All About Autism

[kiddo]

pingsped:

ImMeeMee:

but recently i have been progressively thinking about going part-time, so that i can spend more time with the family, especially dd3. the next 2 years will also be more crucial, as dd3 goes into the k1k2 stage and school placement options become a real issue.

so do share. TIA.

FTWM vs SAHM

Most kids with moderate form of autism, (esp kids whose cognitive and behv profile are \"borderline\" - either mainstream/special school) show faster improvement if one parent is not working or working part-time.

Cos it's the closest thing to having therapy everyday.

I think most experienced therapists and PDs know that as we can see the difference, esp for parents who have higher education. Just look at the profile of kids & family background in Pathlight School & Rainbow Ctr (ASD program)

pingsped, IMM HI,

I am no expert but think if Parents with child that need special attention,
If they can manage it , PTWM or SAHM rather than a FTWM will definitely benefit the child a lot because the mother will there to understand the need of the child better and made appropriate intervention on a daily basis small step to weir the child to the right progress.

Then with the time available, band in with parents with similar experience
along the way will help educate ourself and thus help better understand
the child unique needs.

Hope this is a little thot for you to go SAHM /PTWM. :hi5:

[ImMeeMee]

thanks kiddo. your words have sort of confirmed something deep in my heart. Actually I guess my words have sort of given me away in the first place in one way or another, its just that I need to go through this exercise to bring my thoughts to the open.


I recall there was one period where I was 24/7 SAHM, but ended up frustrating everyone else cos that has never been my strength. so i do feel apprehensive to go into this again, cos I do not want to end up getting everyone and myself unhappy in the long run. its a mindset issue, but its easier said than done to change. I try, but I do not succeed all the time.

Again its a struggle to go through, just like all the rest.

[pingsped]

ImMeeMee:

I recall there was one period where I was 24/7 SAHM, but ended up frustrating everyone else cos that has never been my strength. so i do feel apprehensive to go into this again, cos I do not want to end up getting everyone and myself unhappy in the long run. its a mindset issue, but its easier said than done to change. I try, but I do not succeed all the time.

Again its a struggle to go through, just like all the rest.

Parents with explosive temperament should avoid teaching their kids until they get a hold of themselves. There is a period of grieving/recovery that every parent goes through. It is part of the process.

You sound like a really nice mummy, so I think you will succeed if you work closely with your therapist. If realistic goals are set, your child is bound to improve. Have faith in yourself and your child.

If you feel your child's growth has plateaued or :imdrowning: , seek help from other parents, the forums or even the internet.

:rahrah: :rahrah: :rahrah:

[kiddo]

ImMeeMee:

thanks kiddo. your words have sort of confirmed something deep in my heart. Actually I guess my words have sort of given me away in the first place in one way or another, its just that I need to go through this exercise to bring my thoughts to the open.


I recall there was one period where I was 24/7 SAHM, but ended up frustrating everyone else cos that has never been my strength. so i do feel apprehensive to go into this again, cos I do not want to end up getting everyone and myself unhappy in the long run. its a mindset issue, but its easier said than done to change. I try, but I do not succeed all the time.

Again its a struggle to go through, just like all the rest.

I will not then in your case go SAHM yet,or go on a short term
until a point where you need to go back and find yourself again.
Change to suit might be better for the situation :hi5:

But you need to shuttle being a caregiver and be with yourself, some of the impossible are a little beyond us.
I know what it like because I have try before to do the impossible and
think it the best for someone close , but it backfired and make me
stop and reflect my own strength and ability to handle.

If I cannot get out of my own skin how do I face the issue day in day
out with certain expectation of the outcome.
And also if it falls below, what we do ?

Just a little thot from my perspective, if it help clear a few
mist in your thot , I am happy :hugs: :snuggles:

[quirkymum]

Any recommendations for a good speech therapist for autistic kids? My sister's child is autistic. She is 7, goes to a normal school but has problem with her speech. I do not know if it is a speech problem or a behaviour problem and my sister is very troubled as her daughter gets bullied in school as she cannot speak very well. :sad:

[quirkymum]

Or anyone knows any good behaviour therapist?

[windie]

My son is struggling with math concepts, does anyone have any good ideas on how to teach him addition?

Thanks in advance!

[ImMeeMee]

kiddo:

I will not then in your case go SAHM yet,or go on a short term
until a point where you need to go back and find yourself again.
Change to suit might be better for the situation :hi5:

But you need to shuttle being a caregiver and be with yourself, some of the impossible are a little beyond us.
I know what it like because I have try before to do the impossible and
think it the best for someone close , but it backfired and make me
stop and reflect my own strength and ability to handle.

If I cannot get out of my own skin how do I face the issue day in day
out with certain expectation of the outcome.
And also if it falls below, what we do ?

Just a little thot from my perspective, if it help clear a few
mist in your thot , I am happy :hugs: :snuggles:

thanks kiddo, yes your words are helpful. i guess its a case of adapting all the time until you find the right fit. somewhere.

i'm still finding that fit. wish me luck.

[pingsped]

windie:

My son is struggling with math concepts, does anyone have any good ideas on how to teach him addition?

Thanks in advance!

You can look up Montessori math if your boy is in k1-2. This method builds good foundation but may take some time to go fr concrete to abstract (mental computation). I dont recommend this Method for kids in primary Sch cos it can take quite long to master/teach.


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http://livingmontessorinow.com/2011/08/08/montessori-monday-diy-bead-bars/
http://www.montessorimom.com/short-bead-stair/
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[mommasays]

bbforest:

Original Title: Adv: Autism suspected


Hi,

I happen to bring my son to a friend's house. They have 2 children about the same age with my son. His behaviour catch the attention of my friend's who is a playgroup teacher, he ask me if I have suspected that my son have Autism. My son don't seem to be interested to play with other children, and there is some delay in speech.

I started to read up articles and research in the internet, and it worry me more. When I see that there are a few signs of Autism.

Here are some signs to look for in the children in your life:
Lack of or delay in spoken language
Repetitive use of language and/or motor mannerisms (e.g., hand-flapping, twirling objects)
Little or no eye contact
Lack of interest in peer relationships
Lack of spontaneous or make-believe play
Persistent fixation on parts of objects


Is there any parent who have ever had this experience to share?

http://www.autism.com/index.asp

My nephew's exactly like how you described, it got us all (espcially my sister) so worried she began losing so much sleep over it. But we brought him to a specialist and no, the doctor didn't think it was autism, simply dismissed it as slower development. He's about 3+ now, but still can't speak properly. His 's'es particularly cannot be pronounced. And he's v bad with people. Hope he improves soon. I can imagine how you feel.