Do you compare your kid's school results with others?

[chrisu]

Of course I do compare since the class and standard ranking is not stated in the report book.


I did that because marks by itself serve no purpose. Say if my girl scored 90 marks for Maths while all her classmates scored 91 and above, that means my girl is last in the class for Maths. It may also mean that the Maths paper may be easy too. So my girl still lose out to the rest of the class in Maths.

[snowball]

is it advisable to check with class teacher on the highest n lowest marks of each subject ? as i dont feel comfortable to check with other parents, i dont like to compare, but i need the "medium" mark to gauge my kid’s standard …

[Funx3]

snowball:

is it advisable to check with class teacher on the highest n lowest marks of each subject ? as i dont feel comfortable to check with other parents, i dont like to compare, but i need the \"medium\" mark to gauge my kid's standard ....

Think it would be a Wise move to do so ....
Then U'll be able to gauge where your child stand, academically, and to kick in any remedial measures to help pull the grade up.

At Lower Pri 1 to 2, Getting Marks in the Region of 95 to 100 is the Norm for Good Score.
As U progress to P3 thru P6 ....
Drop per year of 5 to 10 marks are expected. But this also depends on the difficulty of paper set. By looking at the Highest / Lowest / avg score for each subj, U will be able to check if your child is doing Fine.

[fussyMummy]

chrisu:

Of course I do compare since the class and standard ranking is not stated in the report book.


I did that because marks by itself serve no purpose. Say if my girl scored 90 marks for Maths while all her classmates scored 91 and above, that means my girl is last in the class for Maths. It may also mean that the Maths paper may be easy too. So my girl still lose out to the rest of the class in Maths.

same here.. I always ask my girl.. what is the lowest marks and what is the highest marks... then I started to compare from there... :evil:

For myself, I just dont wish my kids, be the last in the class..is it mean kiasu or ? :slapshead:

[kwokwc]

I don't really compare the results with others. But I will ask how did most kids fare to know where my kids standard. Then they will usually tell me the highest and lowest mark in class.


Usually just tell them to do their best. By P2, my 2 older kids more or less know where they stand and they will aim high themselves. They will know that they have made careless mistake, if not they can get how many more marks etc, they will accept all the scolding that we gave them for carelessness.

[tutormum]

snowball:

is it advisable to check with class teacher on the highest n lowest marks of each subject ? as i dont feel comfortable to check with other parents, i dont like to compare, but i need the \"medium\" mark to gauge my kid's standard ....

Some schools do provide this together with the report book. It is very useful for parents and eliminate the need to compare with other parents.

[tutormum]

snowball:

is it advisable to check with class teacher on the highest n lowest marks of each subject ? as i dont feel comfortable to check with other parents, i dont like to compare, but i need the \"medium\" mark to gauge my kid's standard ....

Some schools do provide this together with the report book. It is very useful for parents and eliminate the need to compare with other parents.

[coast]

verykiasu2010:

sometimes the kids do compare among themselves without the parents doing it


DS would come back and and said so and so how many marks....(usually those higher than his)...and that would be his next target...that bunch of boys are super competitive, can discuss amongst themselves for half a day for half a mark question to see who has got better answer......

Yes, boys are quite competitive (girls too?). I think healthy competition is good and serve as a motivation for them to do better. I told my ds that it is okay to lose ... what is important is to learn from his mistakes and try to do better the next time.

[coast]

Suz855:

I will set target with my girls and want them to out-perform them. I always warn them it is useless to compete with others as it is oneself that they have to outperform inorder to show continuous improvement and progress ... besides competing with their classmates also make them selfish and less likely to share knowledge and work cordially on school work together.


I would still ask them how their classmates are doing as it is always amazing to know that despite the school teaching so little (have to teach my girl all this while) yet come the assessments, all the kids will still manage to score very well ..... :oops:

I think school encourages healthy competition. Some teachers would mention to the whole class who score full marks or did very well for a test. Some would reward stickers (exchangeable for a gift after you accumulate a certain number). You do not have to \"win\" someone in order to get high scores or stickers so competing should not lead to selfishness?

[newuser]

DS compares but will always tell me he is one of the top. End of the day, the top is 97 and he is 80. He compares to console himself only.