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      LOLMum
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      smartmummy:


      Whenever I seek my DH help.He said hire a maid then u can study and go gym.I don't want maid in my life.If I go to work also I don't want maid.I had a bad experience with maid.I am happy with my work if my DH give a hand.If he free also he just lazy to do chores.

      likewise, dh has been asking me to get a maid. but kids and i are against it cos it feels so good not to have an outsider at home.

      but cooking is a major problem................ :sad:

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        Angelight
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        Consider tingkat delivery, eat out, buy back, eat at in-laws or parents' places. Just a few suggestions. ๐Ÿ™‚

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          LOLMum
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          tried tingkat - none of us like it.


          no parents or pilsโ€™ to go to but dine once a week at sisโ€™s place. the rest of the time will have to depend on myself.

          so dont like also got to cook, cant cook well also got to cook. just have to spend a bit more time in kitchen thats all.

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            smartmummy
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            jedamum:
            i dun like cooking.

            after cooking lunch, have to face a sinkful of dishes.
            then 1-2hrs later, have to prepare dinner then face a sinkful of dishes used for preparing dinner.
            then 1-2hrs later, have to eat dinner then face a sinkful of dishes.
            :imdrowning:
            cooking is not a problem, If we cook three times a day then need to wash whole day.

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              smartmummy
              last edited by

              Angelight:
              Consider tingkat delivery, eat out, buy back, eat at in-laws or parents' places. Just a few suggestions. ๐Ÿ™‚

              ๐Ÿ˜† we often buy from shops.Now shop food also we hate,better to cook and eat healthy and happy.

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                sleepy
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                LOLMum:

                dont like also got to cook, cant cook well also got to cook.
                Me too. Dislike cooking but can't :siam: because it's part of job description

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                  ectanz
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                  smartmummy:
                  jedamum:

                  i dun like cooking.

                  after cooking lunch, have to face a sinkful of dishes.
                  then 1-2hrs later, have to prepare dinner then face a sinkful of dishes used for preparing dinner.
                  then 1-2hrs later, have to eat dinner then face a sinkful of dishes.
                  :imdrowning:

                  cooking is not a problem, If we cook three times a day then need to wash whole day.

                  Yes agreed. This is why I don't cook deep-frying stuff. Either steam, pan-fry or using conventional oven. If we wanted to eat deep-frying stuff, normally we will buy from outside. As such, it won't really mess up my kitchen n i won't hv hard time to clean it.

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                    LOLMum
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                    smartmummy:
                    cooking is not a problem, If we cook three times a day then need to wash whole day.


                    good for you that cooking is not a problem, dear. maybe you should look at getting a dishwasher. and remember to apply lots and lots of cream on hands. :snuggles:

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                      smartmummy
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                      LOLMum:
                      smartmummy:

                      cooking is not a problem, If we cook three times a day then need to wash whole day.



                      good for you that cooking is not a problem, dear. maybe you should look at getting a dishwasher. and remember to apply lots and lots of cream on hands. :snuggles:

                      yah LOLMum, thats true.My hands are so dry.Every time I apply cream.Thanks for ur concern. :snuggles: I heard we cannot buy dishwasher here, maybe we can import from uk.That soooooo expensive.Why in Singapore they don't sell.I think most houses no need.If we have in Singapore we no need to depend on maid.

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                        ectanz
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                        sleepy:
                        LOLMum:


                        dont like also got to cook, cant cook well also got to cook.

                        Me too. Dislike cooking but can't :siam: because it's part of job description

                        Hi sleepy same situation as you. :hugs:

                        Previously, still got excuse to :siam: cooking due to work commitment. But now as SAHM, cannot :siam: . No excuse already..... ๐Ÿ˜ข
                        Also avoid my MIL's nagging, but to cook daily (weekend dine out).

                        I think being a SAHM has an unexpected long list of job description.....tat involves a lot of adhoc situation.

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