Childcare or no Childcare?
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GapOf15:
Sick every other month...? How does the CC handles sick kids, do they allow sick children to come to CC..? Current CC doesn't allow kids with fever to enter the CC, any spots on the body and they will call to have your kid brought to a doctor to check. Need doctor's letter to certify that your child is ok to attend CC. Parents also play a part, if your kid is coughing badly, best to stay at home as it will spread to other children.I started CC for my DD2 when she was 3.5 years old and now she is 5.
Before: Healthy, confident, sensitive, caring and speak only Ebglish.
After : Sick almost every other month, caught with HFM once, lack confident, less sensitive and still speak only English.
What worry me most is that, she is not at all prepared for P1.
CC separates the child if she's not feeling well. He or she will be in the principal's room to rest.
Your DD2 is 2006 right :)? Don't worry, she's k1 and it is still early to be ready for P1. My DD2 is nowhere even K2 standard , still in her little dreamland
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Monster Mummy:
Hi Monster Mummy,Hi DesertWind,
Sorry for this question, is the child has faced with delay speech before 3 years old. If that the case, some kids might delay a bit so the family can try to teach him by usual communication. There is no worry, if there is still worry. You can try to talk to the teacher in the kindgertan.
My boy now coming to 4 yo already but still not very verbal/conversational. He is starting to say more and more words and 2 or 3 words and we have just put him on weekly speech therapy to learn how to talk to him and encourage him to speak up more!
Have spoken to his kindy teachers but I don't think they can help much. Either they say they are too busy handling their large class size or straight-away say they are not trained to handle \"such kids\". :sad:
Am still a sotong mummy praying each day to have more wisdom to be able to make good decisions and know what to do to help my kid!
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GapOf15:
Oh dear, any plans for you to change CC or something?I started CC for my DD2 when she was 3.5 years old and now she is 5.
Before: Healthy, confident, sensitive, caring and speak only Ebglish.
After : Sick almost every other month, caught with HFM once, lack confident, less sensitive and still speak only English.
What worry me most is that, she is not at all prepared for P1.
I recently visited a CCC because I was also toying with the idea of putting my boy into full day CCC for him to be \"independant\". That CCC was full house and quite popular with a waiting list. But the kids there most of them look so miserable with red eyes (look like just stopped crying) and/or with running nose.
Feel quite heart-pain because at their young age (pre-N or N), I am sure what they want most is to be at home with their mummies!
So dropped the idea lor since I have maid at home to look after my boy (also not an ideal situation I know!).
I know a lot of parents have got no choice but to send kid to full-day CCC but really pity the young kids!
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DesertWind:
Hi DesertWind,
Hi Monster Mummy,
My boy now coming to 4 yo already but still not very verbal/conversational. He is starting to say more and more words and 2 or 3 words and we have just put him on weekly speech therapy to learn how to talk to him and encourage him to speak up more!
Have spoken to his kindy teachers but I don't think they can help much. Either they say they are too busy handling their large class size or straight-away say they are not trained to handle \"such kids\". :sad:
Am still a sotong mummy praying each day to have more wisdom to be able to make good decisions and know what to do to help my kid!
No worry, be strong as some kids develop in slower pace for certain skills. For my boy, his speech also a bit delay in the early stage but now he keep on talking non-stop. As a parent, we will try our means and ways to support them. -
Monster Mummy:
Thanks for the encouragement, Monster Mummy!
Hi DesertWind,
No worry, be strong as some kids develop in slower pace for certain skills. For my boy, his speech also a bit delay in the early stage but now he keep on talking non-stop. As a parent, we will try our means and ways to support them.
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I think it is normal for kids to not want to part with their parents, esp their moms. I hesitated on whether to send my daughter to preschool as well. She is quite sticky and also I’ve heard many bad experiences about preschools from my friends and all. But I think this is their prime age of which they are growing and learning at their best. I recently went to check out different preschools just to compare. I personally like mindchamps preschool environment and programmes. They have awesome curriculum and a safe environment… All the kids there look really happy.
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Hi,
We understand that if children does not want to part with parents when they are in new environment. For this, I will say that as a mom I will still let them try out and observe. But if it is really after few months, the child is getting more reserved, we will say that there might be something that they does not like or environment does not suit them. Then I will say that we will need to start to look for new pre-school for them. -
Sigh...childcare or no childcare? This is the question I have right now... and it leads me to this thread...
The relatively good CCCs are very popular so they have no vacancies already. The ones remaining are either newly opened or not popular for obvious reasons. So there are not many choices left.
If no childcare, then gotta find a preschool and get someone to help take the child to and from school. Same thing, the relatively good preschools are full so not many choices left again.
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Hi Gaffy,
I’ve 3 kids and have tried half-day CC, Full-day CC, and preschool. For my 2 older ones, they started half-day CC when they turned 2 years old and then I switched them to full-day CC when they were K1-K2.
For DS3, he went to half-day CC for one year and then switch to preschool for 3 years.
For my 2 older ones, they went to Montessori-based CC.I had to switch DS1 when he was in K2 because I discovered he was still struggling to read after 3 years of doing phonics!! I realized it’s not so much the system of teaching but the Principal & teachers do not take my feedback seriously - kept thinking I’m over-reacting. I finally bite the bullet and switched to another CC - one that was willing to work with me to help my children. So at the next CC, my priority was finding a CC with a good reading system and Principals & teachers who are willing to listen to parents & work with you. This was Faith Montessori at Bukit Timah. Initally I was full of doubts about how I might find a CC that would take my kids at K1 & K2!! But I realized if I had chosen this path, then the path will open up for me and I just need to be persistent in my search.
My DS3 went to Faith Montessori for 1 year but kept falling sick because of his severe rhinitis and doctor said he needs to be in a non-aircon environment. I made the painful decision once again to switch DS3 to a non-aircon pre-school so that his immunity will not be compromised severely. He’s been with Arts Kidz at Tiong Bahru for 3 years and hardly falls sick there and academically he has blossomed very well. For the first 3-4 months, he hardly spoke a word in school and was so shy but he’s grown so mature & confident since then.
From my experience with my 3 kids, I found that my decision-making was guided by the developmental needs of my children. The 2 older kids needed more help in terms of reading and academics and Faith Montessori was flexible enough to meet my needs. For eg, for K1-K2 kids, children don’t need to nap and they also have a time-slot for more traditional classroom teaching so that the kids can transit to Primary school more easily instead of the "free-flow" classroom in a Montessori environment - I like that blended approach. They also had a good English & Chinese reading system in place.
For DS3, I was guided by his Health needs and so my Criteria shifted to non-aircon environment being the top priority while academic became secondary. If a child is sick often, he can’t absorb much learning. I’m glad i made this decision because DS3 has become so much stronger and healthier because the home & school environment was conducive for his immunity.
In short, consider what are your primary criteria and what are your secondary criteria and each child will have their own unique needs and let their needs guide your decision. -
Hi beanbear, thank you very much for sharing! Really appreciate it! Hope things will work out okay for me and my child eventually. :xedfingers:
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