Club Only Child Club

[kiddo]

Tokidoki:

Welcome Glorfindel! Admire your persistence to concieve a child. It took a while too for me to concieve my DS. Was so happy last Aug when i know that i'm preggy again. Too bad, it was not meant to be. Still trying but seems like not much hope. I dun think i'm brave enuff like you to try IVF.

Lately my DS has been pestering me for a didi or meimei. I know he's lonely, can only tell him mummy will try harder.

:welcome: :ugogirl:
Dont' give up , stay healthy and happy for yourself and
your family :hugs:

[Tokidoki]

Thanks Glorfindel, WCW & kiddo for the encouragement. :hugs:


DS is 6, i'm actually enjoying the freedom now...Hb also qn if i'm serious abt starting all over again now...

[kiddo]

WCW:

Tokidoki:

Thanks Glorfindel, WCW & kiddo for the encouragement. :hugs:


DS is 6, i'm actually enjoying the freedom now...Hb also qn if i'm serious abt starting all over again now...

that's the same dilemma that i have... cant imagine babies crying sound, still scare when think of it haha... but when they smile or learn something new it melts all the hardwork away

Will be good to have at least 2 if you are up to it,
I have 2 misccarriages 6 months in between after DS is 4 yrs old,
so DH decide to stop, one of those high risk mummy.

Children are Angels from heaven :love:

[Angelight]

Agree with kiddo - children are gifts from heaven. It's not up to us to have as many as we would like to have. Of cos, some women are more blessed in that their bodies can conceive and give birth easily. So they can have 2 or more with no sweat. But others like all of us here just have to be content with our only 'bao bei'. :love:


Luckily DD never pesters me for a 'di di' or 'mei mei'. She is very happy to be only child, no need to share mummy and daddy's affection.

P.S.- kiddo, take care of your health. Too many miscarriages can be bad for the body. :hugs:

[kiddo]

Angelight:

P.S.- kiddo, take care of your health. Too many miscarriages can be bad for the body. :hugs:

Thanks Angelight :snuggles: DS is now 15 so
The nest is a little quiet now ......

2 Man and a Mummy not much noise in the house, can imagine who make the most noise :rotflmao:

[kiddo]

WCW:

kiddo:

Will be good to have at least 2 if you are up to it,

I have 2 misccarriages 6 months in between after DS is 4 yrs old,
so DH decide to stop, one of those high risk mummy.

Children are Angels from heaven :love:

yes... but i had an ectopic pregancy last yr, chances of getting preggie again is very low... so we just take it easy now, if we are blessed w #2 then good... if not it's ok we still have DS

You still very young wor :hugs: ....... crusie along the Stork might be too busy with dragon babies heheee ,
want try for a Dragonite :boogie: or a Dragonitess :boogie:

[Angelight]

Kiddo, your DS so big already ah?! Wow, then you have time to pursue your own interests and hobbies now, can even go hi-tea or shopping with friends... And then soon he will have GF, and you will have a future DIL, so that makes 2 women and 2 men, equal liao...


I still have to \"tan koo koo\" cos DD just turning 4 only.

kiddo:

Angelight:

P.S.- kiddo, take care of your health. Too many miscarriages can be bad for the body. :hugs:

Thanks Angelight :snuggles: DS is now 15 so
The nest is a little quiet now ......

2 Man and a Mummy not much noise in the house, can imagine who make the most noise :rotflmao:

[Tokidoki]

kiddo:

Will be good to have at least 2 if you are up to it,

I have 2 misccarriages 6 months in between after DS is 4 yrs old,
so DH decide to stop, one of those high risk mummy.

Children are Angels from heaven :love:

wow...must be tough on you. :salute:

DS was quite diff to take care when young, plus long working hrs so wasn't really keen to try initially. Now when i feel that i'm ready, seem to be too late.

[Tokidoki]

WCW:

yes... but i had an ectopic pregancy last yr, chances of getting preggie again is very low... so we just take it easy now, if we are blessed w #2 then good... if not it's ok we still have DS

ectopic is so dangerous...you take care too. :hugs:

[Tokidoki]

Angelight:

Agree with kiddo - children are gifts from heaven. It's not up to us to have as many as we would like to have. Of cos, some women are more blessed in that their bodies can conceive and give birth easily. So they can have 2 or more with no sweat. But others like all of us here just have to be content with our only 'bao bei'. :love:


Luckily DD never pesters me for a 'di di' or 'mei mei'. She is very happy to be only child, no need to share mummy and daddy's affection.

P.S.- kiddo, take care of your health. Too many miscarriages can be bad for the body. :hugs:

yah...so envy of those who try and will succeed...get very frustrated when these pple make insensitive comment like why DS so big already, still dun want another one. :mad:

seem like most of us here are sort of 'forced' to stop at one kid. :sad: