10 yr old boy insult 61 yr old auntie
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no respect at all…especially for a 10 yr old boy. Back to our times, we are not even allowed to raise our voices on elder ppl.
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the child learns from the parents
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The parents are themselves rude, arrogant and disrespectful. Their child will not grow up to be any better.
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Hopefully this story is a good learning point and reminder for us as parents. Whatever the child is or do negatively, it is the parents who will be pointed out first, rightfully or wrongfully…it is a lifetime responsibility that we have to bear.
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This sounds horrible. I can bet that my kids will not be able to get off scotch-free if they did this. Daddy will be hot on their heels. :mad: :nunchuk:
Gauging from the source of the new : Shin Min, I would discount it by 30% and perhaps give the other side a chance to explain. I think the events are right but dunno if they are half-truths. :? -
at 10 yrs old, a kid is capable of ‘name dropping’ to support whatever cause he is putting up, be it true or not that the person did say or do that.
While the boy and the parents may not have been model kid and parents, in this case I think the parents do have grounds for complains. Being an adult she should not have mocked the kid even if he had been rude to her. She can talk to the parents about the boy’s behaviour on the pretext of the boy’s safety but she is wrong in critcising the parents and telling them that the boy will be ‘beaten up’ if not taken into hand. -
Quite true, auntie is no angel either. But then for a person her age, to have been mocked by a 10yr old, it must not have been easy to stomach.
And yes, I take this as a positive learning opportunity for myself - have to be careful what I tell my kids and how I phrase it. at times, I did tell them if you dun study, you’ll end up as a "…". Sigh, these are pretty useful becos it’s something concrete and they can visualise but then if it’s used as something to insult, then it’ll be very wrong. -
Based on the auntie side of story the parents is surely in fault for overly protecting the child.. but on the other side, the tone of the way the elder had feedback to the parent could have also offended the parents to react as 'you watch out'.. Not sure exactly who is in fault
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Parents should educate their child not to play on moving vehicles be it MRT, Bus or Car.. Its very dangerous.. Parents should also educate their child to speak with respect..
The child's behavior shows that both parents are not educating him instead allowing him to do so.. -
if it is my child who end up like this, the child will get whacked from me first, it is a disgrace
for me and my family only. no stone throwing please :evil: :evil: -
verykiasu2010:
I totally concur !if it is my child who end up like this, the child will get whacked from me first, it is a disgrace
But definitely it was the mother's overly protectivie and pampering, which led to the boy's initial comments. However, for a 10 yr old, the boy should know right from wrong already, and respect and manners, which obviously were lacking from home lessons. If a kid btw 5 to 7, they usually repeat parents' comments unknowingly, 10 ? Should whack liao :spank: :spank:
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