Club Only Child Club

[kiddo]

WCW:

Tokidoki:

[quote=\"WCW\"]yes... but i had an ectopic pregancy last yr, chances of getting preggie again is very low... so we just take it easy now, if we are blessed w #2 then good... if not it's ok we still have DS

ectopic is so dangerous...you take care too. :hugs:

thanks dear
:hugs:[/quote] :snuggles:

[kiddo]

WCW:

kiddo:

:snuggles:

niang niang, why u

Just asking you to take care of your well being and health,
as a woman we multi task a lot especially FTWM.
:snuggles: :hugs:

Good Morning :snooze:

[Tokidoki]

WCW:

yes... like this right :?

http://www.glitter-graphics.com

:goodpost: but computer missing for us to llls in KSP. :rotflmao:

[Trina]

For those who are trying to have another baby, don’t be discouraged. There’s always hope.


Just to share. I joined this club early last year and was relieved to know that there are other parents in my same shoes. My DD is 9 years old and I had been trying for the past 6 years to give her a mei-mei which was what she wanted. Unfortunately nothing happened, not even a miscarriage. Attempt at IVF failed and I was devastated. One parent commented that I was lucky not to experience the pain of miscarriage but I disagree cos it meant that I even have problem conceiving. So I started " brain-washing " DD that it was good to be the only child. Just as I had given up trying and surrendered everything to God, a miracle happened!! I conceived DD2 naturally and gave birth to her last week just after I turned 40!! So you see, there’s always hope.

I guess I have to quit this club now that I have DD2. For those who are trying to expand your family, don’t give up. A miracle may happen to you too!

P.s. DD1 now says that she wants to be only child although she loves her little sister. Guess I have to undo the initial "brain washing"

[Tokidoki]

Trina, thanks for sharing your story!


Congrats on the birth of DD2! :rahrah:

[Angelight]

Today out of the blue, DD asked me why I don't give her a baby (meaning sibling)? :shock: Not sure how to answer her, I told her to ask the \"big man\" up above (God) and to pray for it if she really wants a baby bro or sis. But inside my heart feeling a little sad...maybe DD is feeling lonely... :sad:


Any mummies got similar experiences?

[Tokidoki]

Angelight:

Today out of the blue, DD asked me why I don't give her a baby (meaning sibling)? :shock: Not sure how to answer her, I told her to ask the \"big man\" up above (God) and to pray for it if she really wants a baby bro or sis. But inside my heart feeling a little sad...maybe DD is feeling lonely... :sad:


Any mummies got similar experiences?

My DS also request for sibling like requesting for a new toy. :faint:

Did she tell you what trigger this? Mine was bcoz he found out he & another classmate are the only 2 w/o siblings.

Yah, feel sad too. 1 more person to stress me.

So are you trying for 2nd one? How old is ur DD? Mine is 6 yrs old already.
:sad:

[auntieM]

I brainwash my boy too much I guess.. ..He will tell you no thanks if asked whether he wants a sibling :razz:

Most of his classmates are only child and I suppose being the only one at home goes well with my DS at this point..

[omgmum]

My girl hasn’t started asking for a younger sibling yet, but I know that she really likes babies cos she’s fascinated by them, and she’s actually quite good with them too, even though she’s only 2.


So I’m bracing myself for the day when she’ll start asking for a sister or a brother. It’s quite sad, cos I can tell that she really enjoys being around other kids.

[Tokidoki]

auntieM & omgmum, so both of you firm abt stopping at 1?