Club FTWM

[micollh]

starlight1968sg:

At times, I am thinking if I am asking for troubles - I can always order tingkat; fully justified since I am working and where got time to cook etc.

:?

tingkat not good. not healthy, do u know wat type of oil they use or worst how many times they reuse ? how much salt/sugar they use? and how they wash the vege? we eat out in the afternoon, enough liao.. night, try to eat something healthier, home cooked. if possible. my opinion. tired abit nvm, so long our kids get the better food we can provide, at our best, of course.

[starlight1968sg]

Thanks all the mums who have shared.

Wonder how husbands can help out in this area besides eating?

[micollh]

starlight1968sg:

Thanks all the mums who have shared.

Wonder how husbands can help out in this area besides eating?

mine, ask him is like never ask.. he will ask me back.. but at least he dun complaint , eat whatever is served.

[starlight1968sg]

micollh:

starlight1968sg:

Thanks all the mums who have shared.

Wonder how husbands can help out in this area besides eating?

mine, ask him is like never ask.. he will ask me back.. but at least he dun complaint , eat whatever is served.

Mine is similar too.
Ask him cook this for dinner, ok. He said ok. Everything also ok!
Yes, glad that there is no complaint and he eats whatever is on the table.
Maybe this is a blessing.

[DesertWind]

micollh:

maid for me is to do housework, not looking after my kids. since i find cooking dinner take up my bonding time with my kids, so i delegate this task to her, but for breakfast which is simpler, i do it myself. im very handson with my kids, which i must say im proud of it as a FTWM cos the precious time with them is short, when they grow up, we might never have the chance to brush their teeth, bath them, change them u know.. so i want to cherish these moments with them.

Yes, you are indeed hardworking and I am just not the type! But still I will make breakfast and bath my boy during the weekends when no need to rush for work. It is true if one don't make effort at all to do anything for the kids, we will be missing a lot!
:celebrate:

[micollh]

DesertWind:

Yes, you are indeed hardworking and I am just not the type! But still I will make breakfast and bath my boy during the weekends when no need to rush for work. It is true if one don't make effort at all to do anything for the kids, we will be missing a lot!
:celebrate:

Thanks. i don't consider myself hardworking la.. jst try to be a better mother lor..feel guilty cos already cant spend much time with my kids when working. yes, we try our best

[Xuan2112]

what to do… we living in a stressful world…

no work = no money = living problem

[micollh]

as working mum, how many child most of u have? for me, i would thk 2 is max… as looking after them is really not easy. if 3, will be too handful. and wont have that much attention to all ? ur say?

[micollh]

LKVM:

I have 2 but always dream to have 3... hubby has cannot so guess closed shop liao... i think 3 can still handle

actually, if the two is bigger already, more independent, can have one more. but u have to start all over again. think of it already \"pa pa\"

[Mrsbongz]

starlight1968sg:

Thanks all the mums who have shared.

Wonder how husbands can help out in this area besides eating?

Lol.. mine does the washing up.. so I don mind...