Gangs in Secondary Schools
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I knew of a case which a girl who is bullied by a fellow boy classmate , he asked her to do hw for him, if she refuses, he will send threatening sms to her and this continued for half a year . As a result, she doesn't want to go to school at all. After she could not take it anymore, she broke down and in the end, she stopped schooling for 1 yr. Throughout this 1 yr, she kept on saying foolish things like wanting to die, doesn't want to burden her mother. Her mother said \" I have raised my dear daughter for 15 yrs, now she has changed so much, I feel so helpless\"
I cried when I heard that.
BTW, the girl is my relative's student.
My heart aches for the little girl. Now, she is recovering after transferring to another school.I so hate that boy who ruined her normal life.
IF YOU R BULLIED, DO NOT KEEP QUIET. DO NOT LET THAT BULLY RUIN UR PEACEFUL LIFE. -
hmmm mayb can find out the reason y yr kid is being pick on? den the prob might be resolved…
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Agreed with sky12_, we have to inform the school and meetup with their teachers to discuss on how to resolve… tks…
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Is these type of cases very common? Its making me quite frightened for my Kid ._.
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you know people always think bullying is because of kids being kids but I dont think it is. It’s because of the way the school is run, more specifically the rules and authority figures. For example if kids fight they will both be punished no matter who starts the fight. All of you might not this as the ‘I dont care who started it’ line. .In an adult world, whoever wronged the victim is guilty and the other guy has a chance to defend themselves. Also, if someone picks a fight with you in the adult world, you can just walk off from the fight or attempt to run away. In a school environment theres no way for you to run. Also school staff seem have to see the act of bullying before taking any action. If a teacher sees a student punching another then he or she will most likely to do something. But if a student tells a teacher he got punched most likely nothing would be done.
Long story short this encourages a bully to starts all sorts of trouble cos he can get away with it. Bullies are just kids using the rules to his advantage, and thats just human nature. So to stop bullying, the system to change first in order to stop bullies from being encouraged to do what they like.
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