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    • S Offline
      sall
      last edited by

      I had a shock last night on the bus when I heard an Indian father spewing hokkien vulgarities at his young daughter, about 3 yr old. He would say something in Tamil, and followed by those hokkien vulgarities.

      This is totally unacceptable, everybody was disgusted to hear all these. :shock:

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        tankee
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        There are a lot of irresponsible parents.


        I have seen parents feeding toddler coffee, smoking next to or while carrying a baby, and scolding vuglarities.

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          swimironkids
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          o dear..kids pick up very quickly....

          my friend was telling me the other day tat he 4letter word in his car whn a car suddenly cut into his way with his son inside.
          the best part was he was call to school by the teacher tat his son used the 4letter word & he told his teacher he pickup from his dad..P1 only
          So parent pls be aware 🙂

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            sall
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            This is the reason why there are so many problem kids around, their parents are full of problems themselves.

            When dd was in P2, there was a girl in her class who was very proficient in hokkien vulgarities. The parents must be using them on a regular basis and of cos, kids picked up such @#$%* so easily. :roll:

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              autumnbronze
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              tankee:
              There are a lot of irresponsible parents.


              I have seen parents feeding toddler coffee, smoking next to or while carrying a baby
              :!: for the first observation - this is terrible!!

              As for the 2nd observation, I too witnessed a mummy lighting up in front of her infant (a few months old) and daughter (prob 6 or 7 years old). The odd thing was that the daddy was just standing next to the pram idly ......

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                sall
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                autumnbronze:
                tankee:



                As for the 2nd observation, I too witnessed a mummy lighting up in front of her infant (a few months old) and daughter (prob 6 or 7 years old). The odd thing was that the daddy was just standing next to the pram idly ......

                I ever saw a mummy and a daddy sharing a cigarette in front of their little boy. I think ,very soon, the boy will join in and the 3 can puff together.

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                  daddy2007
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                  sall:

                  I ever saw a mummy and a daddy sharing a cigarette in front of their little boy. I think ,very soon, the boy will join in and the 3 can puff together.
                  I once saw a little girl folded a bus ticket into a cigarette shape and pretend to be smoking. Her young parents are beside her. So not surprise she learnt this from how her parents smoke

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                    Y.038395hong
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                    Yeah… every of your actions counts while you are with them. especially when they are 2yrs old onwards. They picked up your little actions very quickly. My son once learned a hokkien vug from my father in law, and it takes time to educate him from saying that. Picking up is fast but educating them to stop takes time. So parenting is always about setting an example infront of your child.

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                      bebebub
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                      A short and powerful commercial about children mimicking the actions of their parents:


                      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m25VjD0Uz9c&feature=related

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                        swimironkids
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                        jessicawongcs:
                        my boy picks up vulgarities in school. feedback to teachers and found that one of the student's parents always used on him. both innocent boys donest even know what all these means


                        once i saw a mommy light up a cig infront of her 3 yr old girl, then her hp rang, she asked her girl to hold her cig while she finds her hp. i was shocked...
                        I was checking in the swimming pool yesterday only to see 3 young woman wth 2 little kids in wet swimsuit asking the counter to open the gate for thm to go out & I heard the counter staff told them 10mins..i didnt knw wats it was abt till I saw pack of cig in their hands & one of them is pregnant
                        Wats worng with our society? dunthis young woman knw its a bad model + 2nd hand smoke 😞

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