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      SAHM_TAN
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      constancet:
      Hi!

      I just stumbled upon this thread.
      I am a FTWM with 4 kids. 1.5yrs old, 3.5yrs old, 5yrs old and 8 yrs old.
      I have the help of my mum who stays over during wkdays and a maid, plus a very hands-on hubby.
      But still, i wish i can be sahm at times. So many things i wanna do with the kids, but no time at all.... 😞
      :welcome:

      Admire pple with more than 3 kids. Am stopping at 3, can't handle anymore πŸ˜„

      Good that you have such a great support system.

      If you seriously want to be a sahm, then suggest work out your expenses and income. If planning to be long term sahm, it will also good to project expenses as well.

      There's no one best arrangement. I choose to be a sahm because I really wanted to spend time with my kids and to take them out of cc. Of course now they are making me :frustrated: :lol: :lol:

      For the things you wish to do with them, you can consider to spread out over days when you are on leave

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        MintyMin
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        MOrning Ladies!!


        :welcome: constancet!!

        Well lucky u.. at least u have a hands-on DH.. my DH is not a hands-on person at all.. so most of the time only helper n me do the task.. Unless i HOLLER at him for help.. :mad:

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          Castle House
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          SAHM_TAN:
          Spent an hour in Pop last night, :moneyflies: πŸ˜„ . Shall not visit again till year end when need to prepare for P1.

          Morning Mummies..

          How much did you spend? I spent nearly S$100 buying all kinds of stationery.. book.. etc..

          Broke..

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            Castle House
            last edited by

            constancet:
            Hi!

            I just stumbled upon this thread.
            I am a FTWM with 4 kids. 1.5yrs old, 3.5yrs old, 5yrs old and 8 yrs old.
            I have the help of my mum who stays over during wkdays and a maid, plus a very hands-on hubby.
            But still, i wish i can be sahm at times. So many things i wanna do with the kids, but no time at all.... 😞
            :welcome:

            4 kids.. really not easy..

            I also wish I can be a sahm.. agree.. there are so much I want to do with my kids too... but financially really can't..

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              Castle House
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              celtricia:
              MOrning Ladies!!


              :welcome: constancet!!

              Well lucky u.. at least u have a hands-on DH.. my DH is not a hands-on person at all.. so most of the time only helper n me do the task.. Unless i HOLLER at him for help.. :mad:
              celtricia..

              Went to the Open House last Sat.. nothing much.. the Open House like fun fair to me.. haha.. they have games and food stall..

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                MintyMin
                last edited by

                Castle House:
                celtricia:

                MOrning Ladies!!


                :welcome: constancet!!

                Well lucky u.. at least u have a hands-on DH.. my DH is not a hands-on person at all.. so most of the time only helper n me do the task.. Unless i HOLLER at him for help.. :mad:

                celtricia..

                Went to the Open House last Sat.. nothing much.. the Open House like fun fair to me.. haha.. they have games and food stall..


                Castle House.. Open House like Fun Fair??@!! Weird leh..

                Last yr i went to BVPS one, they did a sch tour for us and show us the various ECAs, etc.. quite good leh..

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                  Castle House
                  last edited by

                  celtricia:


                  Castle House.. Open House like Fun Fair??@!! Weird leh..

                  Last yr i went to BVPS one, they did a sch tour for us and show us the various ECAs, etc.. quite good leh..
                  Ya.. like Fun Fair... got car race, big flatable slide.. need to buy coupons to play.. some food stall..

                  Of course, they got school tour.. they asked those 'Ambassdors' who are P3 students to do.. in my case..

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                    MintyMin
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                    Castle House:
                    celtricia:



                    Castle House.. Open House like Fun Fair??@!! Weird leh..

                    Last yr i went to BVPS one, they did a sch tour for us and show us the various ECAs, etc.. quite good leh..

                    Ya.. like Fun Fair... got car race, big flatable slide.. need to buy coupons to play.. some food stall..

                    Of course, they got school tour.. they asked those 'Ambassdors' who are P3 students to do.. in my case..


                    Yupz.. last yr the older students brought us around too.. quite nice..
                    Will c what they plan for tis yr.. πŸ˜„

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                      SAHM_TAN
                      last edited by

                      Castle House:
                      SAHM_TAN:

                      Spent an hour in Pop last night, :moneyflies: πŸ˜„ . Shall not visit again till year end when need to prepare for P1.


                      Morning Mummies..

                      How much did you spend? I spent nearly S$100 buying all kinds of stationery.. book.. etc..

                      Broke..

                      I spent $70 πŸ˜„

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                        MintyMin
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                        Morning Ladies!!


                        Howz everyone tis morning?

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