Growing apart

[BeContented]

carebear:

DH and I have very few things in common since the day we dated.

But somehow we have a connection for each other.
DH likes to play xbox and computer games.
I will sit beside him and do my own things.
Although we do not communicate verbally, there is still a strange form of communication that i can't explain. It is like some kind of magnetic force which attracts us together. So if he travel abroad, we miss each other's presence dearly.
I hope this inexplicable attraction will continue forever.
:celebrate:

Sounds similar to mine....we engage in very different activities for the last 23 years.
He play soccer I scuba/cross-stitch/read comics,
he watch soccer I watch Korean Drama,
he MJ/Cycle - I electronic games/KSP.......but frankly, the bond was getting weaker and I started feeling quite lonely and neglected despite being busy.

Things turned better 1-2 years ago since we started having little couple time eg. supper, have a meal every month or more often, eat chips & chat a little, midnight NTUC, coffee & toast during weekend while waiting for kids' tuition to end etc. So dun neglect each other, try to spend some time together.

[Jennifer]

cwc:

for the last 23 years

U know your hubby for so many years?

Our marriage is going into its 16th year.

[BeContented]

Jennifer:

cwc:

for the last 23 years

U know your hubby for so many years?

Our marriage is going into its 16th year.

Yah loh....marathon......classmates in JC1 and together until now
Marriage going into 15th year soon.....really what people call 老夫老妻。
But then, 'Upstairs' not fair lah, woman always age faster

HALO.....dun start counting my age.....

[kiddo]

carebear:

Although we do not communicate verbally, there is still a strange form of communication that i can't explain. It is like some kind of magnetic force which attracts us together. So if he travel abroad, we miss each other's presence dearly.
I hope this inexplicable attraction will continue forever.
:celebrate:

Sure will care bear Darling .... The older you get the stronger this closeness is like DH and me- because the children have their own world to deal with, both of you will do the little simple thing together like go kopitiam \"lim kopi\" early morning....simple but sweet :love: :love:

[Imp75]

My hubby and I are poles apart, I guess this is what you would mean by "

Opposites Attract". The only saving grace is that we both studied the same course in Uni and had the initial similar career path. Besides our kids (where most of our conversational topics are from), I really "hate" to listen to his work issues (although I do understand the issues). He also hate my "outgoing" and "free-spirited" character. I guess after many years, we kind of mellowed down a lot on each other and we are, well, getting along just fine, like any other parents and couple who have been married for more than 10 years.

[sleepy]

Dh & I tend to think of same thing around the same time, 5 seconds apart. We call that telepathy. When one of us thought of something, somehow that message was sent to the other party immediately. This happens only within close range.


We developed that telepathy ever since our 3rd year together. Still happening very ofen now, we find it rather amusing. We were joking that if we had that telepathy earlier, we would have achieved even better grades in exam

[Nebbermind]

sleepy:

Dh & I tend to think of same thing around the same time, 5 seconds apart. We call that telepathy. When one of us thought of something, somehow that message was sent to the other party immediately. This happens only within close range.


We developed that telepathy ever since our 3rd year together. Still happening very ofen now, we find it rather amusing. We were joking that if we had that telepathy earlier, we would have achieved even better grades in exam

sometimes not only between spouse...also with people close to you.

Long ago, when I still take bus and spent lot of time daydreaming/thinking, I'll suddenly think of something which I have not eaten for sometime...and lo and behold, it's one of the dishes my mom cooked for dinner.

then few days back, my wife has been asking me to send to her a contact...sent before but android phone not compatible with nokia and she got gibberish. Then that day before lunch just remembered...was typing halfway and was interrupted...by wifey SMS asking for the contact!!! FREAKY!!! :shock:

[kiddo]

Nebbermind:

sleepy:

Dh & I tend to think of same thing around the same time, 5 seconds apart. We call that telepathy. When one of us thought of something, somehow that message was sent to the other party immediately. This happens only within close range.


We developed that telepathy ever since our 3rd year together. Still happening very ofen now, we find it rather amusing. We were joking that if we had that telepathy earlier, we would have achieved even better grades in exam

sometimes not only between spouse...also with people close to you.

Long ago, when I still take bus and spent lot of time daydreaming/thinking, I'll suddenly think of something which I have not eaten for sometime...and lo and behold, it's one of the dishes my mom cooked for dinner.

then few days back, my wife has been asking me to send to her a contact...sent before but android phone not compatible with nokia and she got gibberish. Then that day before lunch just remembered...was typing halfway and was interrupted...by wifey SMS asking for the contact!!! FREAKY!!! :shock:

Same habit DIE HARD :love: ...... :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[Jennifer]

cwc:

So dun neglect each other, try to spend some time together.

Easier said than done, esp when he works for long hours. Any balance time left, he also likes to do his own things. By the time he is free, it is my sleep hours liao.

Gosh...

[BeContented]

Jennifer:

cwc:

So dun neglect each other, try to spend some time together.

Easier said than done, esp when he works for long hours. Any balance time left, he also likes to do his own things. By the time he is free, it is my sleep hours liao.

Gosh...

Hmmm....then, go bring a packet of snacks and sit beside him when he is doing his own things (unless of course he's out) My DH upon seeing me munching will come over to 'save' me by sharing the snack with me.....whahaha.