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      tamarind
      last edited by

      cody:
      tamarind:

      I had one ex-maid who worked for me for over 2 years. I found out after I sent her away, that she ran away from her previous employer, leaving the new born baby alone at home.


      I knew nothing about this when I employed her. The maid agency knew about this, and they knew I needed her to look after my baby, but they still recommended her.

      Maid agencies are a bunch of heartless people.


      Argh! i hate such agents!!
      If they were going to hire a maid for themself, they won't hire such a maid either!
      so why did they give us a maid like this?
      Pure greed.


      :x


      The fact is that there are many agencies doing this regularly. I advise employers not to take any maids that are sitting in the office of the maid agency. These maids are most likely sent back by the employers due to poor performance. Do not believe in whatever they tell you.

      The biggest problem is that we do not know the history of the maid, and we are not able to contact their previous employers to find out what they have done before.

      This is the reason why many employers would rather take new maids without any experience. But then again, new maids can give a lot of other problems.

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        lostbunny
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        Today my ungrateful maid question my mum for giving her pork floss roll when actually my mum gave her those shrimp rolls. All the while my mum has been careful and considerate not to give maid pork. When we have pork dishes, mum will make sure she prepares a chicken dish for maid. Isn’t that kind enough to the maid. Even if the oil used for frying food with pork (eg wantan) is used to fry fish, my mum will ask maid whether she dare to eat.

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          Ontheballmother
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          lostbunny:
          Today my ungrateful maid question my mum for giving her pork floss roll when actually my mum gave her those shrimp rolls. All the while my mum has been careful and considerate not to give maid pork. When we have pork dishes, mum will make sure she prepares a chicken dish for maid. Isn't that kind enough to the maid. Even if the oil used for frying food with pork (eg wantan) is used to fry fish, my mum will ask maid whether she dare to eat.
          Aiyoh... my mom's maid worst. During CNY, my maid saw her went to the toilet and open up the ang-po immediately when one of my relative gave it to them. Told my maid the amt. and v unhappy as it is only $6. These maids think we owe it to them. Good thing is, we get to know what kind of person she is and be more wary.

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            janet88
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            lostbunny:
            Today my ungrateful maid question my mum for giving her pork floss roll when actually my mum gave her those shrimp rolls.

            I had an ungrateful maid who ever asked my mum if the pau she gave is pork or chicken. As if we are so cruel :x My brother will specially buy chicken pau for her and specifically put in another plastic.

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              jtoh
              last edited by

              Ontheballmother:
              lostbunny:

              Today my ungrateful maid question my mum for giving her pork floss roll when actually my mum gave her those shrimp rolls. All the while my mum has been careful and considerate not to give maid pork. When we have pork dishes, mum will make sure she prepares a chicken dish for maid. Isn't that kind enough to the maid. Even if the oil used for frying food with pork (eg wantan) is used to fry fish, my mum will ask maid whether she dare to eat.

              Aiyoh... my mom's maid worst. During CNY, my maid saw her went to the toilet and open up the ang-po immediately when one of my relative gave it to them. Told my maid the amt. and v unhappy as it is only $6. These maids think we owe it to them. Good thing is, we get to know what kind of person she is and be more wary.


              How much ang pow was she expecting? After all, it's the relative giving the ang pao, and she doesn't work for the relative does she?

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                MintyMin
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                jtoh:
                Ontheballmother:

                [quote=\"lostbunny\"]Today my ungrateful maid question my mum for giving her pork floss roll when actually my mum gave her those shrimp rolls. All the while my mum has been careful and considerate not to give maid pork. When we have pork dishes, mum will make sure she prepares a chicken dish for maid. Isn't that kind enough to the maid. Even if the oil used for frying food with pork (eg wantan) is used to fry fish, my mum will ask maid whether she dare to eat.

                Aiyoh... my mom's maid worst. During CNY, my maid saw her went to the toilet and open up the ang-po immediately when one of my relative gave it to them. Told my maid the amt. and v unhappy as it is only $6. These maids think we owe it to them. Good thing is, we get to know what kind of person she is and be more wary.


                How much ang pow was she expecting? After all, it's the relative giving the ang pao, and she doesn't work for the relative does she?[/quote]We should even tell our relatives not to give our maids red pkts at all.. Tat solves all problems..

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                  KoalaMummy
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                  hope05:
                  Hi there


                  The passport for my maid from Phillppines is going to expire soon. Called up the agency for renewal but it is so ex.. Tried calling up the embassy but the no one picks up the call. Anyone out there knows what are the procedures for renewal?

                  Thks & rgds,
                  How much do they charge you? i heard that it was S$350 if u renew at embassy. Not sure if it's true.

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                    micollh
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                    Hi all,


                    my indo maid contract is expiring in august, am thiking whether to renew or get new one. i was told by maid agency that if i renew her contract i still have to increase her salary in par with the current rate… now she is darwing 350 (took her in 2009), so if extend, i need to increase to 400 .

                    Is that correct? i think philipino maid more.

                    Cheers

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                      hquek
                      last edited by

                      micollh:
                      Hi all,


                      my indo maid contract is expiring in august, am thiking whether to renew or get new one. i was told by maid agency that if i renew her contract i still have to increase her salary in par with the current rate.. now she is darwing 350 (took her in 2009), so if extend, i need to increase to 400 .

                      Is that correct? i think philipino maid more.

                      Cheers
                      Since you and the maid have worked together for 2 years, you don't need to go via the maid agency. In fact, for my 1st maid renewed twice. First time I paid NTUC Income to do the renewal; 2nd time I DIY - the procedures (seems a bit daunting but just log on to wp online and do step by step).

                      Any amount can be agreed with the maid directly - whether it be 400 or even more. Just remember as long as the maid is performing, don't tell lies, some increment cannot be avoided (and you be saving on headache from new maid and agency fees). I would suggest you draft out a new contract stating the agreed salary and all.

                      You probably have to give her home leave also. If she wants to take the home leave, remember to have contingency plan in case she fly your kite.

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                        micollh
                        last edited by

                        hquek:
                        micollh:

                        Hi all,


                        my indo maid contract is expiring in august, am thiking whether to renew or get new one. i was told by maid agency that if i renew her contract i still have to increase her salary in par with the current rate.. now she is darwing 350 (took her in 2009), so if extend, i need to increase to 400 .

                        Is that correct? i think philipino maid more.

                        Cheers

                        Since you and the maid have worked together for 2 years, you don't need to go via the maid agency. In fact, for my 1st maid renewed twice. First time I paid NTUC Income to do the renewal; 2nd time I DIY - the procedures (seems a bit daunting but just log on to wp online and do step by step).

                        Any amount can be agreed with the maid directly - whether it be 400 or even more. Just remember as long as the maid is performing, don't tell lies, some increment cannot be avoided (and you be saving on headache from new maid and agency fees). I would suggest you draft out a new contract stating the agreed salary and all.

                        You probably have to give her home leave also. If she wants to take the home leave, remember to have contingency plan in case she fly your kite.

                        Hi hquek thanks for the info. Another question, if i dun give her home leave, as in she decided not to go home and continue, do i give her the money for plane ticket ? or no need, jst buy ticket for her after she finish her next extension?

                        Thanks.

                        Cheers,

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