In-law problems?

[ImMeeMee]

pinky:

ImMeeMee:

Good to see fellow forrumers venting here and 'plotting' against the ILs. Its scheming :evil: (tongue-in-cheek) but sometimes we DILs just have to do something to stay sane.


My ILs are actually OK, except that our styles are very different, and DH refuses to stand by me at critical times. which gets me very frustrated and disappointed and sad.

I have much to learn at this thread.

:rahrah: :lovesite:

I guess by ranting and sharing, we can keep our blood pressure in check
and our sanity too especially if our spouses are those type who treat their family members better than to us :mad: :mad: :mad:

couldn't agree more!! :boogie: :boogie:

[janet88]

I don't know about the 'stand by me' part...all I know is I won't have high BP if I don't need to see THEM...so relieved and happy man :imcool:

Seeing them makes me so stressed...so I understand Bud's 10 year torture.

[missbluey]

janet_lee88:

I don't know about the 'stand by me' part...all I know is I won't have high BP if I don't need to see THEM...so relieved and happy man :imcool:

Seeing them makes me so stressed...so I understand Bud's 10 year torture.

i everyday see mil, i stressed!
always give \"great ideas\" out of the blue.

[bigsnoopy]

missbluey:

janet_lee88:

I don't know about the 'stand by me' part...all I know is I won't have high BP if I don't need to see THEM...so relieved and happy man :imcool:

Seeing them makes me so stressed...so I understand Bud's 10 year torture.

i everyday see mil, i stressed!
always give \"great ideas\" out of the blue.

Welcome to the club!

[janet88]

missbluey:

janet_lee88:

I don't know about the 'stand by me' part...all I know is I won't have high BP if I don't need to see THEM...so relieved and happy man :imcool:

Seeing them makes me so stressed...so I understand Bud's 10 year torture.

i everyday see mil, i stressed!
always give \"great ideas\" out of the blue.

Not to mention the backstabbing. To stay sane, it's better to see her less.

[Oppsgal]

One day, we would become MILs too... :faint:


So how to link better with DIL :?

[Oppsgal]

What happens to husband in the middle of inlaw problems?

[BeContented]

Oppsgal:

One day, we would become MILs too... :faint:


So how to link better with DIL :?

For me, it's......dun interfere too much into the way of life of the son's family.

[BeContented]

Oppsgal:

What happens to husband in the middle of inlaw problems?

:? :censored: act blur, say nothing unless one :faint:
:imdrowning: drown himself by going out for drinks
:laugh: laugh it off
:imanangel: act angelic to either the wife or mom
ignore and still ignore
:siam: go out for breather aka hide
:stupid: :rant: :frustrated: get equally stressed
:snuggles: look for #2????

[Oppsgal]

cwc:

Oppsgal:

What happens to husband in the middle of inlaw problems?

:? :censored: act blur, say nothing unless one :faint:
:imdrowning: drown himself by going out for drinks
:laugh: laugh it off
:imanangel: act angelic to either the wife or mom
ignore and still ignore
:siam: go out for breather aka hide
:stupid: :rant: :frustrated: get equally stressed
:snuggles: look for #2????

Lucky not add salt and vinegar. :laugh: