Club FTWM

[micollh]

tigger88:

Ya, we met in another forum before we joined this one. Both our #1 and #2 are in the same age group. And we used to stay in the same estate. :rahrah:

ohh.. icic.. small small world.

[poppy15]

tigger88:

poppy15:

haha. her looks donch look like she's below 3... :laugh: :siam:

haha, poppy, true hor...have u seen her recent pics? She is not babyish anymore. I think your R also the same right?

yup, seen her pics... cannot bluff lah... haha
R also growing up alot too

[poppy15]

tigger88:

Ya, we met in another forum before we joined this one. Both our #1 and #2 are in the same age group. And we used to stay in the same estate. :rahrah:

:hi5:

[peapot]

Eventhough I may complain alot about my work but I still prefer working than staying at home. I realised I don’t mean it when I say "wow!! tai tai…wish I was one" Just say for the sake of saying. I m really odd, I guess many would prefer not to work.

[micollh]

peapot:

Eventhough I may complain alot about my work but I still prefer working than staying at home. I realised I don't mean it when I say \"wow!! tai tai...wish I was one\" Just say for the sake of saying. I m really odd, I guess many would prefer not to work.

i ever tried taking 2 weeks leave to stay at home with my DD (when she was much younger) and i swear i will not want to be a SAHM.. i feel it's very very tiring, worst than working, no rest time. u can only rest when our child is sleeping. and when u are at home u tend to \"over-stress\" by trying to do more things to entertain our kids, so ended up i was tired out. i feel when we work on weekdays, we some how balance out. we spend \"quality\" with them in the morning/evening/night/weekends, we will cherish more and we wont throw tantrum/shout at them that much cos u know kids sometimes drive us up the wall. i mean ceiling.. really.

and u r not odd at all. we are very \"useful\" to the society, we contribute, we make sure our husband are not being burden, we help ourselfs to a better retirement with cpf and of course more MONEY in our account. i feel i still find it hard if i need to ask money from my husband for my meal.. i used to pay on my own, cos hey, i can afford it, why should i ask? muahah..

and u may be surprised that many SAHM wanted to work but as they have no choice/choose to.. they stay home lor.. it's a choice.

and im glad i choose to work be it FTWM or Part-TimeWM.

[poppy15]

how i wish to hv the luxury of workin part time & getting a full time pay... muahahahah... dream on.


actually, working part time means i wld hv more time to surf KSP forum, :cheeky:
donch nid to worry if boss will breathe down ur neck; :rant:
donch hv to twist & turn ur head numerous time in case ur boss walk in all of a sudden :oops:

but i agree what micollh said - being a SAHM can drive us up the ceiling, even away from planet earth if we hv a choice :roll:

but again its up to the individual, choice or no choice.

[tigger88]

LKVM:

poppy15:

but i agree what micollh said - being a SAHM can drive us up the ceiling, even away from planet earth if we hv a choice :roll:

Yes agree with u and micollh... i am quite happy being FTWM cause that gives me freedom to spend my money however i want :dancing: :imcool: :boogie:

Totally agree...Though I would love to be a SAHM once in a while, i prefer to work as it gives me financial freedom and also some me time away from my kids to keep my sanity. :rahrah:

[peapot]

Not just having to look after the kids but also the need to face the maid!!! It will drive me crazy.

[poppy15]

LKVM:

peapot:

Not just having to look after the kids but also the need to face the maid!!! It will drive me crazy.

oh yeah... i think every weekend i surely have one heaty discussion with her :nailbite:

thot shd be arguement liao.. :lol:

[poppy15]

Happy \"Dumpling \" Festival to all mummies here