Asian Mums are more SUPERIOR?
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phankao:
From Borders.[/quote]Just to share that I was at Borders Wheelock today. Sold out too. They told me to try Kino.
Can't find it at Popular. I ordered from Kinokuniya cos I used to order from them - home delivery. You might want to check whether there's stock for you to pick up from the store directly. I believe there could be cheaper options from other online websites too.E3:
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I can't wait to get my hands on the book. Is it sold in local bookstore?
Just received email from kino- no stock.
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Errrrrrrr… the book isn’t a keeper. I mean that you dun wanna keep it for reference. It isn’t a parenting guide. It’s a nice story (funny and moving), but not that good a book that it educates.
I would not want to parent like her, even though I can understand why she did what she did. If people wait some, the library may stock it… and there’ll be plenty of used copies going on e-Bay for $1 to $2.
So… no point spending too much. I got mine for USD12 in the kindle version for iPAD. -
Chenonceau:
I figured.Errrrrrrr... the book isn't a keeper. I mean that you dun wanna keep it for reference. It isn't a parenting guide. It's a nice story (funny and moving), but not that good a book that it educates.
Just thought I could browse through while waiting for DS's class to end
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Amy's daughter letter to NY post
http://www.nypost.com/p/entertainment/why_love_my_strict_chinese_mom_uUvfmLcA5eteY0u2KXt7hM/0 -
Just what i thought… the controversy is a one sided story. However, again, for most of the other children this might not be the case, and common sense plays a part as well.
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The book is available at Prologue and Harris.
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sleepy:
Wow, that's something I'd love to read from my kids...Amy's daughter letter to NY post
http://www.nypost.com/p/entertainment/why_love_my_strict_chinese_mom_uUvfmLcA5eteY0u2KXt7hM/0 -
My Lord! I have never seen such strict parenting skills. Not attending a sleepover is fine, not playing computer games is okay, but not following their passion? I am twelve and I understand that the mother here wants to discipline her children well, but if she restricts her children to this extent, I believe that she has gone too far.
I agree with almost all her points, but depending on what the child is doing on the computer. Why not allow her children to be in a school play? So they "won’t be actors" and lead "horrible lives"? Well, excuse me Amy Chua, but your dystopian rule over your children has gone too far. A revolution is necessary.
This is ridiculous. If the child could surf the web for reading on information, play another instrument other than a piano or violin, and choose their own extracurricular activities, then I’m fine. But she disallows all these. What is this hybrid regime? Is the mum trying to act ‘superior’? I really feel like filing a lawsuit against her, for mistreatment of child, verbal assault and restrictions of freedom.
I am ashamed. Strict upbringing of a child is good. I would happily agree to do my homework, not watch television, let alone even play computer games. But I am simply shocked at the lines "Or you’ll have NO food". Caning is fine, but no food?
I would continously reiterate this point - mothers must be strict, but allow their children to do what they want. I would love to see Amy Chua playing the piano for seven hours straight. I am a pacifist but I’d dearly wish for this brutal torture to be applied on HER. Her parents’ upbringing of her should not affect her own upbringing of her children. Shocking, disheartening; does she even give a care for her children’s passion?"
At the least she must give her children one day off. Just a day, is that a lot to ask? She even has a comic on her character. I agree, children MUST get As. I myself targeted for As and got them true hard work. I’m having the angry vibes here, and I’m not going to stand this mistreatment of children.
Final verdict - give a day off, or GET YOUR OWN PUNISHMENT, Miss. Chua! -
who is going to vouch that every point in the book is FACTS ?
threat of no food ? was the threat carried out ? for how long ? one meal ?
take 2 pinches of salt with what you read…how much is over-generalisation ?
the royalty from the book sales is good - that is probably the only complete truth -
Alex001:
Sweetheart,My Lord! I have never seen such strict parenting skills. Not attending a sleepover is fine, not playing computer games is okay, but not following their passion? I am twelve and I understand that the mother here wants to discipline her children well, but if she restricts her children to this extent, I believe that she has gone too far.
I agree with almost all her points, but depending on what the child is doing on the computer. Why not allow her children to be in a school play? So they \"won't be actors\" and lead \"horrible lives\"? Well, excuse me Amy Chua, but your dystopian rule over your children has gone too far. A revolution is necessary.
This is ridiculous. If the child could surf the web for reading on information, play another instrument other than a piano or violin, and choose their own extracurricular activities, then I'm fine. But she disallows all these. What is this hybrid regime? Is the mum trying to act 'superior'? I really feel like filing a lawsuit against her, for mistreatment of child, verbal assault and restrictions of freedom.
I am ashamed. Strict upbringing of a child is good. I would happily agree to do my homework, not watch television, let alone even play computer games. But I am simply shocked at the lines \"Or you'll have NO food\". Caning is fine, but no food?
I would continously reiterate this point - mothers must be strict, but allow their children to do what they want. I would love to see Amy Chua playing the piano for seven hours straight. I am a pacifist but I'd dearly wish for this brutal torture to be applied on HER. Her parents' upbringing of her should not affect her own upbringing of her children. Shocking, disheartening; does she even give a care for her children's passion?\"
At the least she must give her children one day off. Just a day, is that a lot to ask? She even has a comic on her character. I agree, children MUST get As. I myself targeted for As and got them true hard work. I'm having the angry vibes here, and I'm not going to stand this mistreatment of children.
Final verdict - give a day off, or GET YOUR OWN PUNISHMENT, Miss. Chua!
you must read through the rest of the links (her video on CNN, her actual bk if you're interested, her daughter's letter) to get a more balanced view.
when i read the first article she wrote, I reacted pretty much the same as you. But you'll soon realise that that's not the whole story.
She'd probably force herself to sit at the piano 10 hours anyway, that's how driven she herself is.
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