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[tigger88]

micollh:

Jia yu tiger88 ! u make me re-consider whether i should have one more.. haaa.. but im comfortable with current situation now.. maybe im selfish ba..

yes, after we become parents ourself, we really understand more how our parents being so nice and helpful and always ready there to help us.. i promise myself, i will be there for my kids next time too..it makes so much difference in the quality of our life..

Actually I am very comfortable with the current situation too but I always ask myself if I will regret in future if I stop at 3 now.

DH and I discussed if we can manage financially, emotionally, time, etc etc. A lot of considerations...

[tigger88]

micollh:

jessicawongcs:

anyway, i prefer to work than be SAHM :oops: i need to have some peace from DS, therefore,

i agree on this part.. if u ask me to stay at home 5 days a week with my kids.. i will want to faint.. weekends and evenings with them is so precious and i cherish more.. and working hours.. sometimes is peace of mind for me to relax and do my own things...

I dun think I can be a SAHM too. I really salute those SAHM who can take care of the kids, do hsework and cook as well. Super!

[tigger88]

LKVM, you can still try for another gal right?


My DD2 asked me why she dun have a sister to play with whereas her big brother has a younger brother.

[micollh]

LKVM:

I can try lah but as said I am quite in comfortable zone just that i want but :preen:

lol at your DD2 questions

it will come back to the question. what is another DS ? i think gender should not be a concern. best if have both. but if not, it's ok. accept it. unless u go and try out those methods.. girl/boy.. blahh.. i have a fren who went for those.. tube or wat.. jst to ensure she has boy (her first is girl). and ended up she has twin boys. she happy la. but if fail, i guess she will be even more sad ? i dunno also.

[poppy15]

tigger88:

I have 3 and have always hoping to have 4.

4!!!!! tigger88.... i dun even wanna consider 3...u wanna hv 4? oh, btw, i'm L&R's mum...hehe

but, i kinda worrying nw.... beginning to get suspicious... :?

[micollh]

LKVM:

Yes thats the reason I dont dare thinking about 3rd wat if Boy surely go mad with 3 boys
Though gender doesnt mater but as a mom i always wanted to have a girl who can understand me better :love:

i know i know..we girl usually wish to have daughter.. but if really don't have. hopefully DIL will be good and click with us...:))

[micollh]

LKVM:

DIL well :boogie: :preen:

cos unless pop out one is DD else must think of other alternative ma. heee.. oh well.. how close to PIL also it's different than own parents.. okok.. then jst wish next time DS can have bb girl.. better?

[tigger88]

poppy15:

tigger88:

I have 3 and have always hoping to have 4.

4!!!!! tigger88.... i dun even wanna consider 3...u wanna hv 4? oh, btw, i'm L&R's mum...hehe

but, i kinda worrying nw.... beginning to get suspicious... :?

L&R's mum, suspicious of what?

[tigger88]

LKVM:

micollh:

[quote=\"LKVM\"]
Yes thats the reason I dont dare thinking about 3rd wat if Boy surely go mad with 3 boys
Though gender doesnt mater but as a mom i always wanted to have a girl who can understand me better :love:

i know i know..we girl usually wish to have daughter.. but if really don't have. hopefully DIL will be good and click with us...:))

DIL well :boogie: :preen:[/quote]DIL usually will click better with her own mum than with her mil...

[micollh]

tigge88,

usually for weekends, where will u bring ur kids to ? outing and all, cos bringing 3 kids of different age… must also see if all can enjoy or not? sometimes i plan to go here and there for my DD , she will enjoy, as she is coming to 4…but DS only 13+ months… wont enjoy… so have to change planss