12mum::goodpost:Hi, I think every school does things differently. My kids had very little work/spelling etc when they were in p1/2. Friends' kids in neighbourhood schools have tons of work/tests the minute they started p1.
Also it is pretty normal for people to drift apart when they go in different directions and in this case is different school. However there are also people who are snobbish. And maybe you are better off without this group of friends. However this could also be a misunderstanding and you are over sensitive abt people looking down at your child being in a neighbourhood school.
the most important thing is your child must be happy and learning in school. The journey is long and you are at the starting point. Don't freak out now.
As to being afraid that the child is losing out to those who have more homework/tests etc, I am sure the school will prepare the child well for Psle.
Don't even think of buying and doing all the assessments books / popular schools exam papers so as not to be on the losing end. This is damaging to the child and parents.
加油!只有你才能打倒自己,千万不要输给自己。 :rahrah:
Yes, think positively. Our kids need our encouragement and support.