from terrible two, to terrible 3, terrible 4 and now terrible 5. tho he is better now but can still whine n act up when doesnt get his way. its is manipulative nature. maybe ur child is like that. but still young. my #3 can also cry on demand, meaning cry when doesnt get her way. she is 3yo, modelled well after #2’s nonsense.

they are smart, know how to manipulative.

got to stand firm lor…or sweet talk (talk by offering sweets i mean haha）or use distraction method to divert their demands. really bo bian , then take my super power (cane)